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Panto with a 7mo - stupid?

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Pleasestopjumpingonthesofa · 04/12/2025 14:19

I'm currently pregnant with our first child, and they will be roughly 6/7months old in December next year. We've gone to the panto in Canterbury every year for the last few as a couple and with friends. I know that a baby that age won't get anything out of the panto themselves, and I've checked that babies that age are allowed in (they are, with limits on numbers).

What I don't know is if it's a totally terrible idea to even try and go with a little one that age! I (obviously) have never had a child, and haven't really been around little ones much in the last decade so I've forgotten what nieces and nephews were like at that age.

If (big if) we did book, we'd get all the seats protection etc possible and we'd accept that if closer to the time it looked impossible due to illness/baby stage/how they cope/how we're coping, then we'd lose the money and that's doable. But it's one of my favourite bits of December so if there is any chance it could work it would be nice to try.

This year's visit is coming up soon so I'm going to keep my eyes peeled for little ones and see if people are going in and out with them etc. I don't mind the panto being disrupted for myself/husband (likely me if I can breastfeed as planned) but don't want to be a total pain to everyone else - I think there's specific sessions aimed at younger ones/people who struggle with the typical panto experience, so lights on and quieter music etc that we could look at. We'd go for a late morning performance most likely (does that tend to be nap time?).

Really long post sorry but...opinions from people who actually know what babies are like!? Help!

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Pleasestopjumpingonthesofa · 04/12/2025 14:22

Another pertinent point - tickets book up quickly, so we can't really "wait and see closer to the time" - we'd have to book them before birth to guarantee tickets

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OneOrTheOther · 04/12/2025 14:23

We took ours at 6 months old. She obviously didn't have a clue what was going on, but she liked all the shiny lights and the colours and DH and I liked the fact we were starting our annual panto tradition with her, even at age 0. We've just taken her to her 4th this year. And it's getting better and better each year

As a 6 month old it was ideal. She was portable, I just fed her if she started to cry. As an 18 month old I kept her entertained with vast amounts of snacks. As a 2.5 year old she started to like the songs and the dancing. And this year, at 3.5 years old, she joined in with the "he's behind you" and "booooooo!" and my heart just melted

ChipDaleRescueRangers · 04/12/2025 14:24

Get some ear defenders and take the baby. A good family tradition.

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NuffSaidSam · 04/12/2025 14:24

Book the tickets and decide nearer the time. You can always sell them on if you decide it isn't possible.

It's best not to overthink these things.

In terms of whether it will be ok...it'll be entirely baby dependent. Maybe it will, maybe it won't. I think your best option might be finding a babysitter that you trust before December next year and having a nice time with your DH sans baby.

Beamur · 04/12/2025 14:27

Pantos generally have lots of children attending so are not quiet hushed affairs.
Sit on an end and if baby starts getting cranky, then take them into the lobby.
Should be fine.

HamSandwichKiller · 04/12/2025 14:28

No one will know what your baby will be like, just theirs ☺️ Mine could sit through theatre shows from an early age but I can imagine it could go the other way depending on temperament. It entirely depends on your willingness to potentially lose the money you spent on tickets.

Pleasestopjumpingonthesofa · 04/12/2025 14:31

@OneOrTheOther this sounds so sweet! Also gives me hope - my husband is much more "we'll figure it out, let's just book" than me but I think I am going to need to get over my worry about disturbing people quickly when the baby arrives!

@NuffSaidSam good point on reselling! I also thought if it's obviously not going to work closer to the time, I can stay away with baby (it's my husband's friends, that's the only reason I'm assuming I'd skip!) and then we only lose out on one ticket, I can meet them for lunch after. We aren't particularly local to Canterbury which makes babysitter a bit more tough in this situation

@Beamur yes, I've been irritated (and kept my mouth shut, I'm not an ogre!) by other kids before so I'm well aware that a) we might annoy people and b) they'll just have to get on with it (within reason - we'd of course take them out if crying etc)

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Pleasestopjumpingonthesofa · 04/12/2025 14:32

Thank you everyone - sorry if I missed someone, I read them all. @HamSandwichKiller I know, you're totally right, but if I had 90 people saying "god no sounds awful" and 2 saying "go for it!" then it would probably help make up my mind haha

Sounds like we'll have to check the prices, have a discussion about cost, and book strategically (end of row, quick exit etc)

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Peonies12 · 04/12/2025 14:33

Haha enjoy the head space to think this much about an event in a years time (or just anything). Wait til you have a baby and you won't know what month it is. Just get tickets if you want to go, but sounds like a terrible idea to me, my baby would have been so bored. But you couldn't pay me enough to go to a pantomime, my kid will have to find someone else to take them when she's older!

Pleasestopjumpingonthesofa · 04/12/2025 14:39

@Peonies12 believe me, I'd love to be overthinking this less! To be fair, I'm thinking about it because we generally book after we've attended, which means in the next two weeks. Once it's booked I won't think about it again until November next year!

I never went to pantomimes growing up except for one the parents at my primary school put on a couple of times and don't feel like I particularly missed out - yours will be fine.

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