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I’m not missing something here am I? Universal credit, renting and saving for a deposit.

337 replies

tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 17:36

Keeping it a bit vague. I’m separated, STBXH and I were looking at figures last night and we’re not going to come out with much to put towards a deposit. We’re looking at around £15k each, I’d need a deposit of around £60k - £70k and that’s to buy a 2 bed house.

We’re in the South East and house prices here are high, rent is high. We’re already in the ‘cheaper’ part, moving further away from where we are puts us in prime commuting land and would be more expensive.

Anyway, it’s likely I will end up renting and saving for a bigger deposit. I did a calculation on entitled to (based on no savings) and I could get some help with rent, which is great. It means I could save some money each month and then hopefully buy after about 4 years.

But now I’ve looked into it further, if you have more than £16k in savings you aren’t entitled to any help. Which I do understand, but it then means that after all essential bills and costs are covered, I’d have about £200 left a month. Which doesn’t go far with 2 kids and certainly wouldn’t leave me anything to save.

So essentially I’m never going to be able to save a deposit am I?

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Maryberrysaga · 26/07/2025 21:53

SprayWhiteDung · 26/07/2025 21:49

On a simple intellectual level, it does sound straightforward that "the taxpayer shouldn't be helping you to buy a house", but it's far more complicated than that.

If UC were designed to help those at rock bottom to survive their very worst period, it would make sense; but as PPs have said, the whole UK economy is based around allowing employers to pay millions of working people far too little to live on, meaning that the government is expected to top up their income to an amount that they can actually live on indefinitely.

Effectively, the system is based on the idea of giving a person a fish every day, rather than on the much wiser sustainable and dignified principle of teaching a person to fish... and it's all sponsored and tightly controlled by Massive Fish Shops 'R' Us.

Edited

37% of people claiming UC are working. So whilst those people may well be on a wage too low to support them and that does need to be addressed, the majority of people claiming UC do not work.

Hankunamatata · 26/07/2025 21:57

Blushingm · 26/07/2025 18:15

Those with a mortgage instead of rent don’t get UC

if you’re saving for a deposit and using UC to help then why shouldn’t those with a mortgage get help with living costs too?

UC is suppose to help in the short term

Thats incorrect you can get UC if you have a mortage

TheGentleButFirmMadonna · 26/07/2025 21:58

Upsetbetty · 26/07/2025 17:49

You will just have to increase your income.

How much mortgage would you be approved with your current status?

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caringcarer · 26/07/2025 22:01

Miley23 · 26/07/2025 21:05

Do you still have eleven of them or was it twelve?

12 now and buying a holiday let too.

tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 22:07

TheGentleButFirmMadonna · 26/07/2025 21:58

How much mortgage would you be approved with your current status?

A calculator on the MSE website says between £87000 - £122000.

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Hankunamatata · 26/07/2025 22:08

Would putting the money into a private pension be allowed?

TheGentleButFirmMadonna · 26/07/2025 22:18

Can you find realistically something for this money ?
A friend of mine have shared ownership but not sure how does it work
Could you move back to your parents?

TreesOfGreen99 · 26/07/2025 22:19

Op you mentioned your parents are local, would it be possible for you and the 2 dc to move in with them for a couple of years while you continue to save instead of renting your own place?

bagginsatbagend · 26/07/2025 22:31

Can’t you buy a share in a property? That way you’re able to still get UC top up plus if needed I’m sure you able to get some support towards paying the rent part. You’ll have to look into though, were mortgage free on our tiny 2 bed terraced as we could never afford to move anywhere bigger than our starter home & we don’t get UC either, but I’m sure I’ve read somewhere about a share in a property & still being able to get support. If you get support towards a mortgage on UC it’s a loan not housing benefit but the rent part is treated differently I believe. Might be an option then you can keep purchasing a bigger share until you’re 100% bought in

Allisnotlost1 · 26/07/2025 22:37

tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 20:23

We are going to stay here for at least a year, I’m just an incredible over-thinker and I am running through 101 scenarios 😂 This one just hurt my head a little.

