I didn’t know where to post this. I just need to vent.
I posted last week in aibu about issues with my bfs dm and how I wasn’t allowed to move into his rented house (owned by dm), I lost my dream job and am unemployed but have an interview for next week all positive.
Today I went to collect all belongings out of house, she was there. Bf wanted me to be the bigger person and apologise in person for angry messages I sent, I didn’t want to but did anyway. She didn’t accept apology I explained why I sent them, she told me she wasn’t to blame. Kept interrupting me when I was speaking to the point of me saying, can I speak. She was defensive and being a bitch and felt attacked by how I have always felt how unwelcoming she was. I was calm and didn’t raise my voice once, everything I said was fact, she didn’t like that and was bringing things up from my db’s past that had nothing to do with me( ex). My db stuck up for me and defended me , I felt his support.
I ended the conversation with I’m done and I’m done with this and walked away. She however smirked and my db said, your delighted about this to her, I said of course she is, my db said no don’t cause he didn’t want me to lower myself to her because she wanted to rise me.
I need to vent because he went to speak to her 3 hours ago to sort things ( this was arranged yesterday) and im so stressed because I don’t know if she is going to manipulate my db and will I have a relationship, I’m mentally drained 😔