I’ve probably got about about 7 or 8 different ‘close’ friendship groups active on WhatsApp which are always on the go - friends from school / uni / local mums / NCT friends / general friends etc.
individual chats with friends. About 10 x 1-2-1 Chats but that fluctuates depending what’s going on in peoples lives.
several active chats for the kids activities. 3 active at the moment.
3 school class chats
2 support groups for a long term health condition
2 family chats
all of these are pretty active. Today I’ve had multiple messages on 15 different WhatsApp chats. A few of those groups there have been tens of messages. This is fairly average for me. If anything today feels quiet. so about 30 ish WhatsApp chats for me are active at the moment.
I’ve just scrolled back to 1st November and 60 different WhatsApp groups have been active since then.
I just wondered how many active chats is normal? I’m asking as I’ve just replied to someone who messaged me weeks ago but I forgot she’d even messaged me as it got lost in alll the other messages pinging through and she hasn’t messaged me since, so is way down my list. it got me thinking if that’s normal or not!