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Do you have an inner monologue?

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samarrange · 25/06/2025 20:21

I started this thread in response to a post on another thread that got me thinking about things that are "obvious" to some people and "impossible" to others. Now, a couple of posts on that thread have got me thinking about another topic in a similar vein, so off we go on another tangent...

To me, an inner monologue means that there is a voice in your head (whether or not it's "audible", but it's communicating with you in grammatically-formed sentences) telling you what to do next. Not in a psychotic kind of way, but something like what @bringinguptherear wrote here: "If you suddenly realise(*) the bins need taking out do you not think “I need to take the bins out?” In words?" [emphasis added by me]

As far as I can tell, I do not have an inner monologue. Something, somehow reminds me that it's Tuesday and I take the bins out without being aware of those words. While writing this post I got up and grabbed a few crisps from a bag, and I don't think the word "crisps" came up. When I discovered the whole phenomenon of inner monologues I was shocked, like the first time I discovered that the sun goes from right to left across the sky in Australia. (Please don't make me start yet another thread about whether you knew that! 🤣)

Anyway, this is a nice article about inner monologues, discussing how we all think in different ways. Maybe this discussion will open a few eyes, which (I think) is always a good thing.

(*) In this quote I have corrected what I am guessing was an autocorrect-induced typo. Hope this is OK, @bringinguptherear. 🙏

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Selfsetfree · 26/06/2025 10:41

Yes always the same voice (mine) but it’s busy in my brain. Sometimes I have to relay situations out loud to understand them when I’m stressed.

Onthewaytothemountains · 26/06/2025 12:21

I can visualise things, but oddly I can't visualise exactly what my own face or my husbands looks like, but other people I often can, which I find disturbing.

I have an inner monologue but it's not really a proper sound, just my thoughts being articulated. I think there is some confusion here about what hearing your voice means.

iamnotalemon · 26/06/2025 12:30

I wish I could mute my thoughts and brain for a bit. It’s tiring.

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