I've just heard that one of our neighbours has died. He wasn't old, has a wife and teenage children. I feel awful for them, but not sure how to go about offering condolences. I didn't know them very well, but it's a friendly street - we would always stop and pass the time of day when passing. I feel like I should definitely go round and offer condolences, but at the same time I don't want to intrude - they're obviously going to be very raw right now.
I'm quite introverted and socially awkward - if it was me I'd probably hate people coming and knocking on my door, but obviously its the done thing, which is why I'm posting for advice. It happened yesterday. What do people think: go round and knock this afternoon, give it day or two and go round in person, put a card through so they know I'm thinking of them but don't have to deal with speaking to me? I'd rather put a card through, but that feels a bit cowardly and more about me than them - and I definitely don't want to be that person when they're going through this. Thoughts?