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If your dog bit someone...

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LittleSkeletonSailor · 06/08/2025 13:36

What would your immediate reaction and then course of action afterwards be?

If it was someone known to you, not close but you know their address and phone number etc..

Dog bit because it was startled.

OP posts:
Newfluff · 07/08/2025 08:54

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 08:38

Just out of curiosity, what does it mean "will be handled by insurer"?
What will the insurer do for the bitten person?

I guess if you woudn't even apologize and confirm the dog's vaccinations and so on, and would just talk about the insurer, I'd feel I have to call a police, just to have the event logged properly (how do I know what version are you going to tell to the insurer).

Thankfully I have no idea.

I just read my policy every renewal (as in all the T&C's ) and it is very clear that you mustn't admit liability or you risk not having the insurance cover you- motor insurance is the same, it also says you must never admit liability.

I would give you my name/address/number ultimately I would assume you would wish to claim compensation in which case I need my insurance to pay out.

I think it is odd that you wouldn't call the police if someone apologised but would if they were planning to go through insurance.

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 09:23

Newfluff · 07/08/2025 08:54

Thankfully I have no idea.

I just read my policy every renewal (as in all the T&C's ) and it is very clear that you mustn't admit liability or you risk not having the insurance cover you- motor insurance is the same, it also says you must never admit liability.

I would give you my name/address/number ultimately I would assume you would wish to claim compensation in which case I need my insurance to pay out.

I think it is odd that you wouldn't call the police if someone apologised but would if they were planning to go through insurance.

I'm not saying it is rational or well thought though. I just came across your post and realised I have no idea what it would mean.

The thing is those conditions are between you and your insurer, and I'd be afraid that - as you are their client, not me - they would have no reason to not fob me off. So I'd want to have an institution on my side as well if it comes to it.

I suppose it depends on the damage - if it is bigger one, the police should be involved anyway.
But if it is a scratch and I have no intention to claim any compensation, I don't want to hear about your insurer and I don't care about your policy, I want you to apologise and do better.

PixiePuffBall · 07/08/2025 09:25

Apologise and offer the person your dog bit some kind of compensation. Or don't be surprised when they choose to take it further

Your dog will need to be muzzled in future around anyone who isn't you

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 07/08/2025 09:34

If someone’s dog ran out of their house and bit me so badly I needed to go to the hospital and they didn’t so much as apologise, I’d report them to the police.

If they were really apologetic and came to check on me etc. I probably wouldn’t bother reporting.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 07/08/2025 09:35

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 08:38

Just out of curiosity, what does it mean "will be handled by insurer"?
What will the insurer do for the bitten person?

I guess if you woudn't even apologize and confirm the dog's vaccinations and so on, and would just talk about the insurer, I'd feel I have to call a police, just to have the event logged properly (how do I know what version are you going to tell to the insurer).

Insurance will often cover medical bills and legal costs.

Silverbirchleaf · 07/08/2025 10:20

EmmaD11 · 06/08/2025 18:35

I can’t believe you are trying to shift blame on to a child. I don’t care what a child does, if the response from a dog is to attack it then the dog needs to be destroyed.

The sense of entitlement shown by some dog owners is appalling.

Actually, @K0OLA1D has a point. I was walking with my lab, along a quiet street. Dog on lead walking next to me. A child ran across the road, arms out stretched, shouting, across to me and my dog. There was no reaction from the parent, not even to stop the child running across the road. My dog got scared. Fortunately, he hid behind my legs, and this is a lab who usually assumes everyone is their new best friend. This child (or parent for that matter) had no dog etiquette at all, and I had to explain that ‘ my dog was shy’, and ‘didn’t want to be patted’. In retrospect, I should have said something to the parent about having better control of her kid, and regret I didn’t say so at the time. (Can you tell I’m still cross about the incident).

(Obviously a vicious , out of control dog is different, but kids aren’t all angels either).

Newfluff · 07/08/2025 10:31

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 09:23

I'm not saying it is rational or well thought though. I just came across your post and realised I have no idea what it would mean.

The thing is those conditions are between you and your insurer, and I'd be afraid that - as you are their client, not me - they would have no reason to not fob me off. So I'd want to have an institution on my side as well if it comes to it.

I suppose it depends on the damage - if it is bigger one, the police should be involved anyway.
But if it is a scratch and I have no intention to claim any compensation, I don't want to hear about your insurer and I don't care about your policy, I want you to apologise and do better.

Yes I guess it would depend on the severity - I guess I was thinking more of a bite than a scratch.

I just find it interesting that you are more concerned with someone trying to do the right thing than someone who just apologised and walked off. If the insurance was aware then likely to be consequences for the dog (lead only, or always muzzled etc) so someone who involves their insurance is much more likely to 'do better' in future than someone who just apologised and probably says 'he's never done that before ' (usually a sign he most definitely has) but I understand what you mean about not rational or thought out.

