I have absolutely nowhere else to post this, having found out a month ago that my partner who I loved dearly was cheating. It had been going on for months, ended messily,he's left me for the OW and erased me from his life like I never existed. My little DD and I have been knocked for six but aanyway...
DD has been made Head Girl at school and we are over the moon! She always wanted to be head girl and after a real struggle earlier on in primary she's done it. Then today she found out that she's passed her guitar exam with distinction. I am absolutely proud of her considering the upheaval in the last few months. She adored my ex and she just couldn't understand why he'd leave us so suddenly. She cried for him.
It makes it all the sweeter because he was a musician and said several times that she wasn't very good and would never be a musician. He also said she'd never make head girl. This was during his discard period and of course she will never know he said that, it seems like he was jealous of a 10 year old as well as a lying, cheat. DD adores playing her instruments, its her main hobby and they often played together, she did this, however all on her own, because when he was busy wooing his new woman, we were left waiting at home.
Her achievements in the last months and throughout her life always make me realise that no matter how tough things are my little girl is so special to me. She's the purest soul, kind and to have anyone say she wasn't good was the kicker that made me realise this man was not worth a dime.
I've had to delete all my social media due to the split and I'm missing posting the happy news. DD is so happy and that makes my healing journey worth it.