DD has the day off school today. For once her sibling won't be around and I've been looking forward to having some one on one time with her. We were going to go shopping but we actually managed to get what we needed at the weekend. We don't have unlimited funds so would rather not spend on train/lunch and unneeded stuff for the sake of it. DD doesn't even want to go anywhere. When she was little we used to have one day a week at home as a pj day, but as she's getting older I'm worried I've taught her to be lazy. I've asked her what she would like to do and given suggestions, for example walk somewhere for lunch or go on a bike ride but she just wants to catch up in Traitors and watch a film or play video games. I had suggested a day trip to London or down to the seaside but she really wasn't keen, which is why I switched to a short outing just to keep us active. The only thing she was a little keen on was a day out at a theme park but when she realised they had a scare thing going on she didn't want to go anymore. I haven't been sleeping well and she is actually very tired and on the go with starting a new school and all that entails so I'm not sure a whole day out is what we need right now.
Can anyone please suggest what would entice their preteen out? Do I just need to make her come out with me for an hour? We have all day as DP can do the other school pick up, but obviously will give DD time to do what she wants too.