Imo 99% bites are the fault of humans, virtually always the owner.

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 11:09

Newfluff · 07/08/2025 10:31

Yes I guess it would depend on the severity - I guess I was thinking more of a bite than a scratch.

I just find it interesting that you are more concerned with someone trying to do the right thing than someone who just apologised and walked off. If the insurance was aware then likely to be consequences for the dog (lead only, or always muzzled etc) so someone who involves their insurance is much more likely to 'do better' in future than someone who just apologised and probably says 'he's never done that before ' (usually a sign he most definitely has) but I understand what you mean about not rational or thought out.

Imo 99% bites are the fault of humans, virtually always the owner.

I just don't know whether contacting your insurance is doing the right thing for you or doing the right thing for me.

The policy rule saying you shouldn't apologise/acknowledge anything is about controlling their (yours) costs and liability, making it potentially harder for me to get the compensation, not easier. So I'd want the police record to make sure I'm not missing something important.

I suppose we are just imagining different situations and would be more aligned in real world. If it is a serious bite and the owner half mouthing an apology and "he's never done it before", of course I'd want an official record.

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 11:09

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 07/08/2025 09:35

Insurance will often cover medical bills and legal costs.

Legal costs of which party?

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 07/08/2025 12:11

DoYouReally · 07/08/2025 07:44

I didn't say it would be the dog's fault.

I said any dog who bits someone should be put down and I stand by that.

I agree. People don’t seemed to have grasped that it is not a question of ‘fault’ but that a dog that has bitten a person or animal should be put down that it can’t do that again.
If this were law, might actually make owners keep their dogs under control.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 07/08/2025 12:41

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 11:09

Legal costs of which party?

Depends on the policy.

labtest57 · 07/08/2025 13:52

PixiePuffBall · 07/08/2025 09:25

Apologise and offer the person your dog bit some kind of compensation. Or don't be surprised when they choose to take it further

Your dog will need to be muzzled in future around anyone who isn't you

Have you read the entire thread. The op was the one bitten

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2025 14:01

MrsGuyOfGisbo · 07/08/2025 12:11

I agree. People don’t seemed to have grasped that it is not a question of ‘fault’ but that a dog that has bitten a person or animal should be put down that it can’t do that again.
If this were law, might actually make owners keep their dogs under control.

Edited

My dog has never been out of my control. But the times kids have snuck up behind us and made him jump??

No way would I have got him pts for that. He never did. But some dogs could and the parents are the irresponsible party that caused the bite in those circumstances

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 14:09

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 07/08/2025 12:41

Depends on the policy.

That isn't really useful for the bitten person.

Which leads back to: the dog owner's "no comment, will go through insurance" translates as a kind of "fuck of" to the bitten person, and the only reasonable response is calling the police, because there is no reason to expect the insurance company would do anything for the bitten one unless ordered by some authority.

ForMerryMauveDreamer · 07/08/2025 14:10

EmmaD11 · 06/08/2025 18:35

I can’t believe you are trying to shift blame on to a child. I don’t care what a child does, if the response from a dog is to attack it then the dog needs to be destroyed.

The sense of entitlement shown by some dog owners is appalling.

The sense of entitlement shown by some parents is appalling. The amount of idiots who allow their child to run up to my dog is unreal. Make sure your damn kids stay away from my dog, and I will ensure my dog stays away from you!

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2025 14:18

ForMerryMauveDreamer · 07/08/2025 14:10

The sense of entitlement shown by some parents is appalling. The amount of idiots who allow their child to run up to my dog is unreal. Make sure your damn kids stay away from my dog, and I will ensure my dog stays away from you!

Oh no no. Only dog owners can be entitled!

Tryingtokeepgoing · 07/08/2025 17:56

Whaleandsnail6 · 07/08/2025 07:22

I'd expect adults who do understand (including me) to prevent children/vulnerable people from waking her by touching.

My dog is a rescue greyhound. She is quite aloof and shy with strangers. She does not seek people out to sleep close to them. She loves to lie on her bed, which is in an open crate or on a spare settee in a quiet room, away from the main living area. There is no reason whatsoever for anyone to approach her, even accidentally when asleep.

We wake her by going near her and calling her name if she needs to wake up.

I do not accept that if someone went and touched her when asleep,if she snapped, that this would be her fault.

No, it’s not the dogs fault. It’s the owner of a potentially dangerous animals fault for enabling the situation to occur and put the animal and people at risk in the first case. Either don’t let people near the animal, or don’t let the animal near people. What you don’t do is hope that an accident doesn’t happen, and if it does seek to blame the dog surely?

