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Open-plan kitchen diner in the 1980s – how typical?

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Darlingyeap · 13/07/2025 07:56

Hi everyone,
I’m writing a novel set in 1980s UK, and I have a slightly odd question – but it’s important for the setting, so I hope you don’t mind!
I’m curious about how common it was for a middle-class home in the 1980s to have an open-plan kitchen diner — not with a kitchen island, but just a regular dining table placed in the middle of the kitchen space where the family would eat. Was that a thing back then, or is it more of a modern trend?
And if a family did have a kitchen diner, would they also usually have a separate dining room — maybe one reserved for guests or special occasions?
I didn’t grow up in the UK, so I’m trying to make sure the details feel realistic for the time. I’ve also heard that people used to be more particular about keeping food smells out of dining areas — is that something that influenced home layouts back then?
Thanks in advance for any memories or insights you can share — they’d really help!

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Suednymph · 13/07/2025 13:59

Growing up in the 80's in a house built in 1975 we walked in the front door and to the left side was our sitting room/living room and to the right side (from a decent sized hall) you walked into our dining room so it had a dining table one side and a corner sofa type thing on the other side and between the actual kitchen part was a high counter that you could sit stools at but it was part of the kitchen if that makes sense? the kitchen was square and not huge but had all mod cons for that time and the area to walk in and out was the size of a door space but no door. Maybe not explaining well.

foreverbasil · 13/07/2025 14:02

Like other people we all squished around a tiny table in the corner of the kitchen. Dining room was for Sundays and Christmas only. Mother was obsessed with food being hot and only way to do this was to eat about 4 inches away from the cooker apparently

user2848502016 · 13/07/2025 14:08

I don’t think it was very common, we had quite a large kitchen with a table in it where we would eat most of our meals, but also had a more formal dining room. Thinking back most people had a similar setup or a small kitchen and separate dining area.

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RosesAndHellebores · 13/07/2025 14:18

Open plan kitchen/dining/family rooms weren't a thing.

Some people had a table and chairs in the kitchen, how big depended in the size of the kitchen/house.

Some people had a table and chairs in the kitchen and a separate dining room.

Some people had a tiny kitchen with a separate dining room or dining area in the sitting room.

What I don't recall is homes having no space at all for a table and chairs for communal/family eating.

Fully fitted kitchens were coming in the 60s/70s. Not everyone had a fitted kitchen in the 80s/90s.

What was very unusual in all but the grandest houses were multiple bathrooms. Middle class houses tended to have vanity units in a couple of bedrooms.

Mooselooseinmyhoose · 13/07/2025 14:20

Samesame47 · 13/07/2025 08:30

We were more working class living in an 70’s or 80’s built bungalow on a large purpose built housing estate (shops, school etc)

we had an open plan kitchen/diner, it was a long/thin room with u shaped kitchen in one half and dining room table in the other. The rest of the layout consisted of 3 bedrooms, a
bathroom and living room. From recollection the 2 storey houses were built with dining room separate to the kitchen but with a service hatch between the two.

This! I came to say This. Surely 80s was all about serving hatches!

TaraRhu · 13/07/2025 14:35

Nepe we had a galley kitchen and a 'breakfast room' attached. Then we had a real dining room that was used twice a year!

BogRollBOGOF · 13/07/2025 15:21

My experiences of houses in the 80s/ original 80s design:

Traditional 3 bed semi, small kitchen (possibly slightly extended), had a pull down table for breakfast/ lunch/ tea. Dining room off hallway for whole family dining.

Traditional 3 bed semi, very small kitchen. Dining room (front) knocked down into lounge. Accessed off hallway.

Large Edwardian house, good size kitchen still with 60s (possibly 70s) fitted units, larder. Opened onto "breakfast room" Had seperate formal dining room for special occasions (plus lounge)

Large pre-Victorian house, "breakfast room" knocked through to kitchen. Beige fitted units with wood trim. Seperate formal dining room, lounge and "living room"

80s house 3 bed. Seperate rooms with serving hatch. Beige fitted units with wood trim. Had utility room off kitchen.

80s house 4 bed. Originally seperate rooms with doorway joining. Had utility room off kitchen.

80s DIY was often not kept up to date and following trends. There was a lot of mid-century decor surviving that was built to last and used to death.

80s could be an odd mix of modern beige units, but dining rooms had throw backs to dark, hardwood pre-dating minimalist light wood of the post-war mid-century style. Mahogony was desirable before it was banned due to deforestation. Decor could be quite chintzy (heavy florals) or plain magnolia. Collectibles or "best china" were desirable and might be displayed on a dresser. Decor was unlikely to be very matchy and could be a bit jumbled by current standards.

A newer house would retain the building specs it was built with. Owners were unlikely to rush into changing for fashion and to personalise.

An older house could retain older decor and often have a collection of different periods going on. Restoring older features covered up/ removed in mid-century trends wasn't a high priority, nor decorating in sympathy to the house's original era.

Darlingyeap · 13/07/2025 15:23

Just dropping in again to say thanks so much for all the replies! I’ve really enjoyed reading through everyone’s thoughts. I’m not able to reply to each one, but I’ve read them all and it’s been super helpful. Can’t share too much about the family background just yet (still figuring out the characters and plot), but hearing real-life experiences means a lot – especially since I didn’t grow up here. Really appreciate it!

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CharlotteFlax · 13/07/2025 15:25

We had a peninsula between the kitchen area and dining bit, like what is fashionable now, all the way through the 80s!

autumngirl714 · 13/07/2025 15:29

I get up in the 90s, but the house was very much decorated in the 80s!

