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Lucy Letby: Have you changed your mind?

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Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 12:54

The other thread has had a lot of really interesting discussion but we are running out of pages so here’s a new one for those who are interested in continuing the conversation.

Whether you’re sure she’s guilty, sure she isn’t, or are somewhere in between, I’m interested in hearing how your opinion has evolved (or hasn’t!) since you first heard about the case,

Please try to be respectful - this is a heated topic. Its a matter of huge public interest with a lot of strong opinions, but we are all adults and can disagree with each other in a respectful manner.

Old thread is here (the poll still has a few days left):
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5388914-lucy-letby-have-you-changed-your-mind?page=38&reply=146359313

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Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 21:42

Typicalwave · 12/08/2025 20:33

I went and looked him up after our exchange yesterday - I knew his name was familiar to me.

He’s destroyed lives over the years piggybacking onto Meadows flawed MSPB theories.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2004/jan/25/childrensministry.highereducation

Him, Meadow and

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He has indeed. Dewi Evans spent most of his expert witness career in the closed family courts where the burden of proof is much lower. I don’t doubt that he has left a trail of destruction in his wake.

Dewi Evans meant to called Dr Martin Ward Platt as an expert witness in the Letby case. But Ward Platt died before the trial. Ward Platt was pivotal in securing the wrongful convictions of Angela Cannings and Donna Anthony, who were both convicted of murdering their children based on prosecution friendly faulty evidence.

I can see why Evans and WP were mates.

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kkloo · 12/08/2025 21:44

Newbutoldfather · 12/08/2025 20:33

But if you go down the probability route, there are a lot of things, even if circumstantial, which, when put together are quite damning.

The insulin is probably the most powerful, even if, maybe, there is a small probability that, in pre terms, you could get that extraordinary ratio of insulin to c peptide naturally.

Then there is the ‘ventilated shifts’. I tried to find more out about the rebuttal after some suggested the maths was bad. But was it so bad her tube coming out percentage was equal to everyone else’s?

And then there is the original reason she was charged based on correlations. As many statisticians have pointed out, the methodology was flawed, but it still has some weight.

And her own notes ‘I did it’. Of course, again alone, it is insufficient as many innocent people who feel guilty may write that. But most wouldn’t.

If you multiply the above together, there seems a low probability of her being innocent. Is it 0? Absolutely not. Is it beyond reasonable doubt? That is for a jury to decide.

Maybe she does deserve a retrial based on poorly presented evidence and that is what is being looked at now.

But I don’t think we will ever know (unless she confesses) 100% whether she is guilty or innocent.

But if you go down the probability route you should also go down it the other way and look at the substandard care in the hospital etc and add all of the issues together and see which is more damning.

In one of the parents accounts in the inquiry there was a long list of failures and issues with the hospital and care and then the judge said something like 'but you weren't aware that Lucy Letby was working that night were you'?
It's like absolutely everything else is glossed over.

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 21:48

MrsBungle · 12/08/2025 21:37

@Firefly1987 can you please share why you feel LL is a narcissist? Why do you think she murdered the babies in a narcissistic rage? What evidence is there that generates your belief in this? You also say she’s been shown to be highly manipulative. What’s the evidence for this? I’m genuinely wondering! I’ve missed all of this evidence although I’ve read a lot about the case.

She's talking crap.

Manipulative people don't write notes "confessing" they're evil (that was meant for her eyes only) so not used to garner any feelings from anyone.

Manipulative people don't tend to have steady relationships and friendships and stable relationships with parents.

Manipulative people don't tend to go through life for 20+years without pissing off at least someone. (By nobody coming out of the woodwork to taint her character since conviction) I think we can safely assume she wasn't in the habit of acting oddly with people (be that callously manipulating or sickly over friendly /fawning )

Narcissist rage doesn't happen only once in 20+years. It'd have been a regular recurring feature that at least someone would have witnessed over her lifespan. Nobody did. Because it never happened.

MrsBungle · 12/08/2025 21:53

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 21:48

She's talking crap.

Manipulative people don't write notes "confessing" they're evil (that was meant for her eyes only) so not used to garner any feelings from anyone.

Manipulative people don't tend to have steady relationships and friendships and stable relationships with parents.

