18yo was in an accident last night. He was stationery at a roundabout and a car drove into him (2 friends as passengers). Driver v apologetic, was distracted by an accident at the side of the road. Swapped numbers and license plate. All thankfully ok but shook up.
We contacted DS's insurance initially, following guidelines and they've said his car would be a write off due to its age. BUT the damage seems very minimal, a cracked bumper and a couple of scrapes. There could be something else that's been loosened or knocked that we don't know about, but visually that's all there is.
We really don't want his car to be written off. It took us ages to find it, he's had it only 6 months and he worked and saved so hard for it. Others we saw were just rubbish in comparison. This had newer 'major' parts plus he's just spent £500 on some other repairs. Assuming insurance pay less than it's really worth, he won't be able to get a replacement car for several months until he's saved £££ more. He relies on it for work and has just left college for his job.
I'm wondering about asking the driver if he wants to settle privately. Only hesitation is if his passengers want to pursue a personal injury claim. Should we ask this first? Or is that putting something in their/their parents heads potentially? They all have a bit of backache as expected from the impact but I am sure will be fine in a few days.
I don't know his friends or their families, they're new friends - more friends of friends, really. Not sure if I should offer to speak to their parents.
WWYD?