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Awful housing situation - please help (estate agents?)

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Idonthavemytoolsmycloak · 29/10/2025 12:55

I hardly dare type this because I'm so scared of the replies.

Basically we have unexpectedly been given notice on our rented house. We have two months to get out (me, DH and two DDs). The problem is that DH informed me last night that there's no way he'll pass a credit check and probably not the affordability check because he's behind with tax. Otherwise we can prove affordability easily.

The ONLY thing that we have going for us is that we've rented for the last ten years (3 different properties including this one) and have an impeccable renting record. We pay upwards of £2000/month in rent and have never missed a payment or had any complaints against us or anything like that. We had to move previously because the houses were being sold.

So at the moment we can't see a way out and I'm petrified that we'll end up homeless in two months. DH is in a dreadful state and I want to help him but I don't have anything positive to say at the moment.

Does anyone have any advice??

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Bambamhoohoo · 31/10/2025 11:41

Isinglass20 · 31/10/2025 11:36

I’m sure I’m not the only one wondering why the OP and DP have not purchased a property and are panicking because they have to leave the current rental.

A possible back story based on OPs vague explanation about current indebtedness suggests to me that to purchase a property would be an asset claimed by creditors.

I don’t see how that makes any difference? They owe the money whether they pay in cash or a charge against a property. The revenue would much prefer cash.

there are loads for reasons they may not have purchased a house. The most obvious one being that he earns £9/10k a month and hasn’t been paying the tax on it. He’s now in a race to pay off the arrears and manage the current tax due which would obviously be prioritised over saving a deposit. They still have to live somewhere

Uberbeeboo · 31/10/2025 12:28

Your situation is very similar to how mine was last year. I had good credit, husband didn’t and landlord was selling the house. I could not find a solution for us at all and it was so stressful. In the end I solely purchased a shared ownership property which was affordable to me personally. I was able to afford 37% of the house myself and pay a relatively low rent on the rest. The deposit was low, solicitors fees were quite high but it’s the only way we could get round it. Definitely worth considering.

Enrichetta · 31/10/2025 18:14

Given that @Idonthavemytoolsmycloak says she “work(s) but don't earn much”, I doubt she is in a position to purchase a property on her own - even a 37% shared ownership property. So her situation is very different.

TartanMammy · 31/10/2025 19:11

Idonthavemytoolsmycloak · 29/10/2025 16:04

After tax I believe that it's around £9/10,000. I work but don't earn much.

They're all around the price we're paying now. Affording the rent isn't an issue, it's getting there in the first place.

Your income is absolutely huge!! And you are affording £2k a month in rent. Why don't you just buy somewhere?

Octavia64 · 31/10/2025 19:25

Open rent often has houses for rent that are not managed by estate agents.

if you have high income as you clearly do then some estate agents are open to conversations. Depends what the rental market is like in your area.

when I first got divorced I did not want to buy in a new area without renting but I had to have a couple if conversations about cash in hand before an estate agent accepted me.

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