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Using cash in England and privacy

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AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 17:23

I’m an American traveling to Manchester, England this week. I haven’t been in a while. Can you still pay in shops with cash in UK cities? I prefer using cash for privacy reasons, and would like to know if I should exchange my money at the airport or not.

My husband recently went to Amsterdam and everywhere he went refused cash. He says Europeans don’t care about the right to privacy as much as Americans and are moving toward cashless societies. Is this true?

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viques · 30/08/2025 18:54

Ellmau · 30/08/2025 18:42

Taxi drivers prefer cash (although they will take cards).

For busses you will need to have the exact change if paying in cash as most drivers no longer have access to change. (May vary in different areas, but this s my experience.)

Hotels will probably want you to pay by card for legal reasons.

Some restaurants may take card details in advance to confirm a booking. I don't think there's a way round that.

If you are in London then buses do not take cash. If you don’t want to use your card you will need to buy a travel card of some description, available at mainline and tube ( underground) stations, best to buy an Oyster card or a card designed for visitors. The charge for a travel card is capped at a daily rate so if you use it a lot each 24 hour period will be cheaper. London tubes are safe, clean and generally efficient and easy to understand.

.sorry, just remembered you are going to Manchester!

Toomanywaterbottles · 30/08/2025 18:55

Are you referring to a debit card or a credit card? It’s far more sensible to pay with a credit card because that gives extra financial protection.

Ellmau · 30/08/2025 19:00

The diff between debit and credit might not translate to US issued cards.

MaidOfSteel · 30/08/2025 19:05

Where are all these cashless places? I’m in Scotland and have yet to come across any outlet that only takes cards!

OP, you’ll be fine. Have a good trip.

DarkYearForMySoul · 30/08/2025 19:09

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 18:49

That’s great. In the US your name is often printed on the receipt for anyone to see! It’s honestly stupid.

That’s shocking @AutumnalPieChomper
Also your caution sounds well founded considering the past experiences you alluded to.

One of the many benefits of having been in the EU is the data privacy legislation here. If you Google GDPR it’ll give you an idea. So no, when paying by card here only the last 4 digits of your card number are on the receipt- privacy and to counter fraud. You will be asked in shops if you would like your receipt emailed so you don’t lose it - it’s just a way to send you marketing. It’s fine to decline and ask for a paper receipt, I always do.

Despite all the loud voices shouting that the USA is home of freedom of speech and privacy, you might find the EU a breath of fresh air as they are truly about protecting community. Luckily we still have GDPR (which covers every organisation from the NHS to a corner shop) even if people were conned out of the EU.

jollygreenpea · 30/08/2025 19:10

When using public transport in Manchester, you tap your card at the platform when you get on, then tap again when you get off.
There is no ticket or receipt.

I would get a travel card and have some cash.

I meant to say that's if your using the trams. At trains stations you buy your tickets at the machine, there're mostly card only.

Aussiegold · 30/08/2025 19:14

I really would check beforehand that places you go to still accept cash as many chains no longer do and a lot of pubs are also trialling it.
These include Pret-a-Manger, Zizzi, Bill's and Megan's and even my local Lebanese restaurant doesn't take cash.
Like other posters I agree that it is unlikely that a waiter could get your personal information from a tap and pay transaction.

Hope you enjoy Manchester and Liverpool is but a short journey away!

Sesma · 30/08/2025 19:14

A lot of people on this forum are a bit funny about cash but plenty of people still use it in shops here.

jollygreenpea · 30/08/2025 19:15

I'm not doing well here, I meant they are/ they're.

jollygreenpea · 30/08/2025 19:17

I know of one pub that is 100% cash only, not in Manchester.

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 19:22

CrimsonStoat · 30/08/2025 18:14

OP: Europeans don’t care about the right to privacy as much as Americans

It's quite funny in a way isn't it. Europeans don't lack paranoia because we don't care, it's because we know we're protected by rigorous GDPR laws, so we don't need to be paranoid.

American laws seem so lax and ineffective, I'm not surprised they live in fear of using their cards!

Edited

Yep, that seems to be the difference right there.

