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Will you have to spend Christmas with someone you dislike?

6 replies

Dappy777 · 02/12/2025 19:50

How about a 'safe zone' where you can get it off your chest before you see them? Come on, let rip. A nice anonymous rant about some twat you won't be able to avoid.

I'll go first: My f-ing brother in law, who I will be stuck with the whole of Boxing Day.

  • Thinks he's hilarious (he isn't). Makes toe-curlingly awful jokes that even my 12-year-old niece rolls her eyes at.
  • Disagrees with everything you say, just for the sake of it.
  • Treats every discussion as an argument that he has to win.
  • Talks at you about the things that interest him (i.e rugby, his car and his job).
  • Doesn't listen to anything you say and makes it perfectly clear that you are boring him (yawning, checking his phone), yet thinks every word that comes out of his mouth is fascinating (why wouldn't you want to hear how much traffic there was at junction 19 or how clever he was to have found a shortcut?).
  • Takes his socks off and puts his feet on the coffee table.
  • Eats like a pig (bangs his fork against his teeth, smacks his lips together, etc).
  • Laughs suddenly and loudly at pretty much any joke anyone makes on the TV.
Phew...that's better.
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AllTheWatersTurnedToClouds · 02/12/2025 19:52

Nope. Emigrating has a lot to be said for it Grin

Littletreefrog · 02/12/2025 19:55

My DPs who will act like they are getting so forgetful in their old age they are completely incapable of a simple task like remembering to buy their Grandkids a Christmas present but simultaneously tell us all about their latest self drive holiday across Asia.

AutumnLover1989 · 02/12/2025 20:00

Yes for Christmas day and I'm dreading it. I've posted here before about my "Darling" brother. The muttering and moaning under their breath, their sly digs,and having to act all nice in front of them when we really can't stand eachother. The wife will be bragging as per and will be all me me me. Really wish for a bout of COVID or something so I have an excuse not to go. I adore Christmas but since I've accepted (I'm doing this for my mum) it's put a huge cloud over it 😢 My anxiety is through the roof too 😫

PhaseFour · 02/12/2025 20:03

Nope, because this year, I have decided to put myself and my DCs before my parents at long last.
They care much more about money than they do about their own children and grandchildren, so thwy've brought itnon themselves.

Overtheatlantic · 02/12/2025 20:06

In-laws we see only once a year for Christmas. An awkward and rude bunch, but my DH insists we see them every year.

FalseSpring · 02/12/2025 20:27

Yes, and she is a vegan (for ethical reasons I strongly disagree with). I am tempted to serve her my roast potatoes cooked in goose fat. Why should I ruin the best dinner of the year for someone I don't really like by either changing how I always cook my Christmas dinner or cooking two separate meals. Roast potatoes in avocado oil are just not the same. This year I am prepared in advance to be able to provide more facts about the damage caused to the natural world by vegans like her who live on imported UPFs (fake chicken breasts for example) that pretend to be animal friendly but really don't want to debate the rights and wrongs of eating poultry whilst trying to enjoy my food.

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