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What’s your Christmas budget?

194 replies

Ticktockk · 08/11/2025 21:12

I’m interested, having read the thread by the poster who is sad that she is limiting herself to £200 per (adult) child.
We’re pretty well off but I wouldn’t spend more than that on my young kids each. Am I a total miser??

OP posts:
youalright · 09/11/2025 00:10

Its different year to year dependant on what they want i always ask what main present they want and then bulk it out with smaller bits. This year will be more expensive as one of my sons wants a ps5 and thats nearly £500 for that but last year he wanted trainers that where £80 so it depends.my 2 little ones I don't spend so much on as they're still at toy age so maybe about £200 each for them

youalright · 09/11/2025 00:13

Statsquestion1 · 08/11/2025 23:46

My dd has asked for a ninja creamie so that alone is 200.

Id love it if my daughter asked for this

Needmorelego · 09/11/2025 00:14

Statsquestion1 · 09/11/2025 00:06

She’s 12, she loves cooking and all things kitchen. She loves all smoothies, sorbets, ice creams etc. I don’t see why it’s funny, her brother got a PS5 last year which cost double that, why would I treat her differently?

Apologies...it did sound a bit rude from me 🙂
If that's what she wants and you can afford it - then go for it.

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Finallyfree41 · 09/11/2025 00:19

I’m actually quite embarrassed to say I spend about £3000 split between 4 kids. I’m embarrassed cos it kills me every year, it’s a huge struggle but I enjoy spilling them, I swear I’m not going to do the same thing each year and then I do it anyway. 3 of them are late teens now, one is still young so I’m going to start cutting down the older ones and focus on youngest until she reaches that age as well x

BatFor · 09/11/2025 00:30

We don’t have a budget per head for the kids, we just give them what they want/need within reason. We do have an overall budget though - £2000 to cover pressies for me, Dh, our 4 dc, pils, my parents, and dbil/sil and their kids. Also covers Xmas clothes for the kids, food (though dm buys the turkey), and any decorations etc that we buy.

ChocolateAndCrispsAndBiscuits · 09/11/2025 00:37

Everyone normally gets about £50 spent on them.
Buy for all adults who are spending Xmas Day together (usually 8 adults) and then...
5 Nieces and nephews are normally £50-£100 each i buy for them regardless if i will see them on Xmas Day or not

Not well off at all but i start buying midway through the year

EllaPaella · 09/11/2025 00:40

Moonlightfrog · 08/11/2025 21:37

These threads always make me laugh.

People seem to get so angry over people spending £200 on their child (adult or child), yet go over to the style and beauty threads and people are spending £500+ on the Christmas party outfit that they will wear once 🤔.

Some people like to spend big in their family, others don’t, some don’t spend much during the year, don’t go in big holidays etc… so like to spoil their kids at Christmas? Others spend a fortune during the year on holidays, after school activities, ponies, school fees but may only spend £50 at Christmas? We all do things differently and no one has to justify how they do things or what they spend.

Exactly

Nothankyov · 09/11/2025 00:42

regularlatte · 08/11/2025 21:26

I’ve booked a trip to Disney for the 4 of us - 2ad & 2ch for £2000 all in.

I’ve spent £300 each on them.

£250 for DH.

£200 for my parents.

Thankfully we can easily afford it.

How the did you manage that? Do you mean Disney Paris?

EllaPaella · 09/11/2025 00:46

£150 each on stockings (X3)
£200 each or thereabouts on main presents under tree (X3)
£100 on Dh and him on me
£80ish on my parents (DH’s parents no longer with us)
£100 nieces and nephews
£200 food
£1500 or thereabouts in total

Tarkan · 09/11/2025 00:46

We normally do around £100-£150 for each child (I say child but they’re 21 and 17 now but both live at home), £100 on each other (sometimes go over this though), £50 each for my parents and around £30-40 each on my brother and SIL. It just depends what people want and how our budget is each year though.

This year we’re getting a Switch 2 for the kids to share so a bit over our normal budget but we’ve come into a bit of money recently (not a lot but enough to do a little more than usual for Christmas) and it’ll just be the Switch, a game each and stockings for the kids. We know it’ll get plenty of use though and I might even get to borrow it myself at times. 😁

OSTMusTisNT · 09/11/2025 00:53

Over £1K this year 😱😭 as buying DH a big one-off thing.

We have 12 family members to buy for, including 5 younger kids plus biscuits/chocolates for MIL's care home staff.

SharpBrickMaker · 09/11/2025 00:54

700 each for 3dc
200 on xmas pjs and xmas eve box
200 for dh
700 on xmas food and xmas eve/ boxing day activities

OSTMusTisNT · 09/11/2025 00:56

youalright · 09/11/2025 00:10

Its different year to year dependant on what they want i always ask what main present they want and then bulk it out with smaller bits. This year will be more expensive as one of my sons wants a ps5 and thats nearly £500 for that but last year he wanted trainers that where £80 so it depends.my 2 little ones I don't spend so much on as they're still at toy age so maybe about £200 each for them

Good deal on Very for ps5 with 2 of the latest games 😉 plus go through Topcashback.