Manipulative people don't tend to go through life for 20+years without pissing off at least someone. (By nobody coming out of the woodwork to taint her character since conviction) I think we can safely assume she wasn't in the habit of acting oddly with people (be that callously manipulating or sickly over friendly /fawning )

Narcissist rage doesn't happen only once in 20+years. It'd have been a regular recurring feature that at least someone would have witnessed over her lifespan. Nobody did. Because it never happened.

I agree and I’ve seen no evidence to suggest it’s the case at all. That’s why I’m wondering why the poster has that view.

Catpuss66 · 12/08/2025 21:54

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 21:12

What on earth has getting drunk and having slightly wild life experiences got to do with murdering babies? Most people who let loose as a young person go on to be completely regular members of society? She was an only child so nobody got that close to her other than her parents. We simply don't know what is in her past, just like for years no one knew what she was doing to the babies. I don't expect an old friend to come out and go "oh I totally wasn't surprised to hear she was murdering babies, she always seemed like the type" because no one is ever going to suspect something like that. Besides, a lot of us think an incident happened at the hospital that maybe wasn't her fault and she enjoyed the buzz around it and that's what set it all off. It became addictive for her.

What sort of "motive" would ever justify or explain what she did? There is none, so unless you are going to say you just don't believe healthcare serial killers of babies exist you have to accept any motive is not going to make sense to us by default. It does to her though, that's the crux of it.

I don't think she's a psychopath I think she's a narcissist. And at their core they believe they are not good enough, and that would fit in perfectly with the note she wrote. I also believe she partly did it out of anger and revenge (narcissistic rage) when she realised she could harm the babies if someone "crossed" her. Plus hatred of seeing others happy. Narcs hate that others are happy because they're so empty. She's been shown to be highly manipulative, anyone who knows a narc well knows how other people get sucked in by them. She's manipulating you all still and I can't believe people on mumsnet who are supposed to be so switched on can't see her for what she is! But then this place is very default "women can do no wrong" so shouldn't be surprised.

I don’t think I have even heard her speak so not sure she is manipulating me. Worked in the nhs for 30+yrs been bullied for calling out bad care so have experience being on the receiving end. I agree women can be vile. There will always be the ones who want to kick you when you are down. From you post seems like you have met her but I need to see your evidence rather your overall pseudo psychological assessment.

Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 21:59

Diagnosing strangers at a distance based only on lurid tabloids and a lurid tabloid podcast is tremendously unserious.

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Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:01

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 21:39

Re: your first line (I didn't read the rest after that absurdity ) .... Did I say getting pissed meant you were a psychopath? No , I think you'll find I didn't 🙄

What I did say was most if not practically all of us have a 'past' where someone could say "ohhh I remember seeing Lisa on a night out. She was on the floor covered in vomit "

What I was saying is with Lucy, there appears to be literally nothing even remotely silly and salicious. That's my whole point of that comparison, that most of us have things we cringe at , little shameful stuff that we hope nobody remembers. She had zilch, zero, nadder. Because trust me, anything, absolutely anything would have been plucked to try to taint her character. They found she loved her mum and dad and slept with teddies !? That's all they found.

Because if they had found even the slightest tit bit over the teddies and loving her parents , they'd have used it over that !!

So example: "ex school mate Tasha told the Sun that Lucy was once passed out in a chair in the local pub with vomit down her front. It was obvious that she must have harboured a secret problem with alcohol, perhaps to cover up the mental health problems she was experiencing which caused her to go on to be a cold blooded killer" that would have sufficed for a paper to make a story believe me !!

I can't believe I've had to explain that to you.

Thankfully I think everyone else understood my point 🙄

There actually is a video of her with her friend Dawn walking round town tipsy, one or both of them walked into a lamp post or wall and burst out laughing. She was often photographed with a drink in her hand. She liked her prosecco. So you're actually wrong anyway. None of that is the least bit relevant to the case.

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:02

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:01

There actually is a video of her with her friend Dawn walking round town tipsy, one or both of them walked into a lamp post or wall and burst out laughing. She was often photographed with a drink in her hand. She liked her prosecco. So you're actually wrong anyway. None of that is the least bit relevant to the case.

