Husband has suicidal thoughts

[MissEloiseBridgerton]

My husband has just disclosed that he has been having suicidal thoughts. For years. I knew he had always struggled with his MH, but it ebbed and flowed. He has ADHD. I never had any idea how bad he felt. We have had a long chat, he says he feels safe tonight but he is going to the Samaritans office tomorrow and the GP on Monday. I have no idea what to do, or say. I'm terrified to go to sleep in case he leaves. What do I do?!

The fact that he told you and that he wants to get help is hopefully a really positive step towards his recovery. He obviously felt secure enough with you to tell you about this even if it is a shock to you.
All the best to you in this difficult time.

I think you can sleep safe in the knowledge that your husband has no plans to end his life. He says he feels safe tonight. I would suggest Talking Therapies in your area. They are a google search away.

Thinking about it and planning it are two different things. I've struggled with intrusive thoughts for years. Medication and therapy help me. I'm sending you and your DH both a handhold and positive thoughts for brighter days. 💐