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How to deal with a third person interrupting me

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MrsSpencerCharnas · 03/08/2025 14:15

So this has happened to me a couple of times and I really don't know how to handle this. So looking for ideas if it happens again.

There I was talking to person A when person B has come up to me to talk to me about something completely different. Just cuts me off mid sentence. A & B don't know each other. I was in the town center as there was an event on so was in a public space.

Previously when it happened A and B were two different people to A and B today.

If I talked to person A then I'm being rude to B. If I talked to B then I'm rude to A. I don't want to be rude to either. So how do I politely say to B that I'll talk to them when I've finished the first conversation? "sorry 2 mins, I'm just talking to A here" or will that make both A and B uncomfortable?

My DCs tend to do it when I'm talking to DH, but that's easy to deal with cos I don't need to be as polite to them and me telling them not to do it is trying to instill some manners to them. Its not something that I can say to someone outside of my family in the same way.

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ohyesido · 03/08/2025 16:33

“Hold on I’m talking to A at the moment B”

B is the rude one not you. If you stop talking to A then you become the rude person

Hatty65 · 03/08/2025 16:37

'Just a minute, Brenda. I'm in the middle of saying something to Anne'.

If Brenda feels uncomfortable she might learn some manners.

HollyBookBlue · 03/08/2025 17:38

Interrupt B and say, "Oh hi B, have you met A? We were just talking about where to buy soft bath towels" and then carry on your conversation with A, and if B joins in with the topic at hand, fine.

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