No... It isn't.... How bizarre that you think I thought it was. I'd get off this thread. You're embarrassing yourself rather.

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/08/2025 22:03

No

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:03

Catpuss66 · 12/08/2025 21:54

I don’t think I have even heard her speak so not sure she is manipulating me. Worked in the nhs for 30+yrs been bullied for calling out bad care so have experience being on the receiving end. I agree women can be vile. There will always be the ones who want to kick you when you are down. From you post seems like you have met her but I need to see your evidence rather your overall pseudo psychological assessment.

I'd ignore that poster. I think she herself is manipulative. She managed to twist my post into something it really wasn't (and it still pretending not to get it )

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:05

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:02

No... It isn't.... How bizarre that you think I thought it was. I'd get off this thread. You're embarrassing yourself rather.

I just don't know why you're making irrelevant points that even you agree don't mean anything...

Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 22:05

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:01

There actually is a video of her with her friend Dawn walking round town tipsy, one or both of them walked into a lamp post or wall and burst out laughing. She was often photographed with a drink in her hand. She liked her prosecco. So you're actually wrong anyway. None of that is the least bit relevant to the case.

Are you some kind of puritan? Who cares?!

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Mischance · 12/08/2025 22:06

My opinion has not changed and that is that is a matter for the police and the courts and this trial my media is not appropriate and makes the courts' work more difficult.

BoredZelda · 12/08/2025 22:10

It’s a tough one for me. I believe in the British Justice system, wrongful convictions do happen but they are rare. From the information I’ve seen, there seems to be reasonable doubt, but I haven’t seen what the jury saw so I can’t be sure. It is also the case where there has been wrongdoing by doctors, it’s the easiest thing in the world to blame a nurse, particularly if she is a woman. The public will grab on to a “killer nurse” narrative, because we have seen them before.

I think at the very least there should be a review of the whole thing, particularly in light of the highlighted failings at the NNICU.

Frieda86 · 12/08/2025 22:11

Just watched the BBC doc and I'm even more confused. I've got some questions.

  1. If she harmed at least 14 babies, how did noone ever see anything? Is there no cctv in the hospital? Are the NICU areas not staffed quite highly (i know they were short staffed though). Some of the things she apparently did must have taken some time. Where was everyone else?
  2. Where did she get the insulin? I'm guessing insulin is not a regular medicine on that ward and surely there are records of who gets what meds. Unless LL is a diabetic she would have needed to get it somewhere.
  3. How do you choose which "expert" to believe???
kkloo · 12/08/2025 22:11

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:01

There actually is a video of her with her friend Dawn walking round town tipsy, one or both of them walked into a lamp post or wall and burst out laughing. She was often photographed with a drink in her hand. She liked her prosecco. So you're actually wrong anyway. None of that is the least bit relevant to the case.

I remember that video.
Some people tried to say that she pushed her drunk friend into a wall when her drunk friend was clearly vulnerable, and that of course was more proof of how evil and cruel she is that she'd even try to harm her drunk vulnerable mate.

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:12

Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 22:05

Are you some kind of puritan? Who cares?!

Are you just being obtuse? I keep saying over and over it's meaningless whether she ever had a wild night out or not! But the PP said the tabloids would've put it out there if they could. So I'm just saying er actually they did...there's a video of it in case she didn't know. it just doesn't matter and has no bearing on the case.

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:13

kkloo · 12/08/2025 22:11

I remember that video.
Some people tried to say that she pushed her drunk friend into a wall when her drunk friend was clearly vulnerable, and that of course was more proof of how evil and cruel she is that she'd even try to harm her drunk vulnerable mate.

Well that's ridiculous!

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:14

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:05

I just don't know why you're making irrelevant points that even you agree don't mean anything...

Let me make it very very plain for you :

  1. Most of us have done something regretful in our past. Shagging someone you shouldn't have. Blazing row with an ex aged 18 that made you look a pyscho. Got pissed and fell out of a taxi. Got irate with a neighbour over something petty. You know... Etc etc

2.) if most of us were on trial for being the UK's most prolific baby killer , and the newspaper and media outlets were fishing round offering money (which they will have been like panting dogs on heat ) old Bob from number 6 back at the argument with the teenage boyfriend would have definitely crawled out to say "I saw her going hammer and tong with this poor wee fella. Looked right scared he did. She was in his face yelling like a woman crazed. I think she scratched his face. Margaret from number 8 said she thinks he had to go to the hospital. I knew right then she was destined to kill " ... Getting it ?

