DH screaming blue murder at me

[Gopit]

We've been out for the eve and left the car local. Cab home. He wants the keys to collect his car, tonight. He is totally wasted. I've taken the keys and told him no. He's now saying I'm not to come anywhere near him and he won't be told what to do. He is being so nasty.

Making me really sad

Go to bed and talk to him about it in the morning.

Are you safe? Ideally lock yourself into a bedroom tonight. Stay safe tonight

Tomorrow he would be getting the riot act from me.

Make sure the keys are well hidden. Ignore him. Go to bed.

Let him go to sleep on the sofa.

(Unless you don’t feel safe? In which case consider calling someone/999 if you think he’s going to kick off)

I'm safe. I think he's fallen asleep downstairs.. or at least I hope so as I don't want him in the bed tonight. The car keys are hidden for his own safety and others. He's refusing to take DC to his football tomorrow and saying I have to do it now as he refuses to get his car tomorrow. I will be leaving his car where it is until he collects it or not

Can you turn the meowing up & down?

The state he's in I wouldn't be letting him drive DC tomorrow!

I'd also be having a good think about my marriage & if I wanted to still be in it.

but try to get some sleep, tomorrow is going to be trying enough!

Urgh he's come to bed. But fortunately fallen straight asleep and said nothing ... until the morning.

Mate I've got absolutely shit faced with my husband before now and the worst thing he's ever done is get really emotional about the cat having a shorter lifespan than us. I'm not sure I'd put up with a man screaming at me no matter how drunk he was.

If he’s that drunk I wouldn’t want him driving DCs anywhere in the morning anyway? I know you must be having that heart pounding feeling but now you know he’s asleep and won’t cause any more aggro try to calm yourself down and get some sleep and deal with him tomorrow. You know you did the right thing and he was being a drunk dickhead

Just awful of him and totally irresponsible. Hope he can see that in the morning? If not, you’ll need to have difficult convos

You can't have a conversation with a drunken idiot . Leave the fucker where he is , go to another room if you can and be prepared to take your DS . In fact take all the DCs stay out the day

Sadly too much alcohol can spoil an otherwise good night.
Well done on being sensible OP. I hope he's grown up enough to give you an apology tomorrow once he's sober.
Next time go home at minimum one less than you had tonight, and make sure you eat something before.you go out
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You don’t sound surprised enough. Which means this is at least semi-normal for him. Sorry.