If it was a piece of dangerous machinery it would be no defence to say that the person shouldn’t have gone into the room in which the machine was kept. The employer would be at fault for having an unguarded machine and for not preventing an untrained / unqualified individual from operating it. The onus has to be on the owner of a potentially dangerous animal to have the appropriate mitigations in place. Otherwise it’s not fair on the animal or the people.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 07/08/2025 18:00

BrightLightTonight · 06/08/2025 16:38

No - I was just raising a question. The PP (not OP) said that if a dog bit she would expect the dog to die. I was just asking even if the person who was bitten was responsible. Fir example, if the owner said “Don’t put your hand through the garden fence” and the person did, resulting in being bitten, should the dog be killed?

Ah I see. I think if the owner has a dog that might bite the responsibility is on them to have a secure fence in the first place. I don’t see how you can blame someone who does out a hand though; sure, the owner might be there sometimes to ask them not to. But they won’t be there all the time, and not everyone will hear or follow the instruction. So the risk should be designed out altogether.

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:16

Tryingtokeepgoing · 07/08/2025 17:56

No, it’s not the dogs fault. It’s the owner of a potentially dangerous animals fault for enabling the situation to occur and put the animal and people at risk in the first case. Either don’t let people near the animal, or don’t let the animal near people. What you don’t do is hope that an accident doesn’t happen, and if it does seek to blame the dog surely?

If it was a piece of dangerous machinery it would be no defence to say that the person shouldn’t have gone into the room in which the machine was kept. The employer would be at fault for having an unguarded machine and for not preventing an untrained / unqualified individual from operating it. The onus has to be on the owner of a potentially dangerous animal to have the appropriate mitigations in place. Otherwise it’s not fair on the animal or the people.

A dog snapping after being startled awake is not dangerous.

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2025 18:34

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:16

A dog snapping after being startled awake is not dangerous.

This and a bite does not always equal an attack! An attack is a completely different thing

Tryingtokeepgoing · 07/08/2025 18:44

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:16

A dog snapping after being startled awake is not dangerous.

The PP to whom I was responding set out the circumstance where a sleeping dog was disturbed, and someone got bitten, and that in that situation it wouldn’t have been the dogs fault.

If you are saying that snapping never result in injury then there’s nothing for a dog to be blamed for. I am however dubious that that’s the case. For the person on the receiving end, whether a bite is as a result of snapping or attacking is irrelevant - the injury is the injury. And if there’s an injury then there must have been a dangerous situation that wasn’t prevented surely?

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:45

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2025 18:34

This and a bite does not always equal an attack! An attack is a completely different thing

If I am walking down the road, and a man grabs me from behind, I would probably turn and whack him. Pure instinct, and self defence. That does not mean I attacked him.
Some people on MN seem to be of the view that dogs should act like robots with no emotion, display of discomfort, not allowed to show warning signs that they don't like what is going on, or to defend themselves after a perceived attack, or they should not react at all to being sat on or having their ears pulled.

I have been stupid at times and leant on my dog when she has been on the sofa. She has growled at me to say to get off. So I do. According to some on here, she should be PTS.

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2025 18:47

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:45

If I am walking down the road, and a man grabs me from behind, I would probably turn and whack him. Pure instinct, and self defence. That does not mean I attacked him.
Some people on MN seem to be of the view that dogs should act like robots with no emotion, display of discomfort, not allowed to show warning signs that they don't like what is going on, or to defend themselves after a perceived attack, or they should not react at all to being sat on or having their ears pulled.

I have been stupid at times and leant on my dog when she has been on the sofa. She has growled at me to say to get off. So I do. According to some on here, she should be PTS.

Exactly this!

YeOldeGreyhound · 07/08/2025 18:49

Tryingtokeepgoing · 07/08/2025 18:44

The PP to whom I was responding set out the circumstance where a sleeping dog was disturbed, and someone got bitten, and that in that situation it wouldn’t have been the dogs fault.

If you are saying that snapping never result in injury then there’s nothing for a dog to be blamed for. I am however dubious that that’s the case. For the person on the receiving end, whether a bite is as a result of snapping or attacking is irrelevant - the injury is the injury. And if there’s an injury then there must have been a dangerous situation that wasn’t prevented surely?

Was it me? I said in a PP that I knew someone who had their dog PTS after a child sat on them. The dog was asleep, and also deaf.
The dangerous situation here was the parents not watching their child. A beloved pet lost their life as a result.

Newfluff · 07/08/2025 18:51

FourIsNewSix · 07/08/2025 14:09

That isn't really useful for the bitten person.

Which leads back to: the dog owner's "no comment, will go through insurance" translates as a kind of "fuck of" to the bitten person, and the only reasonable response is calling the police, because there is no reason to expect the insurance company would do anything for the bitten one unless ordered by some authority.

So is that what you would think it someone crashed into you in their car?