3.) so nowhere in any of that have I mentioned the relevance to a trial (not did I profess as such)

4.) what I have said is that she appeared to have a squeaky clean past. Because any slightest things she did or said would have been pumped full of steroids, set on fire and happily sold to the Sun or Closer magazine. Especially where money is involved. It's a miracle that nobody has found anything banal to twist and sell. .... It's either a miracle.... Or she is indeed, squeaky clean . And that's my point. I think she is.

Enough? I would you further like to chase our tails ?

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:20

@SquishedMallow OK I'm not sure why you're so angry but thank you. I agree there is nothing untoward that anyone has come out with. I expected a lot of people to come out the woodwork with stories and none of that has really happened. It could be because there's nothing to tell or it could be some other reason like they don't want to get hounded by the press etc. who knows.

Kittybythelighthouse · 12/08/2025 22:21

Mischance · 12/08/2025 22:06

My opinion has not changed and that is that is a matter for the police and the courts and this trial my media is not appropriate and makes the courts' work more difficult.

1 - Public and media scrutiny are a cornerstone of British justice, providing a check on the justice system as crucial in a democracy as jury trials.

2 - There is no “trial by media”. All anyone wants is for the courts to review the evidence which plainly needs to happen.

3 - No high profile MoJ has ever been corrected without serious public and media pressure. History shows us that the courts, unfortunately, cannot be trusted to mark their own homework.

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SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:22

Oh @Firefly1987 you really are something aren't you .. I'm "angry" ... ?

Luckily others can read. So I think they can figure out who the off centre one is here.

I think by "angry" you mean : I've caught you out. And that's your emotive response.

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:24

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:14

Let me make it very very plain for you :

  1. Most of us have done something regretful in our past. Shagging someone you shouldn't have. Blazing row with an ex aged 18 that made you look a pyscho. Got pissed and fell out of a taxi. Got irate with a neighbour over something petty. You know... Etc etc

2.) if most of us were on trial for being the UK's most prolific baby killer , and the newspaper and media outlets were fishing round offering money (which they will have been like panting dogs on heat ) old Bob from number 6 back at the argument with the teenage boyfriend would have definitely crawled out to say "I saw her going hammer and tong with this poor wee fella. Looked right scared he did. She was in his face yelling like a woman crazed. I think she scratched his face. Margaret from number 8 said she thinks he had to go to the hospital. I knew right then she was destined to kill " ... Getting it ?

3.) so nowhere in any of that have I mentioned the relevance to a trial (not did I profess as such)

4.) what I have said is that she appeared to have a squeaky clean past. Because any slightest things she did or said would have been pumped full of steroids, set on fire and happily sold to the Sun or Closer magazine. Especially where money is involved. It's a miracle that nobody has found anything banal to twist and sell. .... It's either a miracle.... Or she is indeed, squeaky clean . And that's my point. I think she is.

Enough? I would you further like to chase our tails ?

Ps if anyone could point out how I am "angry" here, I'd very much appreciate it 😄

Firefly1987 · 12/08/2025 22:29

SquishedMallow · 12/08/2025 22:22

Oh @Firefly1987 you really are something aren't you .. I'm "angry" ... ?

Luckily others can read. So I think they can figure out who the off centre one is here.

I think by "angry" you mean : I've caught you out. And that's your emotive response.

Caught me out? How exactly? I asked you to clarify what point you were trying to make which is a perfectly reasonable request (which you could've just ignored if it bothered you that much) I'm actually being remarkably restrained considering your tone the whole time with your "let me make it plain for you" and "getting it?" and now "others can read"-yes you are very angry. But it'd be great if we can draw a line under it now considering you explained what you meant and I accepted that.

MrsBungle · 12/08/2025 22:31

@Firefly1987 what about the question I asked you about your evidence as to why LL is a narcissist?

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