Name changed as this will probably end up quite outing. It may also end up long, sorry.
I have an elderly friend who was knocked over (reversed into) by an even older driver just over a year ago. My friend broke a bone and was bed bound for 2 months while it healed, followed by another 2 months or so in a orthopedic boot. Carers came in 4x a day while they were bed bound, but their spouse (who was unused to looking after themselves) deteriorated health wise rapidly and they died. Previously, this couple, despite both being in their 80s were living independently, unsupported, no care needs etc. Since then, various family members are providing in home support as the surviving spouse is not yet at the point of needing residential care but is struggling to adjust to living alone for the first time in their life. Their injury still causes pain and mobility problems so they are now walking with a zimmer frame or using a mobility scooter, rarely leave the house, reluctant to drive, scared to go to many places in case something happens again, when they had a good social life before. Daily household tasks have got much harder, making beds, cleaning etc, anything that requires standing for more than a few minutes at a time because of muscle loss and poor bone healing. The effect of 2 months in bed in their 80s is very apparent, physically and emotionally.
Police were involved and the driver initially denied having hit my friend, claimed they fell, until CCTV footage clearly showed the incident, at which point they admitted it and have surrendered their licence.
Anyway, to the main point, and where I start to feel really uncomfortable. One of the friend's children got a no win no fee lawyer involved and they will get 25% of any compensation. The driver's insurance have made an initial out of court offer, which by the time 25% is removed and my friend is reimbursed for the care fees and other associated costs, will leave them with under £10k in compensation.
They have asked my advice whether to accept or push for court (or whatever next stage might be). I am not usually one for any sort of compensation culture. However, I am not convinced the offer is enough. In part, they do not want the extra stress, in part they are so angry with how their life has changed in the last year. This is not someone wanting to be greedy only to be fairly compensated for what has happened and neither of us know if this offer is right or not.
Please don't be harsh in your answers. This is not AIBU and is a genuine dilemma that I am seeking different perspectives on so that I can discuss with my friend and help them decide what to do. Their children have said it is up to my friend.
Thank you!