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Reading for secondary school age kids

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crappycrapcrap · 06/11/2025 19:00

My DC have always read (or been read to) before bed - easy routine, both like reading and are very good at it.

DS has started year 7 and I’ve noticed his staying up later and reading less, school reading is not much of a thing. It’s not really an issue as he’s very capable but got me wondering. Do parents still enforce reading as they get older or if it just a preference?

He did really well in his SATS so this gives me a guide that he’s doing well but he’s only 11, I don’t want him to loose the habit or joy of reading but equally, is he too old to be told he has to read?

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Poppingby · 06/11/2025 19:10

I don't enforce it but do encourage it by leaving interesting books around/on their bookshelf but never mentioning it. I think at 11 you can recommend books but I have found that my teenagers hear this as bossing rather than enthusiasm. Or my enthusiasm is cringe or something.

crappycrapcrap · 06/11/2025 20:14

Yep that sounds about right…
Pick my battles and all that

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isitmyturn · 06/11/2025 20:33

By that age they will likely either be a lifelong reader or not. As long as their literacy skills are up to scratch I don't think you can enforce it.
My youngest loved books and still does as an adult.
Elder one never read for pleasure after about age 10 although he did go through a phase around 15 of reading physics books or books about mathematicions.

In all cases I think there's a period of time at school when homework takes over and interest in reading drops off.

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crappycrapcrap · 06/11/2025 22:24

Yes that’s true the homework ramps up. There’s a lot on with clubs etc, he’s tired and would rather zone out in front of TV.

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