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Spitting feathers

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gilletwoes · 21/09/2025 13:39

When people say they are spitting feathers I always thought it meant you were thirsty and desperate for a brew. But now it seems to be used to indicate how angry you are. And I just want to comment to those that use it that way that what you really mean is ‘spitting tacks’.

or have I got that wrong?

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HyggeTygge · 21/09/2025 16:45

DiscoBob · 21/09/2025 15:41

It's 'splitting' tacks. Not spitting. I think. Can't remember what it means but my mum used to say it.

Spitting feathers should mean really thirsty shouldn't it. Or spitting dust?

I guess it's like a wild animal thats just attacked it's prey? But then surely you're angry before you've attacked something, not after. I think a cat would be happy after it caught and maimed a bird. Not angry?!

It's "spitting" tacks. You can Google it... it originates from upholsterer's tacks.

Dizzybob · 21/09/2025 16:53

I’ve only ever heard and used it to mean reallly angry. Never heard of spitting tacks.

Ddakji · 21/09/2025 16:56

Spitting feathers - really angry

Splitting hairs - being needlessly pedantic

Never heard to spitting tacks.

(Londoner, if that makes any difference.)

JohnTheRevelator · 21/09/2025 17:04

I've just googled it and it says it can mean either! Being very angry or very thirsty.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 21/09/2025 17:06

Have always known spitting feathers as angry.

Glittertwins · 21/09/2025 17:06

Ddakji · 21/09/2025 16:56

Spitting feathers - really angry

Splitting hairs - being needlessly pedantic

Never heard to spitting tacks.

(Londoner, if that makes any difference.)

not a Londoner by any means but this is exactly what I understand by the terms too.

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 21/09/2025 17:10

Spitting feathers = thirsty
Spitting blood = Angry

AgentPidge · 21/09/2025 17:16

HyggeTygge · 21/09/2025 13:41

I think you're right, OP.
One of those odd phrases that was quite specific and has changed meaning through misuse (like "begs the question")...

Yes! On both counts. Spitting feathers - thirsty. Spitting tacks - angry.
And I shudder every time I hear 'begs the question' when they mean poses or raises a question. It's made the language that bit poorer that the original meaning is being lost.

Shr3dding · 21/09/2025 17:48

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 21/09/2025 13:43

Absolutely agree, OP! I've commented on this before, 'spitting feathers' always used to mean thirsty or dry of mouth and spitting tacks was angry, but nowadays it seems noone has ever heard of spitting tacks!

I'm still unsure as to why 'spitting feathers' (ie, something very soft and undamaging) would mean angry?

Its not really a case of it used to mean one thing and now another, it has meant both for probably centuries and which way you think is likely to depend on where you grew up

No right or wrong answer

DiscoBob · 21/09/2025 20:29

HyggeTygge · 21/09/2025 16:45

It's "spitting" tacks. You can Google it... it originates from upholsterer's tacks.

Ah ok thank you! I must've misheard it. That does make sense. Like a tailor/upholsterer might spit them out in anger if he made a mistake?

PastaAllaNorma · 21/09/2025 20:38

DiscoBob · 21/09/2025 20:29

Ah ok thank you! I must've misheard it. That does make sense. Like a tailor/upholsterer might spit them out in anger if he made a mistake?

When you are doing upholstery or cabinetmaking, you hold the tacks between your lips with the points aiming out for ease of use as you're making. I've done it with my Dad.

If you're angry enough to want to say an expletive, you expell them - spitting tacks.

DiscoBob · 21/09/2025 20:53

PastaAllaNorma · 21/09/2025 20:38

When you are doing upholstery or cabinetmaking, you hold the tacks between your lips with the points aiming out for ease of use as you're making. I've done it with my Dad.

If you're angry enough to want to say an expletive, you expell them - spitting tacks.

Edited

Yeah, that's kind of exactly what I was imagining. Thank you! X

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