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How do you cope with the news?

91 replies

cumbriaisbest · 22/08/2025 17:48

I feel utter despair. Really.

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cumbriaisbest · 27/08/2025 19:34

Comedycook · 23/08/2025 11:26

Quite easily to be honest.

I watch the news every day. Yes there are lots of upsetting things on there...but quite frankly there hasn't ever been a time when upsetting things have been happening.

Famine? Find me a point in history where someone in the world hasn't been starving. I'm not callous....it's upsetting and if a hungry person stood before me, I'd feed them obviously. But the world is a big place and the truth is we have very little power...to think we play a significant role is either spectacularly naive or spectacularly narcissistic.

Famine and a question mark.. Really?

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Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 20:24

cumbriaisbest · 27/08/2025 19:34

Famine and a question mark.. Really?

Exactly natural disaster is bad enough when famine ensues but a man made famine orchestrated on purpose is pure evil.
No matter your stance on politics or religion this is surely unacceptable on a humane level if nothing else.

LupaMoonhowl · 27/08/2025 20:29

Just don’t watch it - especially BBC which endlessly catastrophises.
I haven’t had a TV licence for years but occasionally see the news at my parents house and it just makes them anxious, and in the Covid years totally batshit paranoid.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 27/08/2025 21:04

I avoid it completely, as it is far too depressing. The only time I really hear of anything is if someone mentions something at work. The rest of the time, we're in a little bubble as what's happening in big cities isn't always relevant to people who live in deepest darkest countryside!

Now, if it was happy news, I might be more inclined to watch or read it!

BlueyGreyWhale · 27/08/2025 21:05

cumbriaisbest · 22/08/2025 17:48

I feel utter despair. Really.

By not reading it. I stopped reading it in covid.It was so depressing.

There is nothing I can do about it.

I don't understand news junkies who read it constantly

DryAndBalmy · 27/08/2025 21:08

I glance at:
BBC app
Guardian App

and we get The Week and the Sunday Times which I flick through at the weekend and read the articles that interest me.

I don’t watch news on the telly, I only listen to podcasts (one newsy one - Political
Currency) not radio.

Goonie1 · 27/08/2025 21:23

I stopped watching the news during the pandemic. Prior, I watched and felt like I had the weight of the world on my shoulders worrying about everything and everyone. If there is anything massive I need to know about, it’s usually a discussion point in work
chit chat. Otherwise, I’d rather not know. I know it’s the ostrich effect, but it is better for my anxiety that way.

LilacPony · 27/08/2025 21:30

Thing is, this is what they do, we have such despair that we all start to turn off and not watch. They do it on purpose. Then very few are “watching” the government/big corps etc and that’s when they start changing laws/putting through crazy regulations, because we’ve all turned off. Everyone laughs at the Media degree, but it’s the most dangerous thing out there controlling us and we just let it. The system isn’t broken, it was made this way on purpose.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 27/08/2025 21:31

LilacPony · 27/08/2025 21:30

Thing is, this is what they do, we have such despair that we all start to turn off and not watch. They do it on purpose. Then very few are “watching” the government/big corps etc and that’s when they start changing laws/putting through crazy regulations, because we’ve all turned off. Everyone laughs at the Media degree, but it’s the most dangerous thing out there controlling us and we just let it. The system isn’t broken, it was made this way on purpose.

🙄

Radicalpiloti · 27/08/2025 21:31

I just get the headlines once or twice a day and don’t give it any more thought. It’s almost become easier recently as I feel pretty dissociated. I also understand things aren’t any worse than at other periods. There’s just more of the news

TaborlinTheGreat · 27/08/2025 21:34

Ladedahlia · 23/08/2025 10:07

I don’t understand this attitude at all. How can it possibly not impact you?

I fimd it sad and I have great sympathy for those going through these awful things, but I don't have a lasting emotional reaction to it. I doubt most people do tbh, otherwise they would struggle to actually function in their day-to-day lives, given the number of disasters and sad things that happen around the world every day.

Radicalpiloti · 27/08/2025 21:35

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 20:24

Exactly natural disaster is bad enough when famine ensues but a man made famine orchestrated on purpose is pure evil.
No matter your stance on politics or religion this is surely unacceptable on a humane level if nothing else.

Sure, it’s totally unacceptable. But it’s also out of my remit. I’m on this earth for a short time and, whilst I would do something if I could, I can’t. So why would I waste my precious 60,70, 80 years depressed about it?

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 27/08/2025 21:44

Radicalpiloti · 27/08/2025 21:35

Sure, it’s totally unacceptable. But it’s also out of my remit. I’m on this earth for a short time and, whilst I would do something if I could, I can’t. So why would I waste my precious 60,70, 80 years depressed about it?

I wouldn't either.

SchoolMum22 · 27/08/2025 21:52

Yes I agree. The news is horrendous and has been for awhile. I have to wonder why, because it’s making a whole nation ignorant and depressed quite frankly. I think there needs to be a new agenda of new items with good news 50-50 with bad and to be honest, I’ve stopped listening to anything with the orange T in it because he’s an attention seeking beep.
It’s hard but I try & focus my time and energy on positive stories like the diary of a CEO and YouTube of positivity, manifestations or interviews like Steve Bartlett or Paul C Brunson to find out the good and bad of peoples life stories.
Good luck and replace all that negativity with positive apps or manifestations or read a good positive book, phone a friend, meet a friend or learn a language or do a hobby xxxx

ChickenThigh · 27/08/2025 21:54

Stop watching the news.
If you do see anything develop some boundaries for yourself so you’re not ruining your life as well.
We can make a bigger impact on others by doing that. If we live in misery, no matter how noble the cause, our impact on others is to bring them down too.
If there’s something practical you can do - donate money, write to MP - then do it, but if there isn’t you can’t live a life full of the despair of people you don’t know, it’s a hopeless route to travel. Have compassion, but learn to protect yourself.

minipie · 27/08/2025 22:01

I don’t watch the news

I take a look at the headlines sometimes on BBC News or elsewhere to keep vaguely in the loop. But I usually don’t read the details. Reading or watching the full news makes me miserable and benefits nobody so best if I don’t.

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