Took Back Stolen Bike - Right Thing?

ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 2025-10-12T15:29:22+00:00

Son (17) cycled to local train station and left bike with very flimsy lock last Wednesday during the evening. Was stolen in the couple of hours he took the train to and from a lecture. He reported to police. By a total fluke, on Friday, I was at Aldi and noticed it was parked at the bike racks, unlocked. It's definitely the right bike as it used to be mine, had distinctive features included LED lights etc. So, I took the bike back - took the wheel off and shoved it into my car and away I went. My DH thinks that potentially it could have gone wrong and placed myself at risk. My DS thinks I should have called the police, but am fairly sure you can't steal back your own property.

OverlyFragrant · 12/10/2025 16:31

No it's fine. I would have done the same.

Kimbap · 12/10/2025 16:31

I wouldn’t worry. The chances of the police turning up are practically zero and even if they did just say that your son had lost it and you found it. Have you any proof it was yours or your sons such as photos? Not that it matters.

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 12/10/2025 16:33

Sounds like the almost* perfect outcome.

*Perfection would have required you to encounter the toerag who nicked it and run him over call the police.

Problemhooves · 12/10/2025 16:33

Sounds fine. Police don't seem to do anything much about bike theft, so can't imagine there is any risk. I would have thought there will be a police record including description of the bike anyway?

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ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 12/10/2025 16:34

Kimbap · 12/10/2025 16:31

I wouldn’t worry. The chances of the police turning up are practically zero and even if they did just say that your son had lost it and you found it. Have you any proof it was yours or your sons such as photos? Not that it matters.

.Have record of the frame number, and original receipt, but good point about photos for next time it's stolen

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herbalteabag · 12/10/2025 16:34

I would have done the same thing.

BananaramaDefence · 12/10/2025 16:35

I did this once with a van I used for work. It got stolen and I just so happened to drive past it at the side of a road, it looked like it was being prepared to be stripped as it was parked next to a van identical but in a mess. I happened to have the spare key on me, so I parked my car up and drove off in the van!!

Edited to add that it would start with a 20p (was an old Bedford wan, this was 28 years ago) so hadn't had the steering column broken or anything! I just jumped in and drove off. The door lock was broken.

OverNotOver · 12/10/2025 16:36

I guess my worry would be that the person who stole it sold it on, and you’ve essentially nicked it off that person. Which isn’t to say you’ve done the wrong thing at all, but as previously said, make sure you have evidence that it was originally yours.

MrsEMR · 12/10/2025 16:40

Something very similar happened to my niece. Bike stolen, but she had an apple tag on it, so it pinged about 3 miles from where it was taken 2 days later. She & my DD drove to the location & spotted the bike in the possession of a gang of teenagers.
She went to the local police station, but they refused to help her retrieve it (she even had proof of ownership with her).
The next morning she noticed that the bike was in the same spot & took a taxi to retrieve it.
I think she (and you) absolutely did the right thing. Would have loved to see the thieves faces when they realised the bikes were gone.

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ilovemydogandmrobama2 · 12/10/2025 16:41

OverNotOver · 12/10/2025 16:36

I guess my worry would be that the person who stole it sold it on, and you’ve essentially nicked it off that person. Which isn’t to say you’ve done the wrong thing at all, but as previously said, make sure you have evidence that it was originally yours.

Yes, I did think that afterwards, but if you buy a bike, wouldn't you at least put a lock on it?

The seat had been raised, so clearly it had been ridden rather than just being dumped.

I had been checking FB market place and calling the local bike shops, so if had been sold, would have been by word of mouth?

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Bambamhoohoo · 12/10/2025 16:43

No it’s fine. I think your families views are pointless- nothing happened to you, so DHs point is obsolete and what did DS think the police were going to do?!

Bambamhoohoo · 12/10/2025 16:45

BananaramaDefence · 12/10/2025 16:35

I did this once with a van I used for work. It got stolen and I just so happened to drive past it at the side of a road, it looked like it was being prepared to be stripped as it was parked next to a van identical but in a mess. I happened to have the spare key on me, so I parked my car up and drove off in the van!!

Edited to add that it would start with a 20p (was an old Bedford wan, this was 28 years ago) so hadn't had the steering column broken or anything! I just jumped in and drove off. The door lock was broken.

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My dad did this, but with his tracked car that had been stolen. Obv he had keys- he jumped in whilst the thief was in a chicken shop* and drove off 😂

*what a stereotype!!

ThreePears · 12/10/2025 16:49

Well done you, that's all I can say.

And @BananaramaDefence I'd have loved to see the faces of the people who'd nicked that van when they came out and found it gone. They could hardly report it stolen, could they?😂

DaylesfordBroccoli · 12/10/2025 16:53

If you’ve checked the frame number and it’s 100% his bike then all you’ve done is retrieve your sons bike, just because he left it at the train station and it ended up at Aldi doesn’t make it any less his property. If someone bought it then they’ve lost their money, but that’s better than you losing your money/bike 🤷‍♀️

Socksorter · 12/10/2025 17:03

We have just done similar with a car, stolen through the night, tracked it with an airtag, took spare key and drove it back
it wasnt taken from our home either so doubt theyll know where to come back for it
police werent that interested

Thatsanotherfinemess1 · 12/10/2025 17:11

My partner did this- he gave his old bike to a local teen who didn't have one but had a long walk to and from school. He saw him walking home a couple of weeks later and the lad sadly said the bike had been stolen from him by some older kids. My partner drove round until he found them, gave them a rollicking and took the bike back for the original lad although he,did have to fix it up as they'd damaged it. Bastards :(

chunkybear · 12/10/2025 17:15

I’d be feeling very pleased with myself! If the police turn up, essentially it was left with no security, so could have been ‘abandoned’ and you took it home as it was yours anyway! You could phone the police and update your own crime reference number perhaps? … in all honesty, if I’d had time, I’d have waited to see if they turned up and looked perplexed and taken a photo of the person for the police too - bet they’d have had a good laugh in the police station 🤣

Fabulously · 12/10/2025 17:21

There’s no right or wrong answer here - you’re the only one who witnessed the exact sequence of events.

For example generally speaking it’s a bad idea to take things from thieves regardless of morality, because you don’t know the person who stole the bike, they could have been watching you with a weapon on hand and ready to escalate to violence if they saw you. And it isn’t worth risking your life.

But ultimately you weighed up the risk, felt the bike was unattended and that there was opportunity to take the bike back without issue. Again, none of were there to see if that was the right thing to do. Your family were just worried about your safety.

FrippEnos · 12/10/2025 17:24

From experience the police are unlikely to do anything about this from the person who stole it to you taking it back.

The more important thing is to make sure that your DS has a set of decent locks and uses them properly to prevent this from happening again.

And your DH does have a point.

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