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Tipping in hotels?

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Jonesboot · 02/07/2025 18:21

If you stay in a hotel do you tip and when? I usually hand over an envelope at the end that's a joint tip for all staff. It seems a fair way to tackle things, and low key. My friends in the US also like to do a tip for all staff, but they hand it over at the start of their stay. Theory being it will encourage staff to give them good service. That feels a bit in your face to me, but maybe I'm being a bit too British about it. 😁

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Chewbecca · 02/07/2025 18:23

I don't 🤷
Really do not want to encourage bad American habits to be imported to the UK.

BrentfordForever · 02/07/2025 18:26

I tip in certain countries, more to housekeeping staff and perhaps at restaurants if we eat in

we don’t hand in envelopes though x

Jonesboot · 02/07/2025 18:26

Chewbecca · 02/07/2025 18:23

I don't 🤷
Really do not want to encourage bad American habits to be imported to the UK.

I didn't think tipping was an American habit, maybe how it's done could be? I've been tipping good service for, oh, around 30+ years.

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Chewbecca · 02/07/2025 18:32

Tipping is surely an American habit!

Mainly because they don't have adequate minimum wages, nor pay their staff appropriately so tipping is expected to top up their wages. It's not a desirable or efficient system as it leads to uncertainty for the recipients as well as the consumers.

Jonesboot · 02/07/2025 21:17

I'm really surprised. I thought in the UK tipping is a sign of appreciation. Every day a school day.

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Crushed23 · 02/07/2025 22:44

Jonesboot · 02/07/2025 21:17

I'm really surprised. I thought in the UK tipping is a sign of appreciation. Every day a school day.

There is no tipping culture in the UK. The “optional” (not so optional) service charge in some restaurants has confused things a bit, but there absolutely is no expectation of tipping in the UK. Some people do choose to tip, however. I never tipped hotel staff in the UK, just like I never tipped hairdressers, manicurists, facialists etc. I live in the US now and tip all of these workers.

User14March · 03/07/2025 08:50

What about those that carry heavy bags to your room or car? And if you do, both at start or end of day.

User14March · 03/07/2025 08:53

*stay not day.

TheSmallAssassin · 03/07/2025 08:57

User14March · 03/07/2025 08:50

What about those that carry heavy bags to your room or car? And if you do, both at start or end of day.

They're not doing it as a favour! It's their job. I always carry my own bags, but if I didn't I would just say thank you.

I tip in restaurants and occasionally tip hairdressers or taxi drivers. I often ask bar staff to "take one [a drink] for yourself", which they seem happy with (like I used to be when I was a barmaid), but like others have pointed out, we're not generally a tipping culture.

yeesh · 03/07/2025 08:59

I don’t tip in uk hotels. In other countries I follow the local custom and tip what ever is usual. I would never give money in an envelope though, feels very condescending to me.

User14March · 03/07/2025 09:00

TheSmallAssassin · 03/07/2025 08:57

They're not doing it as a favour! It's their job. I always carry my own bags, but if I didn't I would just say thank you.

I tip in restaurants and occasionally tip hairdressers or taxi drivers. I often ask bar staff to "take one [a drink] for yourself", which they seem happy with (like I used to be when I was a barmaid), but like others have pointed out, we're not generally a tipping culture.

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Thanks. If I stay in a plush hotel with a work conference etc it feels sometimes expected & I feel like it might be the etiquette? Is it different at say the Savoy etc? USA tourists I guess will def routinely tip the Bell boy etc.

TheSmallAssassin · 03/07/2025 09:03

To be honest, @User14March, this is why I always carry my own bags, to avoid any awkwardness! I have only stayed at The Savoy overnight, so it wasn't an issue 😊

tammienorrie · 03/07/2025 09:04

Never. Although it appears to be expected in the US.

User14March · 03/07/2025 09:32

yeesh · 03/07/2025 08:59

I don’t tip in uk hotels. In other countries I follow the local custom and tip what ever is usual. I would never give money in an envelope though, feels very condescending to me.

Seems to be the form on USA type cruises post cruise for lots of staff.

shellyleppard · 03/07/2025 09:33

I leave a tip in the restaurant if we have had a fantastic meal but otherwise......no I don't tip

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