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Neighbours light pollution

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JDM625 · 15/09/2025 21:38

A house across the road and up one renovated and had shrubs removed from their front garden. We've noticed 2 lights which are on from dusk till dawn which shine into our spare bedroom. They look like regular outdoor lights, but are so incredibly bright and akin to the brightness of lights on a sports field.I don't know if they are new or previously obscured by their shrubs.

Our next door neighbour, who directly faces this house, asked if they could turn the lights off at night or put them on a sensor, but the husband told her to F off and slammed the door. We recently had guests and despite the black out curtains, the room as illuminated all night by their lights.

We've previously swapped Christmas cards with the house in question and although we rarely talk, had no issues at all. DH went around to ask about the lights and the wife told him to go away, before the husband came up behind and slammed the door. If relevant, they are late 70's and our direct neighbour is mid 80's.

DH thinks if I go around, I might get further. Personally, I doubt it will make a difference and want to put a complaint into the council. What would you do?

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SingtotheCat · 16/09/2025 16:56

Tiredofwhataboutery · 15/09/2025 22:32

Also I suppose you can also have strong lights I’d rather deliberately find the strongest one and aim it at their sitting room window. Bedroom too. Then pop it on techno flash.

I was thinking mirrors to reflect it right back at them.

JDM625 · 16/09/2025 18:20

Thank you for the additional ideas.

Someone mentioned streetlights and there is one on our side of the road near our house, much closer than the neighbours down the road are. The streetlight is more an orange colour and goes off at 11pm. It is in no way as bright as the neighbours lights are and doesn't shine directly into the bedroom.

Mirrors or an equally bright spotlight their way are good ideas, but their house isn't directly opposite us and I'd worry about illuminating the wrong house/s.

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Sharptonguedwoman · 16/09/2025 20:35

DinoLil · 15/09/2025 22:14

How good an aim are you with an air rifle??! *joking!

was thinking this😂. Also joking.

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botheredandbewilderedagain · 16/09/2025 20:36

youalright · 16/09/2025 16:32

For them to realise how annoying and intrusive it is

There's nothing to stop the neighbours from following your playbook. Escalation means everyone loses and the entire street will end up being pissed off at 'light wars'.

Soontobe60 · 16/09/2025 20:41

JDM625 · 15/09/2025 22:08

@writingsonthewall @Arewethebadguys The lights are attached to their house, so unlikely I can sneek up and remove them.

Good points about getting better fitting blackout curtains. I will look into this and pelmets. I equally feel in summer when its hot and windows are open, our guests shouldn't need to shut themselves in to accommodate neighbours who have overly bright spotlights facing our home all night long.

Time to practice using a pea shooter or sling shot 😂

youalright · 17/09/2025 06:14

botheredandbewilderedagain · 16/09/2025 20:36

There's nothing to stop the neighbours from following your playbook. Escalation means everyone loses and the entire street will end up being pissed off at 'light wars'.

So what do you suggest just do nothing never stand up for yourself let everyone walk all over you

Merida46 · 17/09/2025 15:12

Buy one of those magnifying/make up mirrors, sit it on your bedroom window ledge and adjust the angle until it shines back at their bedroom window.

Tablesandchairs23 · 17/09/2025 16:36

Report it to the council its probably a statutory nuisance. They can take enforcement action.

IvyGotAnIdea · 17/09/2025 16:48

The term our council uses for it is "light trespass", because of the way it encroaches. Our NDN installed lights round the side of their house that point up and down and they are so bright when they're left on. The most annoying thing is, the way their house is configured they can't see them unless they're sitting outside but our house gets lit up like a Las Vegas casino! We complained to them in writing (via text) that it was light trespass and since then they've been good about keeping them turned off. So I would put a letter through their door from you and the other neighbour asking them to either move the lights or soften the bulbs and make it clear that if they ignore you, you will take it further with the council.

OLDERME · 17/09/2025 17:15

If it was me, I would put up decorative shutters inside my bedroom.
I would definitely want to complain to the council, but going by their reaction, this may do you more harm than good, by provoking even more action.

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 18/09/2025 00:27

youalright · 15/09/2025 23:11

Because what the neighbour is doing is illegal

No its not.

youalright · 18/09/2025 07:23

I know i realised after id wrote it but it can be seen as a statutory nuisance which means the council's environmental health department can serve an abatement notice and if thats ignored then legal action can be taken and the neighbour can be fined

B0D · 18/09/2025 07:38

Perhapse they installed them and removed the shrubs because they worry about security as they are elderly. Sounds like they’re being very unpleasant though

BadActingParsley · 18/09/2025 07:55

Can you plant anything in your front garden to block the lights somewhat. Also are they in good health or likely to be moving soon? I’d first try by putting a note through the door suggesting they change the bulbs.

JDM625 · 18/09/2025 09:54

Can you plant anything in your front garden to block the lights somewhat.
Its the upstairs bedrooms that the light affects, so unless I could grow bushy, evergreen trees which were 2 stories high, then no, plants/trees wouldn't be an option.

They live in a bungalow and I assume are in their 70's. They've lived there 30+yrs so doubt they'd be moving anytime soon.

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