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Just need to share this because I’m still so angry and upset — especially on behalf of my son.

40 replies

saudades15 · 08/07/2025 15:01

Edited by MNHQ to remove identifying details.

We went to Pizza Hut in Canterbury High Street recently. I placed a takeaway order and while we waited, my son (young child) picked up a tiny bowl of salad — just cucumber and carrots — from the self-serve salad bar. There's a massive sign that says “UNLIMITED SALAD.” We were paying customers.

Out of nowhere, the manager came over and SNATCHED the plate from his hands mid-chew and threw it in the bin. Not a word of warning beforehand — just pure humiliation, and directed at a child. Only afterwards did she bark at us that he wasn’t allowed to have any.
I was so shocked I asked for a refund, but ended up staying because my son was hungry and already upset. I stood by the kitchen (not in the way!) and spoke to the cook — who was lovely and even quietly said we’d be better off going elsewhere. So clearly staff know what she’s like.
She also spoke rudely to another mum and her kids when they walked in. The whole vibe was just hostile and cold.
I complained to Pizza Hut expecting an apology — and instead got a cold, dismissive response and refusing to take responsibility for any of it.
AIBU to be absolutely disgusted by this? I’ve never experienced anything like it and honestly, I just want to make other parents aware.

OP posts:
UnfashionableArtex · 08/07/2025 15:18

@TigerRag Okay, lovely, but OP and her son were not given permission to do this so 🤷‍♀️

Dublassie · 08/07/2025 15:19

YOU are completely in the wrong here . Your 5 year old had time to get a bowl and then take some salad. You know well that it's for 'eating in' customers .

Completely on you and yet another example of entitled parents and their kids ......

PolyVagalNerve · 08/07/2025 15:20

DragonTrainor · 08/07/2025 15:14

also the kitchen staff member you were talking to who said you should go somewhere else may not have meant what you think

Yes, like go elsewhere … can’t be doing with this drama here today !!!

Seagull5 · 08/07/2025 15:22

Why were you not watching him
The salad needs to be paid for it's not free for takeaway

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 08/07/2025 15:30

Yeah, because five year olds serve themselves bowls of salad all the time rather than waiting for pizza.

im Immune suppressed. It is because people like your child that any kind of buffet is off limits to me..

even if you’re eating in your child should not be helping himself unsupervised.

UnPetitCochon · 08/07/2025 16:07

Salad is for eat in customers only. Why would you even think it was for take away customers?

Yes, it sounds like a the manager was abrupt and rude and could have handled it better. But as you weren’t stopping your son, the manager did instead. Also, did he even use the tongs to get the food? I’m sure you’re going to say he did but I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t.

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 16:13

The person working there should not have snatched, if that is actually what happened. I'll take your word for it. But I've got no idea why you allowed your child to do that. It's obvious to anyone that it's for sitting in customers only. It's "free" because it's part of the meal they are sitting in to eat.

JDM625 · 08/07/2025 16:15
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Was this your son???

DisforDarkChocolate · 08/07/2025 18:21

I'm wondering now of there was any snatching

PiggyPigalle · 08/07/2025 18:47

There's a thread running, asking if people laugh at what they read.
I've soaked a Kleenex with laughing tears at the OP. Especially the Unlimited Salad sign. Is your boy age 5? I doubt he read that, so who said he could have it?

OP it was a misunderstanding and your little boy has forgotten all about it, as long as you do.
Remind him when he's grown up, of the time he stole the salad though. I tell my daughter of things she did as a child, she has a great laugh at them.

Whaleandsnail6 · 08/07/2025 18:54

I thought the unlimited salad was part of a buffet that you pay for?

What bowl did he put it in? Is there takeaway cartons by the salad or did he use a ceramic bowl for eating in?

I think you are all in the wrong...the worker didnt handle it great but you also should have stopped your son from digging into the salad before checking that salad is for everyone, takeaway and restaurant customers.

You have complained... I'd just let it go now and move on.

lostinthesunshine · 08/07/2025 20:04

A question for all the people who are saying that is just so obvious that the salad is only for those people eating in …

… are you talking about a different Pizza Hut?

Just need to share this because I’m still so angry and upset — especially on behalf of my son.
PolyVagalNerve · 08/07/2025 20:34

lostinthesunshine · 08/07/2025 20:04

A question for all the people who are saying that is just so obvious that the salad is only for those people eating in …

… are you talking about a different Pizza Hut?

I’ve a feeling that the the OP’s child didn’t help themselves to the takeaway salad box and fill it to take out with the takeaway pizza…..
no ……
keep little one’s hands out of communal salad buffet - or we will all end up with it worms 🪱

WilfredsPies · 08/07/2025 20:58

I don’t think either of you covered yourself in glory, to be honest. I don’t know what you thought you were doing allowing a five year old to help themselves to salad, but you shouldn’t have done it. And disclosing what the other staff member said to you is a shitty thing to do and could cause them some real problems.

On the other hand, I don’t think you’re the only person who has experienced a similar level of customer service from that branch.

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 21:01

lostinthesunshine · 08/07/2025 20:04

A question for all the people who are saying that is just so obvious that the salad is only for those people eating in …

… are you talking about a different Pizza Hut?

In that case you probably have to ask for a box, say how mamy boxes you're taking and take it to the till, to then be taken home. It's not for kids to stand around helping themselves. Also it says that's limited time only.

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