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Anyone ever had a mental block with weight loss?

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Sameoldsameold78 · 29/09/2025 22:18

I need to lose weight but I can’t stop the bloody food noise in my head, and I’m almost scared to succeed at losing weight, it’s all a load of very messed up thoughts in my head.
dont want jabs, can’t afford them anyway.
what can I do? It’s like a little gremlin in my brain that tells me to eat!!!
a lot of is boredom eating when I’m working at home.

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Mycatissohandsome · 30/09/2025 06:21

Yes for 30 odd years which is why I have the most terrible relationship with food. Sadly I cannot tell you how to overcome it as i never have.

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 30/09/2025 06:24

I think lots of people do! I would go slowly OP - think of simple changes you can make very slowly over time. This week, drink an extra cup of water a day. Next week, finish eating 30 minutes earlier than usual. And so on. Keep each habit as you go along.

I also found that having an unlimited stock of things I could always eat helped - apples, black coffee, sparkling water, a broth-based veg soup. So if I was actually hungry there was something for me.

Aparecium · 30/09/2025 06:53

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 30/09/2025 06:24

I think lots of people do! I would go slowly OP - think of simple changes you can make very slowly over time. This week, drink an extra cup of water a day. Next week, finish eating 30 minutes earlier than usual. And so on. Keep each habit as you go along.

I also found that having an unlimited stock of things I could always eat helped - apples, black coffee, sparkling water, a broth-based veg soup. So if I was actually hungry there was something for me.

I agree.

A few more things that may help:

Cut down on carbs. There’s a reason why comfort foods are carb-heavy: they trigger a fast reaction in your body. Insulin drops trigger food noise, so levelling out your blood sugar can quieten it.

If you’re hungry between meals, have a hot drink.
If you’re still hungry, have a little snack.
If you’re still hungry - it isn’t food that you’re hungry for. You’re seeking mental stimulation, or attention from somebody, etc. Try a change of focus.

Reframe unhelpful thoughts about food. When you avoid a chocolate biscuit, instead of feeling deprived say to yourself, “I’m looking after myself. I’m worth looking after.” When you eat a chocolate biscuit, instead of feeding cross or disappointed, say to yourself, “Mm, that was delicious.” Or, “Actually, I didn’t really enjoy that,” - if it’s true - “I’ll have something different next time.” Accept yourself without judgement . And if you take one bite of the chocolate biscuit and regret it, you can put the rest in the bin with no guilt at all.

February. Once you’ve established these little tweaks as habits, you may want to to try a formal diet. Personally, I think February is a good month to start. All the Christmas goodies are finished and there’s no holiday looming to put pressure on you. Also, it takes about a month to really get into the swing of any new way of eating. February is the shortest month!

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GeorgeMichaelsMicStand · 30/09/2025 06:55

I saw something on instagram that described ‘mouth hunger or stomach hunger’ . I know I have mouth hunger pretty much round the clock and have forgotten what stomach hunger feels like, because my body never gets the chance to feel hungry! So what helps me is REALLY thinking is it just a distracting flavour I want, or a salty crunch, or am I actually needing food. I’m still working on it 😬😬😬😬

jeremyclarksonsthirdnipple · 30/09/2025 07:37

i know you don't fancy jabs but i take munjaro and i can honestly say for the 1st time in 40yrs i have zero food noise...the freedom and mental calmness is beyond anything i could ever have imagined.For that alone its been worth every penny.

Sameoldsameold78 · 30/09/2025 07:38

I just can’t afford them it’s just not an option for me

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