About a year ago, I met a man and we started dating. It became apparent about a month in that I didn’t want anything serious with him and we decided that FWB situation could be an option. So for the next few months we would meet maybe once a week for drinks then back to his or mine. Nothing more to it. I then met someone that I wanted to be with and ended the FWB situation and have been in a relationship with the guy I met ever since and had no contact with the ex fling.
About a month ago my friend said she started seeing someone and it turned out to be the old fling… obviously I was a little surprised but it didn’t bother me as it was only a brief fling and had pretty much forgotten about him.
Since then we’ve met a few times at social events, a little awkward at first but I did get a weird vibe from him. He’s made a few weird comment about me. Like almost mocking him to my friends but presented in a joking way. He’s very charming so people are quite drawn to him. He then made a weird comment to me about our past sex life.
At the weekend I held a birthday party for our mutual friend at my flat and my friend brought the old fling. Everything went fine but I found him in my bedroom alone. He said he was drunk and was looking for the bathroom. He’s been to my flat multiple times so would have known where the bathroom was. I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid but him being in there made me uncomfortable and when I was putting my washing away today I’ve noticed a bra and thong missing. I’ve searched and can’t find them anywhere, I also can’t prove him taking them as I have no proof.
I don’t understand what his motive would be here. It’s been like a year since we first dated and I’ve heard nothing since I broke it off but it’s generally making me feel uneasy.