Adultwork

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Hello my husband of 10 years has been using adultwork. I’ve found emails. He changes his username so I don’t find out. This time I’ve found emails with different username
and I’m tempted to log in and click forgot password and
see the email from
them and make up new password and log in. But he will know it’s me as he will then
not be able to log in. But I know he has messages as the emails say he has new messages. I want to know what’s in these messages. Is he asking for pictures. Or meet ups?? I thought we were happily married. So why would he do this. I just don’t want to have it out with him as he gets so defensive and angry. It’s making me go crazy. Any help would be appreciated x

Off topic but i got suspended for putting up an advert looking for a threesome with my FWB.

its definately people looking for a good time, i think id be wary of your husband. That or fab, which is another site hes probably using.

Good husbands and fathers don’t contact prostituted women even just for photos. You use it to your sons to give them a better role model and if you have daughters, then a dad who respects women!

A "good hubby" wouldn't be on adultwork. And he is going out of his way to hide it because he's doing something he knows you wouldn't approve of.
It depends what you deem as acceptable but I wouldn't be happy with any contact of it.. images, webcam, meets etc means he is getting his needs met by other women and paying for it.

Men don’t want sexual arousal and then nothing. I suspect any man who visits strip bars or goes on onlyfans (or whatever) of also visiting escorts. I’d even be suspicious of a regular porn user. Sexual frustration is horrible. No man wants arousal without orgasm. Also, it’s just so easy to find escorts now. A man can scroll through local escorts on his phone while his wife is sleeping next to him in bed. I would bet many women on MN are married to men who have visited escorts and got away with it.

I’m sorry this has happened to you OP. If it’s any consolation, you’re not alone. Men have their brains in their dicks I’m afraid. x

Do you work, OP? This might be the time to start looking to gain some independence. Do you own your own home?

"He's a good hubby."

Good 'hubbies' don't use prostitutes, OP. Nor do good fathers.

Um...

No he's not.

He's a potentially (probably) cheating sleaze

He's really not though is he?

People always say 'he's a good husband and father'.

He's not. A good husband & father doesn't put his children's mother through this and jeopardise wrecking the whole family.

anyone that turns to social media is looking for attention not support, TBH "we split up cos i found this" within weeks he will put his story out there that she didn't do this or that and it was boring or non existent frigid etc.

all the advice from ladies to leave him etc, i promise you these ladies would not want there life to change but will give their advice to others to finish her relationship !!! concentrate on getting your relationship back in shape, or they will continue to pay us £150 an hour i make £60k + per year cos married men are not getting sex so i thank you all.