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Our poor NHS nurses

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onehorserace · 26/06/2025 07:30

Having just spent a week on a ward I am horrified by the things I have seen nurses having to put up with. I have always had respect for nurses but with today's attitudes their job is so much more difficult.

Why do so many patients act as if they are in a private health system? Demanding to see THEIR doctor right now.. shouting and butting into other patients' time with the nurse? Talking to nurses like shit .

Why do so many patients question absolutely everything they take apart from the lithium and the oramorph?

Why are relatives gathering in their hoardes invading wards from 8am when visiting times start at 10? Also talking to nurses like they are shit.

Why are so many patients in denial about the damage THEY have caused their body by their own behaviour with alcohol and drugs and blame it on everything else? Eg the antibiotics

Why do some patients go walk about for hours on end then to come back and complain they haven't had their meds and then have a major meltdown at 10.30pm when others are in bed - seriously ill people. They treat hospital like it is a hotel.

The amount of money I have seen burnt this week by ungrateful sods is beyond belief. Sadly this " entitled" lot don't seem to appreciate what we have here.

Our poor nurses!

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itbemay1 · 22/09/2025 21:57

smallglassbottle · 26/06/2025 12:14

Low quality people are in the majority now. They're generally low in intelligence and unable to regulate their emotions. They're socially illiterate and never mix with more regulated people so believe theirs is the right way to behave. Add to this illness, frustration, boredom and possibly pain and it's going to result in a toxic outcome. Some people are mentally ill or have dementia.

Nurses only have so much to give and become burned out when exposed to this amount of poor behaviour. It's a risky job, both physically and mentally. They're human like everybody else. There used to be an unwritten, unspoken contract between patient and nurse, but that no longer exists so chaos ensues. The contract was, you behave and do as you're told and you'll receive decent care. Of course that doesn't work now and interferes with patient autonomy, consent and choice. More capable patients can navigate this balancing act by being polite but assertive, but others can't or won't.

I've experienced both sides and it's horrible. We can't turn the clock back so it'll just continue until the health service collapses. Nurses lasting only five years post graduation is not a good outcome.

Agree

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