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Has anyone successfully returned to a professional role after mental health burnout

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Watermelonnice · 22/07/2025 12:19

If so, would you mind sharing how you got back into it and if you needed any adjustments or specific changes? Any other advice?

I had a complete burnout recently and after a few months off am finally feeling much better at home and in a position to think about work which was one of the main causes in the beginning, along with probably menopause.

I have been having therapy and meds and doing exercise and meditation. It’s been a long process and I want to get back to work but don’t want to feel worse again!

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marmitencrumpets · 22/07/2025 14:29

No advice OP but interested in any others can offer.

Glad to hear you are feeling better and good luck!

Rattyandtoad · 22/07/2025 14:33

Good CBT and coaching.
Also changed jobs. Pressure the same (NHS) but team better. Have to keep reminding myself to step back. Accept what I cannot change. Remind myself it is not my failure, put my kids first. It's a constant battle with myself to not take on too much. Not there yet.

sonjadog · 22/07/2025 14:37

I did many years ago. It actually went a lot better than I feared. I do remember being very worried about it, so you have my sympathy. I think the first six months I went in and did the minimum that I had to do, so no extra projects, classes etc. On the whole, the burnout taught me to listen to my body and say no a lot more.

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user1471538283 · 22/07/2025 14:43

I returned to work with the same employer after a 7 month break because of a stress breakdown. I did a phased return over a couple of months and I took lots of leave. I had an amazing line manager and holistic support. But it was a return to the office role so I had colleagues support as well. It still took months for me to even feel half right particularly because I had to go through mediation.

My breakdown was due to my ex LM and I never reconciled that she got away with doing it to me and others. It changed me. It made me more anxious but also I refused to get in that state again. I also recognised bullies straight away and that they are all the same and say the same things

Narcparentsurvivor · 22/07/2025 19:29

I had a complete breakdown caused by work, ended up off for 6 months and then went back to the same employer but in a different location, team and role. When I went back, my GP insisted on a very phased return over 3 months as I was still having treatment (anti-depressants, counselling and seeing the GP every week). I got back to work okay, but had a flare up about 3 years later when I ended up being diagnosed with PTSD and needed further treatment for that. It wasn't just the work breakdown caused it, there were abusive ex things caused it too. I'm a lot better now and am mostly stable.

wizzywig · 22/07/2025 19:57

Op I'm also in need of this advice so thank you. I wish you and @marmitencrumpets all the best xx
So far I'm having weekly therapy, occ health, a lot of pilates and meditation. My employers have been kind enough to outline clearly that they do not feel they are at fault despite me having concrete evidence. I say 'kind enough ' as now it is clear I have 0 obligation to do anything but the minimum

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Rattyandtoad · 22/07/2025 14:33

Good CBT and coaching.
Also changed jobs. Pressure the same (NHS) but team better. Have to keep reminding myself to step back. Accept what I cannot change. Remind myself it is not my failure, put my kids first. It's a constant battle with myself to not take on too much. Not there yet.

I could have written all this except I’m a senior leader in a school.

The biggest difference was changing to a new school.

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