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Caravaggiouch · 30/08/2025 19:23

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 17:39

No, I mean privacy reasons. If you pay with card, your bank or credit card company sells your info to third parties. At least that’s how it is for American banks/cc companies. There’s no way to opt out. Also shops and restaurants get access to your full name. I pay with cash to prevent male stalkers. In the US, if you pay with card at a restaurant and your waiter is a weirdo for whatever reason, they can try to find you online, etc. As a woman who’s experienced stalking, it feels much safer to pay with cash. Are the rules different in the UK? Do you have more privacy when you use a card?

That’s…not how this works. Just how backward is the US if that’s how it is there?

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 19:26

LaughingCat · 30/08/2025 18:11

Ok…if you’ve been stalked, I can see why you might have some issues with privacy. I’ve gone through it too (though with someone I know, not a stranger). Unlikely in a foreign country that you’ll pick that up here so you should be ok on that front and the data selling will be flipping useless given you’re abroad and therefore acting out of the ordinary.

However, I work in Greater Manchester and lived there for most of my life. You are FINE with cash.

Oh, and I find the best rates for exchange tends to be in Marks and Spencers (national treasure of a store) 😂 But a post office will do as well.

If you guys want to talk any recommendations of things to do in Manchester, let me know as I LOVE the place. It’s my heart and home. There’s so much hidden and unique stuff. You’ll have a ball!

Please let me know if there’s anything that is must see or do! I’ve already been told I need to go to the curry mile.

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AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 19:28

Caravaggiouch · 30/08/2025 19:23

That’s…not how this works. Just how backward is the US if that’s how it is there?

It’s so backwards here. Please be aware of your lack of privacy with cards if you ever travel to the US!

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BashfulClam · 30/08/2025 19:35

You don’t need privacy as you are not that interesting and even using cash you can be traced if needed.

Ellmau · 30/08/2025 19:44

If you don't mind a little bit of a day trip I really liked Quarry Bank in Styal, just outside Manchester. It's got a cotton mill, the owner's house, the house for the child 'apprentices' (really child labour) and the model cottage of one of the adult workers. Really interesting for industrial history.

Ginmonkeyagain · 30/08/2025 19:47

Lord, why is the USA so backward in financial things.
I viscerally remember the panic when I paid for a bar bill in NYC with Google pay and the bar man TOOK AWAY my phone .

PiggingBastardPigs · 30/08/2025 19:51

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 19:26

Please let me know if there’s anything that is must see or do! I’ve already been told I need to go to the curry mile.

Welcome to England AutumnalPieChomper and hope you have a lovely time ❤️

Comefromaway · 30/08/2025 20:01

viques · 30/08/2025 18:54

If you are in London then buses do not take cash. If you don’t want to use your card you will need to buy a travel card of some description, available at mainline and tube ( underground) stations, best to buy an Oyster card or a card designed for visitors. The charge for a travel card is capped at a daily rate so if you use it a lot each 24 hour period will be cheaper. London tubes are safe, clean and generally efficient and easy to understand.

.sorry, just remembered you are going to Manchester!

Edited

The trams in Manchester don’t take cash.
pretty much everywhere else will except for the theatres, the arenas & the sports stadiums.

RockaLock · 30/08/2025 20:10

OP, as several PPs have said, our GDPR laws will prevent your details from your credit card being used or sold on by UK companies (this should also apply for UK customers visiting the US - the UK bank/credit card companies would not be allowed to give a UK customer’s details to a US retailer).

I am always amazed by just how backward the US is in terms of card payment technology. When you think it is the country that gave us Apple, Google etc - and in restaurants your card is still taken away to process the payment, and you handwrite the tip on your receipt and then just hope they enter it correctly onto the till. It’s like the UK 30 years ago.

Hopefully you are reassured by everyone telling you that your card will never leave your hand. In addition, your full card number is never printed on any receipt. Please believe us when we say you will not be stalked as a result of using a credit or debit card over here.

And a lot of places, especial food outlets (cafes, sandwich shops, takeaways etc, especially chains like (for example) itsu) don’t take cash any more, so you might struggle.

Enjoy your trip! (And bring a warm jumper and a raincoat).

