Struggling with the mentality of people. Long story short - one child, 15, abusive ex, left when dd was 2, he’s not seen her. Formed good friendship with his mum. He was abusive to her too. I’ve been picking up the pieces of everything he has done to his whole family for years. About a year ago his mum started acting weird, caught her lying lots. DD wanted to see her father to get things off her chest, I agreed we could try to arrange but in a controlled way where she is safe and I a nearby.
october my dad passed away, he lived in Spain so I had to go to sort out his affairs and also funeral etc. dd was with her gran, his mum. Driving to the funeral my daughter calls me hysterically crying, her gran had got her father round and demanded she talk to him, she didn’t want to and was scared and crying, he was laughing at her. Her gran swore at her, told her to F off, that she hated her, slated me & told my daughter if she died she doesn’t want her at her funeral. I was lucky enough to have someone nearby to go get my daughter. Dd has been waiting for an apology but doesn’t seem this women who’s been a huge part of our lives for years is sorry at all. Wtaf! I don’t want anything g to do with her again, wouldn’t you guys do the sane?