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It's not "10 year anniversary"!!

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Memberofstaff · 18/09/2025 12:00

It's 10th anniversary. Anniversary means yearly. Does my head in. Ditto PIN number.

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VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 18/09/2025 15:33

I'm a right pedant and I really couldn't be arsed to get upset about either of those two things

thisfilmisboring123 · 18/09/2025 15:36

Memberofstaff · 18/09/2025 14:32

Where is this "pendants corner" of which you speak?

It’s one thing to be a pedant, another to be a pedantic dickhead.

KiwiFall · 18/09/2025 15:46

Thankfully things like this don’t bother me. I can’t imagine it’s good for your health to get wound up by such little insignificant things in the grand scheme of life. As long as I understand what people are trying to say to me I really don’t care if they are grammatically correct.

TurraeaFloribunda · 18/09/2025 16:10

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 15:15

Check again.....

anniversary
noun
an·ni·ver·sa·ry ˌa-nə-ˈvərs-rē
-ˈvər-sə-

pluralanniversaries
1
: the annual recurrence of a date marking a notable event
a wedding anniversary
broadly : a date that follows such an event by a specified period of time measured in units other than years
the 6-month anniversary of the accident

The dictionary definition does include the broader use of the word not just annual events. The original post was about people saying "10 year anniversary". If someone used that phrase we would all know exactly what they meant, they would be communicating clearly. There would not be a problem.

I think you need to reread what you just posted… @didntlikeanyofthesuggestions 😂

Anniversary means the annual recurrence of a date. Therefore, it is redundant to add year (eg 10 year anniversary). As Merriam-Webster states in their definition, it is sometimes used for other time periods but in that case the time period must be specified. Anniversary without a specified time period can only mean the original definition.

sanityisamyth · 18/09/2025 18:05

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 12:26

An anniversary doesn't have to be yearly so you're getting upset about nothing.

What other uses of the word are there?!

Memberofstaff · 18/09/2025 18:56

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 15:15

Check again.....

anniversary
noun
an·ni·ver·sa·ry ˌa-nə-ˈvərs-rē
-ˈvər-sə-

pluralanniversaries
1
: the annual recurrence of a date marking a notable event
a wedding anniversary
broadly : a date that follows such an event by a specified period of time measured in units other than years
the 6-month anniversary of the accident

The dictionary definition does include the broader use of the word not just annual events. The original post was about people saying "10 year anniversary". If someone used that phrase we would all know exactly what they meant, they would be communicating clearly. There would not be a problem.

That's an American dictionary.

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Memberofstaff · 18/09/2025 19:01

thisfilmisboring123 · 18/09/2025 15:36

It’s one thing to be a pedant, another to be a pedantic dickhead.

It's a joke. Don't call me a dickhead please.

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MaryBeardsShoes · 18/09/2025 20:05

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 13:43

Nope, you need to be able to distinguish between the literal translation of words and what they are actually used to mean.

When somebody goes for a job interview do you insist they wear a white toga? Because that's what "candidate" means in Latin. If they get the job do you insist they spend their first pay packet on salt? Because "salary" means salt money. When you say someone is "nice" do you mean they are ignorant? Again.... Latin.

Words may have their roots in Latin but the meaning changes and nowadays anniversary doesn't have to refer to an annual event. Language is about communication. Gatekeeping and insisting people follow outdated rules just makes communication harder and reeks of snobbery and one-upmanship.

Very bold of you to be ordering people about when you’re so wrong!

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 18/09/2025 20:08

Forward planning. As opposed to... backwards planning?

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 21:18

MaryBeardsShoes · 18/09/2025 20:05

Very bold of you to be ordering people about when you’re so wrong!

Ordering around? Have you responded to the right post?

It’s genuinely impressive how passionately you defend such a tiny, inconsequential point about pedantry. It's a shame that the point itself isn’t actually correct as my posts have shown. I think the irony might be lost on you though and I don't think any further posts here are going to be helpful.

I'll set a reminder to check this post again on it's one year anniversary to see if it got resolved.

MaryBeardsShoes · 20/09/2025 07:50

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 21:18

Ordering around? Have you responded to the right post?

It’s genuinely impressive how passionately you defend such a tiny, inconsequential point about pedantry. It's a shame that the point itself isn’t actually correct as my posts have shown. I think the irony might be lost on you though and I don't think any further posts here are going to be helpful.

I'll set a reminder to check this post again on it's one year anniversary to see if it got resolved.

You’re still wrong though 🤷🏻‍♀️

BananaPeels · 20/09/2025 07:53

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 18/09/2025 12:26

An anniversary doesn't have to be yearly so you're getting upset about nothing.

I always thought anniversary was Latin-(been a while since I did it at school.

annus versus which means year turning

zaxxon · 20/09/2025 08:13

MaryBeardsShoes · 20/09/2025 07:50

You’re still wrong though 🤷🏻‍♀️

And if you were one of those people who love to mark the progress of your relationship, like another poster's DC above, what noun would you use for the non-yearly events?

"I'm taking Sara out to dinner tonight because it's our six-month ... mensaversary ...."

TurraeaFloribunda · 21/09/2025 11:47

zaxxon · 20/09/2025 08:13

And if you were one of those people who love to mark the progress of your relationship, like another poster's DC above, what noun would you use for the non-yearly events?

"I'm taking Sara out to dinner tonight because it's our six-month ... mensaversary ...."

As the Merriam-Webster definition posted says, if you add a time period before anniversary, it is used for time periods other than annual. Although, it’s an oxymoron 🤷‍♀️ Half anniversary (6 months) etc would probably be better, if you want to be pedantic 😂

Anniversary used alone always means an annual recurrence so year is redundant. You wouldn’t say it’s my 10 year birthday would you?

zaxxon · 21/09/2025 18:18

No, but that's because birthdays really only do come once a year, by definition. You're saying that "anniversary" is the same, but I'm saying it's not.

We needed a word to express the idea of "marking a certain number of units of time passed since a specific meaningful event", and there wasn't one, so "anniversary " stepped in to fill the gap.

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