We have already discussed us doing the ‘nesting’ thing with me going to my parents and him staying at work overnight. So we have options, which is very fortunate.

Im off to update my CV and start a proper job hunt!

Have a look at the new developments locally, they’re offering shared ownership but I don’t know much about the terms and how they compare to other options.

AutumnFog · 26/07/2025 22:38

Thunderdcc · 26/07/2025 17:54

Although potentially if OP could claim UC for 4 years then buy a house, as opposed to being on it forever, overall she might claim less UC.

I do agree with PP, UC is a safety net, not for saving £60k with. But putting people in a position where there is no point them even trying has downsides as well.

If she doesn't have enough money to save anything without UC paying her rent then realistically she's not going to be able to get a mortgage. What would happen when mortgage rates increased a bit? Or house maintenance needs doing?
Noone is going to lend to someone with only £200 left after essentials.

Inlawsfromhell456 · 26/07/2025 22:43

Op why cant you buy your husband out instead ?

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 26/07/2025 22:49

All those saying "Good grief. No". How many of you would honestly be able to buy a home on your own? I bet many of you are sitting in an ivory tower with a joint income or with family help

Uc provides money for people to survive. Its an average. If the op chooses to save by having say a cheaper basic phone, cooking from scratch, freeview tv, is mindful of her utilities usage etc, then why should she not be able to bank that money? Especially if others in similar circumstances spend theirs less wisely.

I understand benefits are not designed for saving to buy a house, but if the op is frugal enough to get out of the poverty trap in order to buy her own home which avoids her receiving housing allowance forever then imo this should be applauded.

Kalloedo · 26/07/2025 23:00

How old are you? My relative saved for a deposit while on benefits and it didn't affect his benefits because it was saved in a private pension. UC doesn't count a pension as savings at all, if you haven't accessed it (which you can't do until age 55+). He withdrew a lump sum at age 55 (tax free) and used it as a deposit on his first home (in London, so quite a high amount). But it does mean you can't access the money until private pension age, which might be too long to wait if you're quite young.

tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 23:00

Inlawsfromhell456 · 26/07/2025 22:43

Op why cant you buy your husband out instead ?

The mortgage where we are now (both combined? Are £1900 a month. I would need to add to that to buy him out. I can’t pay the mortgage on my own, let alone anything else.

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tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 23:01

Kalloedo · 26/07/2025 23:00

How old are you? My relative saved for a deposit while on benefits and it didn't affect his benefits because it was saved in a private pension. UC doesn't count a pension as savings at all, if you haven't accessed it (which you can't do until age 55+). He withdrew a lump sum at age 55 (tax free) and used it as a deposit on his first home (in London, so quite a high amount). But it does mean you can't access the money until private pension age, which might be too long to wait if you're quite young.

30 😳 but thank you for the suggestion anyway!

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SameOldMe · 26/07/2025 23:05

tiredconfusedhungry · 26/07/2025 17:36

Keeping it a bit vague. I’m separated, STBXH and I were looking at figures last night and we’re not going to come out with much to put towards a deposit. We’re looking at around £15k each, I’d need a deposit of around £60k - £70k and that’s to buy a 2 bed house.

We’re in the South East and house prices here are high, rent is high. We’re already in the ‘cheaper’ part, moving further away from where we are puts us in prime commuting land and would be more expensive.

Anyway, it’s likely I will end up renting and saving for a bigger deposit. I did a calculation on entitled to (based on no savings) and I could get some help with rent, which is great. It means I could save some money each month and then hopefully buy after about 4 years.

But now I’ve looked into it further, if you have more than £16k in savings you aren’t entitled to any help. Which I do understand, but it then means that after all essential bills and costs are covered, I’d have about £200 left a month. Which doesn’t go far with 2 kids and certainly wouldn’t leave me anything to save.

So essentially I’m never going to be able to save a deposit am I?

Have you thought about past rent part buy? There are some places south east that will let you buy only 10% of the property. UC will then help towards the rent and service charge. Then each time you manage to save you could potentially buy a bigger share.

Miley23 · 26/07/2025 23:08

caringcarer · 26/07/2025 22:01

12 now and buying a holiday let too.