NewYorkSummer · 30/08/2025 20:30

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 30/08/2025 18:23

We're cashless to the extent that cheques were very nearly abolished in the UK a few years ago. Payment methods in the US are behind those in Europe. I work in a business with a large US presence. Half the invoices there are paid by cheque, which is pretty much unheard here. People on this thread talk about using their card contactlessly, but so many of us use our phones, watches, etc instead. I often go out with just my keys and phone, no purse, no handbag.

It's nearly ten years since we were last in the US, but we're going again soon. What can we expect for paying for things?

It depends where you’re going, but New York has definitely discovered Apple Pay, I mainly used my phone, hardly ever got my card out. The only thing we did notice was how crap the WiFi was in many places, we ended up having to pay by cash in several restaurants because the card machine wouldn’t connect.

TalulaHalulah · 30/08/2025 20:42

MaidOfSteel · 30/08/2025 19:05

Where are all these cashless places? I’m in Scotland and have yet to come across any outlet that only takes cards!

OP, you’ll be fine. Have a good trip.

The coffee carts at Glasgow Queen Street station, I think, for a start.

LaughingCat · 30/08/2025 20:53

AutumnalPieChomper · 30/08/2025 19:26

Please let me know if there’s anything that is must see or do! I’ve already been told I need to go to the curry mile.

Give curry mile a go but it has gone a little downhill in recent years. Still the best food though (I’m biased 😂). Give Whitworth Art Gallery a go before dinner - it’s tiny but worth it and in a lovely park too.

Hit up Manchester Art Gallery as well, in the centre of town - they’ve got some great exhibitions on right now. A couple of streets over is the Portico Library which is great for a spot of lunch or a coffee. One of the oldest private libraries - I’m a member there. But it’s open to the public for light bites and is an absolute hidden gem. Staff are super lovely!

Unfortunately the Town Hall nearby is under renovation so you won’t be able to see that. But you could check out the John Rylands library on your way down to Urbis and the main shopping area. Grab a drink and the corned beef hash at Sam’s Chop House while you check out St Ann’s Square with its 18th century church. Definitely drop into Sinclairs Oyster Bar for a very reasonably priced drink when you get to the Corn Exchange (and oysters if you like them!)

If you can, book a tour at Chetham’s School of Music, they have a library dating back to 1653 and some awesome stories. That’s also close to the Cathedral which is pretty awesome too and the Football museum if that’s your thing too!

Go to Mayfield Park if you can - it’s an urban park if you fancy a bit of city meets nature.

Northern Quarter if you like a bit of hipster nightlife. Matt and Phred’s Jazz Club is AMAZING and very chilled, and there’s the Night and Day cafe if you like live music.

If you’re here for any amount of time, you can get a Bee Network day rider and explore out of town too, all across the Greater Manchester region on tram and bus (eight local train lines are joining the network over the next few years but not in time for your visit). Try heading out onto Dovestones or into the Peak District for some wild moors. Over 90% of Greater Manchester is actually rural countryside with great hiking and hospitality. That is a whole other comment though!

I know a lot of people tend to dismiss Manchester (alongside other northern and midland cities) as not having much but honestly…I’ve scratched the surface. Go for a walk along the canal, check out the Roman fortifications in Castlefield, go to the People’s History Museum. Plenty to keep you occupied, even if you stay in the city centre.

Just soak up the vibes. For somewhere where it rains so much…we’re all pretty happy, sunny people if prone to sarcasm ☺️

LaughingCat · 30/08/2025 20:57

Comefromaway · 30/08/2025 20:01

The trams in Manchester don’t take cash.
pretty much everywhere else will except for the theatres, the arenas & the sports stadiums.

The trams in Manchester definitely still take cash - the machines on the platforms all take them. Used them literally last week.

EDIT: Just remember to pay before you get on the tram. You can’t pay on the tram and the fines are stiff.

LaughingCat · 30/08/2025 21:00

Ellmau · 30/08/2025 19:44

If you don't mind a little bit of a day trip I really liked Quarry Bank in Styal, just outside Manchester. It's got a cotton mill, the owner's house, the house for the child 'apprentices' (really child labour) and the model cottage of one of the adult workers. Really interesting for industrial history.

Also another vote for this. I grew up around half hour walk away and it’s brilliant.

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