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Formula - can’t take to food bank

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Sunndays43226 · 04/12/2025 08:30

Hi! My local food banks don’t accept formula and I have 4 packs of the ready made bottles (6 x 200 ml in a pack) that is in date for six months ish and I don’t need! I don’t want it to go to waste! Any suggestions where else I can take it? There’s our local FB page of course but tbh it’s an affluent area and I’d prefer it went to a mum who may need the help more.

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LavenderBlue19 · 04/12/2025 09:44

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:26

Because giving away free formula can undermine breastfeeding and cause a mum to lose her milk supply. Of a breastfeeding mum is struggling she needs food for herself, not formula for the baby. It’s not about switching brands etc, all formula is nutritionally the same.

If a breastfeeding mum is struggling she might well need formula, to feed her baby while she either gets some support, or starts to switch to formula.

Unfortunately feeding the mum doesn't resolve all breastfeeding problems 🙄

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:50

Coffeeishot · 04/12/2025 09:30

What are you talking about?

If a breastfeeding mum supplements with formula it reduces her milk supply, making it more likely that she’ll stop breastfeeding and switch to formula completely. Not only is this detrimental to the health of mum and baby, it’s an added financial strain.

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:52

LavenderBlue19 · 04/12/2025 09:44

If a breastfeeding mum is struggling she might well need formula, to feed her baby while she either gets some support, or starts to switch to formula.

Unfortunately feeding the mum doesn't resolve all breastfeeding problems 🙄

Food banks are there to provide nutrition for those in financial distress, they are not there to help mums struggling with breastfeeding. A mum that needs help with breastfeeding issues needs to get breastfeeding support, not formula Hmm

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Sadcafe · 04/12/2025 09:53

Some food banks do take it, they just don’t use it themselves, rather pass it on via things like social media to people who use that specific type

Coffeeishot · 04/12/2025 09:54

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:50

If a breastfeeding mum supplements with formula it reduces her milk supply, making it more likely that she’ll stop breastfeeding and switch to formula completely. Not only is this detrimental to the health of mum and baby, it’s an added financial strain.

Yes I understand this what has that to do with donated milk, if someone chooses to formula feed their child that has nothing to do with anything.

groby · 04/12/2025 09:57

Barrenfieldoffucks · 04/12/2025 08:47

Because guidelines are that parents don't chop and change formula types.

They’ve all got the same ingredients - by law.

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:58

Coffeeishot · 04/12/2025 09:54

Yes I understand this what has that to do with donated milk, if someone chooses to formula feed their child that has nothing to do with anything.

I don’t know how to explain it in simpler terms. It’s not about refusing to give formula to existing formula fed babies, it’s about not giving it to breastfeeding mums.

Catpiece · 04/12/2025 10:00

VikaOlson · 04/12/2025 08:50

Formula is the kind of thing you need a steady supply of so food banks want to avoid families being reliant on them - they would refer you to your health visitor.

Oh I didn’t know this. That’s a shame. I took two large unopened tubs of Aptimil to our local food bank. It was unstaffed so I left them on the counter.

Barrenfieldoffucks · 05/12/2025 17:30

Catpiece · 04/12/2025 10:00

Oh I didn’t know this. That’s a shame. I took two large unopened tubs of Aptimil to our local food bank. It was unstaffed so I left them on the counter.

They won't have ditched it, it will go to local outreach teams etc .

Catpiece · 06/12/2025 12:04

Barrenfieldoffucks · 05/12/2025 17:30

They won't have ditched it, it will go to local outreach teams etc .

Thank you 🙏🏻

EchoedSilence · 06/12/2025 12:10

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:58

I don’t know how to explain it in simpler terms. It’s not about refusing to give formula to existing formula fed babies, it’s about not giving it to breastfeeding mums.

Maybe some breast feeding mums want to switch to formula without someone saying they can't.

EmmaOvary · 06/12/2025 12:12

MarvellousMonsters · 04/12/2025 09:52

Food banks are there to provide nutrition for those in financial distress, they are not there to help mums struggling with breastfeeding. A mum that needs help with breastfeeding issues needs to get breastfeeding support, not formula Hmm

Not everyone wants to or can breastfeed, you loon.

MarvellousMonsters · 06/12/2025 12:16

EchoedSilence · 06/12/2025 12:10

Maybe some breast feeding mums want to switch to formula without someone saying they can't.

If a mum makes an informed choice to switch to formula that’s no one’s business but her own. If she switches to formula because her supply has been compromised by formula supplements she’s given because she got a free run from the food bank, that’s not ok. Do you see the difference??

Whytry · 06/12/2025 12:23

MarvellousMonsters · 06/12/2025 12:16

If a mum makes an informed choice to switch to formula that’s no one’s business but her own. If she switches to formula because her supply has been compromised by formula supplements she’s given because she got a free run from the food bank, that’s not ok. Do you see the difference??

But surely the food bank would only give the formula to parents who were formula feeding? They're not just going to see a baby and chuck formula in the bag are they? Maybe they are, I haven't worked in one but it would seem unusual. And as a mum who ff one and bf the other, if someone had given me formula while bfing I would have either given it back or passed it on to someone else, not just given it to my baby because I could, so presumably any mums who did likely were looking/wanting to swap anyway?

As a PP said, I expect it's entirely to do with not wanting to create a dependency/getting grief if a chosen brand isn't available one week than anything else.

What you need is a baby bank, OP. They'll snap your hand off have a Google and I'm sure you'll find one in your area 😊

MarvellousMonsters · 06/12/2025 20:16

Whytry · 06/12/2025 12:23

But surely the food bank would only give the formula to parents who were formula feeding? They're not just going to see a baby and chuck formula in the bag are they? Maybe they are, I haven't worked in one but it would seem unusual. And as a mum who ff one and bf the other, if someone had given me formula while bfing I would have either given it back or passed it on to someone else, not just given it to my baby because I could, so presumably any mums who did likely were looking/wanting to swap anyway?

As a PP said, I expect it's entirely to do with not wanting to create a dependency/getting grief if a chosen brand isn't available one week than anything else.

What you need is a baby bank, OP. They'll snap your hand off have a Google and I'm sure you'll find one in your area 😊

Edited

If you are using a food bank you are likely stressed and struggling. If you are offered formula under those circumstances you may use it even if you’re breastfeeding.

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