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Finally been offered a house

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BoarBrush · 23/09/2025 22:16

We moved here 12 years ago, me, dh and two nursery aged dds. 3 houses away from school/nursery, absolutely perfect. Two days later I find out I'm pregnant, scan goes onto show twins. So 11 years we muddled through this 3 bed with one autistic older dd and the dts with processing issues and other issues not yet diagnosed or sorted by the school, and poor 'normal' dd always sharing. New house just 1 mile away so not far at all.

We absolutely love this house, our neighbours are our absolute everything. Our mum, dad, grandad, friend all rolled into one wee row of houses. Next door lost her husband just two months ago, my locum grandad, the absolute light of my life for laughs and random chat, I fucking loved that old boy. I can't bare/bear (it's bare right) leaving his wife, we need to go confess to her and our next door (catnappers) returning holiday maker neighbours tomorrow.

The husband and dd2 are excited beyond belief, furniture, paint, carpet sorted for her room. Me not at all. Moving is horrendous. Especially with kids that struggle with change and unknown.

He's just had a bum hole removal surgery and me prolapsed l4-l5-s1 discs. I'll enjoy moving.

I'm greatful but by fuck.

OP posts:
mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/09/2025 22:19

'Poor 'normal' dd' - come on op 😪

Congratulations on the new home.

HerewardtheSleepy · 23/09/2025 23:27

mumofoneAloneandwell · 23/09/2025 22:19

'Poor 'normal' dd' - come on op 😪

Congratulations on the new home.

Who are you to police what the OP calls her DD?

Congratulations from me too OP.

Coffee62 · 23/09/2025 23:35

Bum hole removal surgery

TinyTempest · 23/09/2025 23:39

He's had his bum hole removed?

UnusualCanoe · 23/09/2025 23:44

TinyTempest · 23/09/2025 23:39

He's had his bum hole removed?

Unfortunately a thing, although it's missing much context in this post.
My dad had bowel cancer and eventually ended up with an ileostomy and his anus removed (and the resulting gap stitched up). It was a phenomenally unpleasant recovery for him, and hadn't healed by the time he died.
None of that is relevant here, other than to say it can be a thing.

JackRobinson · 23/09/2025 23:46

What on earth are you on about?
And it's "bear".

Itstheshowgirl · 23/09/2025 23:46

It’s really hard to move away from a house you have been in so long and loved even when you know it’s the right thing for your family. It will be sad OP, and difficult with the health issues at play but you will all settle in soon enough and I am sure you will come to love the new place just as much.

Hope all is better for you and your family soon.

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