Would you report your child to the police

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If they did something wrong that could have significant impact on your future, would you report them to the police

What did they do?

Depends what they did. Rape, paedophile absolutely drug dealing, murder probably not

It honestly depends on what it was and the knock on effects for everyone. Tbf mine are only 7, so hopefully have a way to go before I have to worry about it, but there are some things I would definitely call the police about, and some I’d let slide.

I can't say, it's subject to a police enquiry. It will probably be dropped. If not it falls under coersive control

Then it would depend on their attitude to whether they realise how wrong they are and will stop or they are still blaming the victim or still in a relationship with the victim then i wouldn't necessarily report but also wouldn't lie if asked i certainly wouldn't be sticking up for them

Coercive control? Without a doubt. How else would they learn and take stock of what they've done?

Coercive control of you? A partner? Coercive control in what way?

As others have said, it would depend on what

If it was something serious then yes definitely. I think we do our children a disservice if we don't ensure that they take the consequences of their actions. And it's important that victims get justice. An old schoolfriend of my son was convicted of murder, he was turned in by his mum. While it must have been terrible for her, a young man was killed and his family needed to see justice done.

Me and other family members. Could have landed me with a criminal record if she had succeeded (my job gone and other stuff) purely out of luck i happened to be with other people at the time so couldn't have done what she was setting me up for.

No.

Love her dearly but not really currently for obvious reasons. Tells me I'm nuts, persuaded a couple of family members I'm nuts too. I'm not, or at least I don't think I am. I know it happened (have tech trail)

You'd be ok with your kids murdering someone!

Yes.

couldn’t live with my conscience if I didn’t and my child had murdered, abused etc, someone.

Why not murder?

Because in certain circumstances i can see how good people can murder someone. Rape or being a paedophile i can't see any good reason

Under certain circumstances absolutely well not ok with it but I could understand

I would report her in the circumstances you have listed.

What's her reaction to everything does she realise how wrong she is or is she still trying to ruin the other person's life is she still in contact with the other person is the other person vulnerable