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Poms · 26/11/2025 21:55

Huge amount of ageism from the very start of that article.

Eyesopenwideawake · 26/11/2025 22:37

Poms · 26/11/2025 21:55

Huge amount of ageism from the very start of that article.

Well yes - exactly the point. At 62, so a very late boomer, I absolutely see why my, and earlier, generations (generalization alert!) valued stuff that lasts over experiences. Not saying it’s right or wrong but I can understand why my parents tried so hard to foist my (awful but probably valuable) bedroom furniture on me.

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Denim4ever · 26/11/2025 22:43

I can't read the article because of paywall, but as an early 60s person I can definitely tell you we are unfairly lumped in with the 'boomer' generation whose lives have been nothing much like ours - affordable housing, early retirement etc.

RaininSummer · 26/11/2025 22:51

Totally agree. Hate being referred to as a boomer when I will work until 67 and retire with a low pension.

BeckyBloom · 26/11/2025 23:30

Exactly … I relate much more to Gen X than Boomers at 62

EBearhug · 26/11/2025 23:37

Denim4ever · 26/11/2025 22:43

I can't read the article because of paywall, but as an early 60s person I can definitely tell you we are unfairly lumped in with the 'boomer' generation whose lives have been nothing much like ours - affordable housing, early retirement etc.

Edited

But also many grew up with rationing, make do and mend and the like, and not just binning stuff which could still be used makes sense in that context.

mondaytosunday · 26/11/2025 23:38

Pay wall. I’m not a hoarder (I’m 63) but I do have too much stuff. I really should do that death cleaning thing. I moved four years ago to a house half the size with minimal storage but still too much.
My parents however were very much ‘one thing in one thing out’. Having survived rationing they did not see the point on buying unless it was quality and made to last. They took care of their things. Both my children (20 & 22) seem to have loads of clothes - my son as he works in a men’s boutique and my DD has a Vinted/charity shop habit.

Noshadelamp · 26/11/2025 23:42

Denim4ever · 26/11/2025 22:43

I can't read the article because of paywall, but as an early 60s person I can definitely tell you we are unfairly lumped in with the 'boomer' generation whose lives have been nothing much like ours - affordable housing, early retirement etc.

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I don't imagine early 60s to be boomers due to these reasons.

Although I looked up the age range and apparently boomers are aged 61-79, which covers such a huge difference.

Morningsleepin · 27/11/2025 00:32

They've majorly stretched the range for boomers and the name is because a lot of babies were born immediately after WWII, ie. A baby boom.

Gingernaut · 27/11/2025 00:42

For the paywall try typing

archive.is/ after the https:// and before the www.

Works for a fair few sites

Java script is banjaxed, but you get to read the article

Eyesopenwideawake · 27/11/2025 08:21

I forgot about the paywall. These are the paragraphs that made sense to me;

"So why does the boomer junk divide exist in the first place? The crux of it is that space used to be cheap and stuff expensive; now space is expensive and stuff is cheap. In the 1970s, the average house was about £9,300, roughly four times the average annual salary. Today, the average property is around £272,000, with earnings only increasing to £39,900 – a disastrous ratio for home ownership.
Younger generations can only afford to buy postage stamp flats or, increasingly, to rent a room. What’s precious to them is square footage, not things. Status is marked not by the objects you own but by the great airy wafts of space between them: think of those pale grey minimalist palaces beloved of influencers like Molly-Mae Hague or Kim Kardashian.

Meanwhile the value of ‘stuff’ has fallen like a stone thanks to the easy availability of cheap homeware. I have a houseproud 30-something friend who, every three months, changes the ‘accent colours’ in her home to mark the current season, replacing rugs, curtains, pictures, even hand towels (we are currently moving to plums and reds for winter). She simply hoovers up bargains from Temu and Primark for a steal.

This disposable attitude would be unthinkable to older generations, whose parents lived through the Depression and the war years, when nothing could be wasted. They made do and mended because they had to – and the habit became ingrained. Reading the memoirs of my late grandfather (who lived from 1912-2006) I am struck by the attention he paid to pieces of furniture, writing extensively about inanimate objects: ‘In 1939, I bought for three pounds a small chiffonier to serve as a sideboard in which to keep our cutlery; when we moved in 1989 it realised £800 at sale.’ The furniture is given more airtime than some family members"

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DisplayPurposesOnly · 27/11/2025 08:23

I have a houseproud 30-something friend who, every three months, changes the ‘accent colours’ in her home to mark the current season... She simply hoovers up bargains from Temu and Primark for a steal.

What a fucking waste.

Eyesopenwideawake · 27/11/2025 08:28

DisplayPurposesOnly · 27/11/2025 08:23

I have a houseproud 30-something friend who, every three months, changes the ‘accent colours’ in her home to mark the current season... She simply hoovers up bargains from Temu and Primark for a steal.

What a fucking waste.

I agree, yet you see many people on here who do just that.

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alongtimeagoandfaraway · 27/11/2025 08:29

BeckyBloom · 26/11/2025 23:30

Exactly … I relate much more to Gen X than Boomers at 62

Apparently we (I’m also in my early60s) are Generation Jones https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Jones

This makes a lot more sense to me than lumping us in with post war babies.

Generation Jones - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Jones

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 27/11/2025 08:31

BeckyBloom · 26/11/2025 23:30

Exactly … I relate much more to Gen X than Boomers at 62

However at 62 you are in that generational category.

zurigo · 27/11/2025 08:34

For all of you who somehow don't know about archive, here you go: https://archive.is/00OK2

I read that article and thought 'Yup, that's my mother, my step-mother, my aunt and my (late) FIL!'. All them absolutely junk hoarders, every cupboard stuffed so full that you open the doors and things fall out, every surface groaning with knick-knacks, the garage packed to the rafters with obsolete rubbish that no one ever uses. And every Christmas bags and bags of rubbish that we don't want.

My aunt lives alone in a 4-bed house and every single room is packed with stuff, ever wardrobe full of clothes and spare bedding and god only knows what. She never has anyone to stay, so it's not like it ever gets used. She and my DM say 'When we're gone you can have X, Y and Z'. I don't have the heart to tell either of them that my DSis and I have agreed we're getting house clearance companies to come and take it all away! Our homes are full. We have no space for teak sideboards and so-and-so's old dining table.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 27/11/2025 08:39

I'm 61, so Generation Jones. This is absolutely not me. There's nothing in my loft, and nothing in my garage. I declutter regularly. My late parents, who would have been 97 and 94 if still alive, were the same.

BeanQuisine · 27/11/2025 08:54

"Meanwhile the value of ‘stuff’ has fallen like a stone thanks to the easy availability of cheap homeware."

While that's true, there are also people (of widely varying age) who just don't like "cheap homeware", or even expensive homeware in the contemporary bland taste.

People who look for pleasing antiques and unique objets d’art and are not really worried about price, just the aesthetic appeal. And who are also inclined to hang onto possessions that hold good or interesting memories and associations, even if others may struggle to understand the charm.

I like to live in a house that reflects my own life, my own tastes and my own dreams. I'd find it nightmarish to end up in the sort of bland interiors you find in today's home and garden magazines, so reminiscent of office waiting rooms, blank hotel foyers or Temu catalogues.

Gingernaut · 27/11/2025 11:10

Bad though it sounds, a lot of Boomers' and Generation Jones' stuff is ending up in charity shops

Their dying and their gear is being donated

There's any amount of fine China and glassware if you're interested

Gingernaut · 27/11/2025 19:49

They're dying. FGS.

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