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Late bloomer stories pls!

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AmIComingOrGoing15 · 28/11/2025 08:47

Would love to hear happy tales about your late bloomers!

I have a primary school DD (7) who I feel is clever but is a bit behind at the moment. Not great at tests, not keen on reading yet. To be honest, I feel like it’s probably all going to click at some point (she shows lots of signs of being bright to me, just not quite manifesting them like some of her peers yet) - but could do with some reassuring stories to give me a boost. Thanks!

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TheNightingalesStarling · 28/11/2025 08:51

DD1... wasn't entered for Yr2 SATs as too far below level. Proper support for Dsylexia put in place Yr6. Scraped through Yr6 Sats in English, nearly Greater Depth in Maths.
Now Yr10... Top set for Maths and Science (targeting 7s), predicted Distinction for her BTEC, and working steadily in English.

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 28/11/2025 08:59

You could have written that about me at 7- nothing had really stuck, I couldn’t read properly yet, wasn’t great at maths. Something then clicked at the end of year 2 and you couldn’t stop me. Ended up in top set in secondary, A*/As and Bs at GCSE and A level and did an English Lit degree and MA and then PGCE. I’m an English teacher and SENDCO now.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 28/11/2025 09:02

DS at 7 did badly in SATs. At 10 was still on very basic maths and not really reading and writing. Thought he’d never sit GCSEs

Clearly bright- great at LEGO, listened to long complicated audio books. Asked really difficult questions 🤣

Didn’t get English GCSE, should have been entered for the C paper but his teacher ‘wanted to give him a chance to show what he could do’.

Then doing a BTEC, all the pennies dropped. The cogs whirred, the connections happened and he really took off. Got his various English qualifications.

He didn’t finish his degree in CompScience, but has a great job in computers and can do anything he sets his mind to. Reads for pleasure, and researches tech related stuff.

You wouldn’t believe he failed English first time as he has well above average literacy skills now.

Keep doing interesting things with her, keep her learning and curious, and do all the skills based stuff in lots of different ways. Don’t hold her back until the basics are secure. Both my boys skipped the basics in favour of higher level skills that in theory they weren’t ready for. Something will click.

Both my boys I had to intervene and get them off the ‘standard’ path at school. DS1 was taken out of foreign language lessons and given extra time on dyslexia computer games. DS2 was allowed to progress with the rest of the class rather than being held back while he secured basic skills (high frequency words). He kept up with the higher level work and the basics landed on their own eventually.

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Sonolanona · 28/11/2025 09:46

DS1's best friend was hopeless at school... left without GCSE maths or English.
He wasn't cut out for standard education and was dyslexic.
At 20 he decided to go back... passed them both, discovered he loved science, did an access course, went to a good University , got a First in physics and is now a teacher!!

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