People like you disgust me . You have no shame and despite making all this money you also claim benefits as well. I know that PIP is not means tested but honestly why would you be greedy enough to claim it when you are making thousands a month from 12 rental properties and buying holiday homes. Honestly you have no shame.

SameOldMe · 26/07/2025 23:19

SameOldMe · 26/07/2025 23:05

Have you thought about past rent part buy? There are some places south east that will let you buy only 10% of the property. UC will then help towards the rent and service charge. Then each time you manage to save you could potentially buy a bigger share.

Something like this :
https://www.sharetobuy.com/properties/432001/
you can buy a 10% share only , then no deduction if you use all your savings for the deposit. You would get the rent and service charge as an element from UC.

CT6 7FH - 2 bedroom house in Lower Herne - Kent

Home 113, the Hazel, a stunning two-bedroom end of terrace home at Greenwood Gardens at Lower Herne Village.

https://www.sharetobuy.com/properties/432001/

Imnotgonnamiss · 26/07/2025 23:25

BeltaLodaLife · 26/07/2025 17:46

It’s the opposite. You need to better yourself if you want to have certain things. If you want to buy a house, you need to go an earn that money. Do you actually think the taxpayer should be handing the OP £60,000 so she can buy a house? Because that’s what sheas asking for.

UC is to give you extra when you need it to live month to month. It’s not to give you a £60k house deposit. If you want that, you have to earn it.

I don’t necessarily think they should but I’m always amazed at the idea people seem totally onboard with the taxpayer paying for rent to a private landlord so they can pay the mortgage on a second home while being so firm that it would be wrong to let someone save or even get help with their own mortgage while receiving benefits.

AlexisP90 · 26/07/2025 23:32

Ohh it's a hard one!

Nothing against anyone who claims UC but it's supposed to be there to help you live. To get by. Not save.

It must be so hard to get out of the benefit system - I can imagine. Some family members of mine have never been able to.

But... the other side is it took me over 10 years working hard and saving hard to afford a deposit for my home. I've never claimed any benefits but I would be pretty miffed If I knew people that were claiming benefits were still getting them with £10k+ in the bank to be honest.

So... as much as I do sympathise that it's frustrating for you I have gotta say I think its only fair they stop after a certain amount of savings. You technically don't need what it's there for - to live, pay the bills and eat - anymore.

AspiringMermaid · 26/07/2025 23:45

To echo what others have said, there are so many careers that you could switch to without a degree, and have a much higher earning potential. I am in a similar position thinking of a career change, I want to WFH. I'm considering applying for fraud investigator for a credit card company (salary is 27k, entry level job) and then to segway into the governance, risk and compliance side of cyber security (not very technical). Being a case worker you must have many transferrable skills, use chat gpt for a list and ideas! Maybe have a look into project management or HR

Redburnett · 26/07/2025 23:57

Why not just stay married?

tiredconfusedhungry · 27/07/2025 00:01

AlexisP90 · 26/07/2025 23:32

Ohh it's a hard one!

Nothing against anyone who claims UC but it's supposed to be there to help you live. To get by. Not save.

It must be so hard to get out of the benefit system - I can imagine. Some family members of mine have never been able to.

But... the other side is it took me over 10 years working hard and saving hard to afford a deposit for my home. I've never claimed any benefits but I would be pretty miffed If I knew people that were claiming benefits were still getting them with £10k+ in the bank to be honest.

So... as much as I do sympathise that it's frustrating for you I have gotta say I think its only fair they stop after a certain amount of savings. You technically don't need what it's there for - to live, pay the bills and eat - anymore.

No, I agree with you. But it just seems backwards to have to use savings to live on, until I qualify for help, to stay renting for the foreseeable future (potentially). When a smaller amount of help in the medium term, would mean people wouldn’t have to be on UC indefinitely.

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tiredconfusedhungry · 27/07/2025 00:02

Redburnett · 26/07/2025 23:57

Why not just stay married?

What an odd suggestion. Erm… because my ex husband has a problem with staying faithful and I’m not here for that. Fuck that.

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