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Weary of running a popular instagram

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ThoseWeirdStones · 01/12/2025 15:42

I unwittingly became very popular around 10 years ago as a result of sharing a craft project on social media. What I do is quite mediocre, nothing special, but it took off and I have managed to earn a modest living from it, although it would not be enough to support me well if I lived alone.

As time has passed, I am becoming more and more weary of it all. I only post bi-weekly, but being immersed in the social media world to any extent has come to both irritate and depress me in equal measure. I think it's the endless push to commodify everything, and I mean everything, that does it. It feels like a pointless void without depth, and we all kind of know this so I don't need to go into much detail! Artists only want to sell, and rarely communicate, and most people don't even bother to read text. It isn't uncommon for a user to post that their dog passed away and the comments are all 'congrats!' or 'beautiful!'. It's a clusterf*ck Grin.

I long to ease away from it, and have come to prefer blogging, even though there a far fewer people watching. My life offline is great, although I am a pretty low key introvert and love long walks alone or with DH. I can no longer relate to people who have a dream of 'making it' on social media, it is a job that never leaves your head, regardless the time of day, and regardless how much actual 'work' you do. It does feel like a hamster wheel sometimes, and I know many other influencers who have clean had enough, but many of them can't afford to make a change.
Everything is about selling your 'brand', from a tired selfie to a signed fart on paper. The authenticity of everything just seems to have slid down the toilet. I know real life is similar to a degree, but it is less condensed and walled in. I guess I want to pack it in for good, and have for a very long time.

Can anyone relate? I can never make sense of the meaningless comments and likes, a system which seems to detach us from actual communication and pit us against each other as competitors instead. And the weird idolatry, where long strands of comments say exactly the same thing, either calling you a genius or a magical being (believe me, it's gross).

I know many other crafters and artists who boast about having given up their day job, but it really isn't the dream it's made out to be, at all. Just having a moan here, i suppose!

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ChristmasHug · 01/12/2025 15:46

It's not unlike a lot of work really. If you're stuck in a job that you aren't passionate about it becomes wearing. Then you have the added void of social media.

Can you just stop? Do something else?

Can you introduce a partner or sell the 'business'?

Can you get to grips with AI to do the chatty stuff for you?

MrsPinkSky · 01/12/2025 15:48

No I can't relate.

If you're tired of it then stop doing it.

TheChosenTwo · 01/12/2025 15:52

It’s like a lot of jobs, once you become cynical about whatever it is, it’s probably time to draw a line under it and move on. I’ve done it (not from SM work, just a regular job which I loved for years until it became nothing like the job i had started doing, it was making me miserable and not want to do it anymore - career change and I’m now really happy).

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 01/12/2025 15:54

Just stop. Lots of people quit being content creators when it’s lost its fun

countingdowntotheholidays · 01/12/2025 16:00

I can see why it would mess with your head. Constantly having to praise other members of the IG ‘community.’ Talking to a camera rather than colleagues. The content you produce becoming obsolete. It does see a bit of a hamster wheel. Nice enough to waste a bit of time on but when it’s your life’s work it could feel a bit empty?

ThoseWeirdStones · 01/12/2025 16:03

Yes, I can stop thankfully, but you do get used to something and it's interesting how the mind stays locked in it to some extent.

I will struggle to start a new way of working (offline) but very much long to.
I have never shared pictures of myself or family for what it's worth.

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ThoseWeirdStones · 01/12/2025 16:06

countingdowntotheholidays · 01/12/2025 16:00

I can see why it would mess with your head. Constantly having to praise other members of the IG ‘community.’ Talking to a camera rather than colleagues. The content you produce becoming obsolete. It does see a bit of a hamster wheel. Nice enough to waste a bit of time on but when it’s your life’s work it could feel a bit empty?

Indeed, so much becomes valueless, since there is so much of it, endlessly. In the arts and crafts, the world of images, this is really apparent for me. People just endlessly scroll images, rarely stopping, and there are so many of them we rarely have to think or assign value to them.
I recall reading Susan Sontag's 'On Photography' when I was a student, and would love to hear her view of our current cultural relationship to images (and of course we can't because she is no longer with us).

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