I have been through hell with him the last few years with my 20 year old so. He is Neuro divergent and has always been difficult to parent. He's never taken responsibility, always blames others. Always falling out with friends and just causing drama. He was into drugs a few years ago, mainly weed and vaping THC which I caught him doing in my house. He stayed with a relative for a while but soon went back to his old ways. Eventually I took him home and he started vaping again. I locked him out and made him sleep in the porch. It was after this that he came back and stayed clean for over a year. I managed to get him help for his mental health, signed him up to he gym and eventually got him a job which he has been in for 6 mths. He earns good money but again has started going out and hanging with a bad crowd, he started drinking and gambling. He came home stupid hours and I had to battle to get him to go to work. How he hasn't been sacked yet I do not know. I have just caught him vaping THC in his room again. I knew something was up, and only realised when I tried it myself. Initially it tasted strong and just flavoured. But then I felt funny after a few minutes. It was awful. My dad is dying and I am struggling with him and caring for him. I just can't cope. Why has he started again now? It's like he doesn't care. He spends all his money on rubbish. He can't stay with any family and he doesn't have any real friends that would put him up. I can't continue like this. He has a temper and has punched his doors and walls previously. He was doing so well and seemed to turn a corner. He just surrounds himself with the wrong people.