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How many kids do you have if you are a woman earning over 80k a year?

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MockBatter · 09/09/2025 06:57

Just wondering after a colleague said women who earn high salaries tend not to have children or to have an only child. I’m not sure I agree I actually see that pattern amongst colleagues although it would make sense.

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Onionringsforbreakfast · 09/09/2025 14:10

Those saying they are single parents would be interested to know whether that is single parent with no support/involvement from the other parent or single parent where the other parent has DC half the week.

I have a DH who works long inflexible hours. So advancing my career would be much easier if DC away at Dad’s half the week. (Not that I would want that though for numerous other reasons)

FunnysInLaJardin · 09/09/2025 14:18

2, more than enough!

Algoquick · 09/09/2025 14:25

One but would have had more if I’d been able to. Nothing at all to do with my job or salary. My peers have a mix of 0, 1, 2, 3, 4.
My boss has several and is one of the top female CEOs in UK.

Nobumsonthetable · 09/09/2025 15:45

Two. Single parent

Artesia · 09/09/2025 21:59

3 and £210k. And permanently exhausted

Heyhiitsme · 10/09/2025 10:44

1 - circa £250k. Had DS when I was on £40k (with responsibilities to match!) and honestly I wouldn’t have another - or had one at all if DS hadn’t come along! 😏

dancingbymyself · 10/09/2025 10:45

None.

chuzzlewitthechipmunk · 10/09/2025 10:46

Most inspirational manager on that salary equivalent (although it’s a few years ago) I ever worked for had seven children.

MellowPinkDeer · 10/09/2025 10:55

2 and 2 step kids. I have noted that most of the women above me only have one child , one maternity leave out of the workplace.

HouseHangover · 10/09/2025 12:21

2 kids.
first child I had at 27, second child I had when I was 32. I’m a solicitor.

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