CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair ·
18/11/2025 06:33
DS is due to start reception next September so we’ve been looking at schools. We’re quite new to the area so don’t know much about school reputations and Ofsted and websites can only tell you so much (they’re all rated good).
Of the 6 schools we’re interested in only 2 are offering any sort of open event and 2 more have offered times where we can visit just to see the school after hours but we’ll be shown around by a member of reception staff and won’t meet any teachers.
We went to one of the open day events yesterday and it wasn’t what I expected at all. It was basically just a look at the reception class room, no work out, no discussion of the broader school or what they offer, one reception teacher was there (it’s a 3 form entry) and although he was nice he didn’t engage at all and basically after 30 seconds told us that 3.30 on a Monday was a silly time for it to have been arranged so he’s all up the wall and it’s not a good time to ask questions.
Is this normal? We live in a big city so there’s lots of schools nearby but at this rate I’m going to find it very hard to know how to rank them!