Our kitchen and dinning room were separate but there was an internal window(?) which made the rooms feel somewhat connected.

I don't really remember sitting around the table as a family, as my dad worked late. I do remember always eating my tea with my sister at the table.

My nanna and grandad had a wider kitchen to us and they had a small table on the kitchen.

I think it just very much depended on the size of the kitchen! It was certainly nothing like what we see now. If a kitchen fit a table, then so be it!

Darlingyeap · 13/07/2025 15:36

Btw, I saw a few posts mentioning they had a peninsula in their kitchen back in the 80s, which really surprised me! I always thought peninsulas didn’t become popular in the UK until the early 2000s. Just goes to show how much earlier some trends started than I assumed!

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MyLov · 13/07/2025 15:43

Spacie · 13/07/2025 08:14

Kitchen diners existed but lounge diners were more usual. A lot of small new builds had tiny kitchens. Kitchen islands weren't a thing.

This. Most people I knew at that time had lounge diners rather than kitchen diners, if they weren’t separate rooms. This is further evidenced by the fact that when I was looking at buying around 12 years ago and we were looking at a fixer upper almost all of these either still had separate rooms, or, more likely, a small kitchen with a lounge diner.

Some people with bigger houses in the 80s also had a kitchen big enough for a table in addition to a dining room.

As a working class person the council house I grew up in had a large lounge, small kitchen and no dining room.

Ellmau · 13/07/2025 15:49

We didn't call it open plan but our kitchen was big enough for a table which was where we normally ate. We did have a separate dining room (with a serving hatch from the kitchen) but it was only used for best. In the mid-late 80s, my parents had the kitchen redone and a breakfast bar replaced the table. After that we either ate at the bar (breakfast and lunch), or in the sitting room on trays while watching TC (dinner). The dining room remained reserved for best :) Children did homework either in the kitchen or the dining toom.

Our house was built in the 60s and we lived there from the early 70s. I think new builds usually had smaller kitchens and maybe a dining table at one end of the sitting room. Age of house at the time is pretty important, and area. Some places have large stocks of older houses, others had a lot of new building in the 70s/80s.

Fitted kitchens were less usual, we had standalone fridge and oven before the refit. Washing machine and freezer in a separate utility room (only bigger houses would have had those though), no microwave or dishwasher. Double sinks. Carpet (hardwearing type) on the floor. Don't forget the kettle. A small (possibly only AM) radio on a shelf, no other entertainment. A shelf for cookbooks. Some houses had a freestanding dresser in the kitchen for storage, we just had cupboards.

Middle class is quite a broad category too. How many bedrooms are you thinking the house has? How well off are the family?

Buxusmortus · 13/07/2025 15:55

My house was built in 1986 and I have kept the original layout. Large living room, separate dining room, kitchen with an arch at one end into a "breakfast room" with patio doors leading into the back garden. I have a 4 seat table and chairs in the kitchen and a larger dining table in the dining room.

Fifthtimelucky · 13/07/2025 16:14

The house I grew up in (60s and 70s) had a big kitchen that we always ate in. It wasn’t that big, but was easily big enough for a table that sat the 6 of us comfortably, because we had a separate utility room and a large walk-in larder. We never called it the kitchen-diner. It was always just the kitchen.

The house also had two big reception rooms. I imagine that most families would have used one as a dining room, but we didn’t. A friend with a bigger and older house than ours had a formal dining room and a separate “breakfast room” off the smaller kitchen.

I think it was only when smaller houses started being built in the 1970s and 1980s that people had either a kitchen-diner or a lounge-dinner. Neither of those were words that my very middle class mother would ever have used!

MoominUnderWater · 13/07/2025 16:21

The one thing you probably do need for sure in an 80s uk kitchen is “chicken tiles”. Seemed all kitchens had them! 😂. And a soda stream

Open-plan kitchen diner in the 1980s – how typical?
User76745333 · 13/07/2025 16:24

All of the council houses in our small town had a kitchen diner. Then a lounge. No separate dining room. There were only two styles and both had them. They were 60s/70s built though, not 80s built.

wotsitallfor · 13/07/2025 17:05

1970s semi. We had a kitchen which had room for a small table and benches where we mostly ate. Serving hatch into a dining room which had doors that could open to the lounge if wanted. Used occasionally.
Got the kitchen done and changed to a breakfast bar which wasn’t great really and then had to use the dining room more.

runningonberocca · 13/07/2025 18:07

Grew up 70’s/80s.Parents reasonably well off but not wealthy. We had a big kitchen with kitchen table where we all ( 8 of us!) had our meals. Separate living room although some of us would use the kitchen table for homework, jigsaws etc or just to hang around with our friends away from my parents. No separate dining room.
It was just called the kitchen.

Single50something · 14/07/2025 19:03

Late 80s we had a new build. It had a kitchen diner and a separate dining room and separate sitting room.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 14/07/2025 19:08

My Grandparents, Northumberland, working class as Grandad was a Miner, had 2 rooms downstairs, kitchen with fire and kitchen table, fireside chairs and the room used 90% of the time. The other room for 'good' and fire lit only when in use.

FusionChefGeoff · 14/07/2025 19:14

In the 80s we had a kitchen diner with a counter (would be called a breakfast bar now but we never called it that and no one sat at it) that Mum used for prep (and for sitting us on to tend to wounds or haircuts!) and a dining table in the kitchen space. The ‘dining room’ was used as a games room.

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