00PrettyHateMachine00 · 09/11/2025 01:04

We go somewhere abroad for a week/bit more for Christmas, DD and I, this year it's French Riviera. I cover all that, activities, food, souvenirs, etc. That's a couple of grand or so. So I don't buy her a separate present as such. Unless I see something nice, up to a 100ish.

The day before Christmas we fly to my parents /family and celebrate together. All adults, we don't exchange presents between us. They spoil DD though and she gets presents from them.

Christmas food/drinks about 700ish maybe. 4 adults and DD 13.

When DD was littler, we spent Christmas at home. Used to be 200-300 for presents for her, and 300-400ish for food/drinks (2 adults and DD)

LadyBevington · 09/11/2025 01:34

I spend too much, I can't help it, I love treating my family 😊
X2 DD's will have about £150 each of presents plus £150 cash to go shopping with.
X9 nieces/nephews will each have £30 of toys or cash/gift card for the older teens
Stepson will have £150 cash plus smellies & chocs
Baby dgd will have about £60 of presents
M&D £100 joint or individual gifts
Token gifts for DH, just something off the kids about £20 worth, smellies/socks etc.
Then I host xmas dinner for between 6-10 family members and have all of the inlaws over on boxing day, so spend about £350 on xmas food and drinks plus snacks.... so about £1500, gulp!

pnutter · 09/11/2025 01:52

I’m skint trying to work more but so far :
DD and DS £50 each
both are adults (18 and 30)
food wise we are having a good think x

Cliveatnight · 09/11/2025 02:02

Needmorelego · 08/11/2025 21:28

Probably about £200-£300 in total for gifts and any new decorations etc I get.
That's for 5 adults and 1 17 year old.
Husband is in charge of food but it's probably about £50 for the Christmas food.

£50 for food? The turkey costs more than that

Needmorelego · 09/11/2025 02:07

Cliveatnight · 09/11/2025 02:02

£50 for food? The turkey costs more than that

We don't have a turkey.
No one wants one.

Cliveatnight · 09/11/2025 02:14

Needmorelego · 09/11/2025 02:07

We don't have a turkey.
No one wants one.

Ok, £50 for food? The Pringles and quality street cost more than that 😀

Needmorelego · 09/11/2025 02:25

Cliveatnight · 09/11/2025 02:14

Ok, £50 for food? The Pringles and quality street cost more than that 😀

I did realise that I probably spend about £20 or so on the snacks and treats so it's probably nearer £70 in total.
But for the actual Christmas dinner it's around £50 (husband is in charge of that).
I personally cannot stand roast dinners so I don't have it but it's just a regular meal of chicken, roasties, veg, stuffing and gravy. Oh and pigs in blankets - which I do like and sometimes eat 😂.
He doesn't buy a full chicken. Just a crown (?).

nellietheellie75 · 09/11/2025 02:35

This year probably:
£150 on each dc (now adults)
£20 mum
£20 dad
£100 dp
£20 on MIL

I've been known to spend £kkk at Christmas in the past. But this year no one wants anything as they all buy when they want something, and with the COL I simply can't afford it and I refuse to get into debt for it .

Ozgirl76 · 09/11/2025 02:40

My 13 year old son is getting some Formula 1 merch (around £200), specific trainers (£80), Lego (£200), other specific clothes (£100) and a vinyl record player (£70). Then on top of this there are some smaller bits plus a new tennis bag.

Happyandkoiful · 09/11/2025 02:42

This year we're spending more than usual on my (only child) DC: about £45 in total. A soft toy, a doll, some clip on earrings, chocolate coins and a camera with a built in printer. Mostly second hand. £10-20 on all other family, one item each, including my husband. Thankfully most of my side don't do presents anymore and the adults on my husband's side do secret santa. I don't see the point of spending loads of money on stuff that will be forgotten about by next Christmas, we have a small house already full of stuff, and I prefer to spend our hard earned money on days out and holidays!

mondaytosunday · 09/11/2025 02:47

My DH and I used to limit it to £50 on each other. Four kids between us and probably about £200 on each? Of course when little it was less and peaked during their teens. Now I think it’s more like £150 each and I make them some thing (I crochet) like a beanie and scarf or throw if favourite football team colours. I give a token to my FIL, about £50 on each step grandkids (since they had children I don’t give gifts to my stepsons).

SoftBalletShoes · 09/11/2025 03:52

Statsquestion1 · 08/11/2025 21:20

I spend 600-800 usually up to 700 per child. About 200-300 on dh and 100-150 on each of my parents. 50 to my niece and nephew and that’s it.

Edited

Up to 700 per child! (Or did you mean 800? It's not totally clear.)

Wow!!!!