DD will be 6 in October, and DS will be 9 three weeks later. We‘re toying with the idea of buying a Switch, as a joint gift. We can’t afford two.
We would give the joint gift in September, and they will each receive something individually (Lego etc) on their actual birthdays.
We‘re quite strict with screen time compared to friends (apparently). DC are allowed one hour per day, and only once their room has been tidied. Any bad behaviour or rudeness, and screen time is the first thing to go. DS used to get 1.5 hours but it was affecting his behaviour so we shortened it. DS plays Minecraft on the iPad, DD plays Toca Boca on an old phone.
We are planning on ordering a bundle with Mario Kart. Any other games probably won’t come until Christmas. So the idea is that they will play together. We‘re planning on sticking with the one hour rule, and being more flexible at the weekend and in school holidays.
Does this sound fair? How is it in your house?