Nits are bloody endemic in kids primary school. If it's not one bringing them home it's the other and they younger two hate hate hate any kind of treatment. Which I get, but it makes the whole rigmorale so much harder. Takes up so much of my time and husband never does it. Probably would if I asked but it's just always been my job.
While combing hair (thankfully not many actual nits this week as it's the week two follow up from last week's infestation) a man I am on a rota with for our church messages to basically try and get out of being involved this week which reminds me he is the most man-like flaky man imaginable. Once I had to do something on my actual holiday (abroad, with extended family) for this thing we do because flaky man was 'so busy'. I have since then been trying to work on developing boundaries and wouldn't do it that way again but it still rankles.
I'll have a tea in a moment and feel more charitable towards him, he does have a new baby which is tough. And DH is a good husband, ilhe does other stuff for our family load which probably feels as annoying to him as nit treatments
But right now I feel I just need some solidarity from others dealing with endless child management and flaky self-centred men.