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What non-obvious things make a house feel clean?

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Custardapples · 18/06/2025 22:19

Obviously you can have a clean sink, loo, etc. but I think there are some non-obvious things that help make a house look and feel clean and I want to know what they are! My house never feels like this and some other people’s homes do. I feel like I’m missing crucial knowledge of how this works.

One thing I’ve just discovered is that the grout between our kitchen floor tiles hasn’t been sealed and that’s why it’s always so grubby. Things like that.

What else can I do to help my house feel clean, fresh and pleasant apart from the obvious?

Thank you!

OP posts:
pinkstinks · 19/06/2025 09:07

Imbluedalale · 19/06/2025 00:40

I have a new build home and I am obsessed with cleaning . This is due to me spending a period of time homeless last year and whilst I was in my hotel room I yearned to do some cleaning and promised myself once I get a home I would never grumble again.
I have quite a few useful cleaning tips …

get one of those sponge on a stick and either put Zoflora in or fabric conditioner and water and wipe down all your skirting boards , doors and radiators with it . The dust will come off and not only that but will make your home smell lovely

For a clean fresh sink use a dishwasher tablet and hot water

To clean dirty seals in the window frames get a paintbrush and hot soapy water

To get rid of marks on a shower door use a sponge on a stick and put in white vinegar then dry with a dry cloth

To quicken your ironing time put foil over the hot part of the iron . This ensures both sides are ironed at the same time

For a fresh smelling sofa use a wash tablet in hot water in a bowl . Get a cloth and wrap it around a saucepan lid and use the lid to wipe the sofa . Sofa will be clean and smell amazing

Amazon do the best window cleaning mousse all you need to do is spray the moose and wipe with kitchen roll or blue roll for amazing clean shiny windows

Can you link the Amazon mousse? I’m intrigued! Thanks!

PiggyPigalle · 19/06/2025 09:09

ERthree · 19/06/2025 09:06

White window frames end up really grubby if you burn candles especially cheap candles. You really don't notice how grubby there are until you have washed and polished them.

Breathing that in. I do wonder how safe they are.

Discombobble · 19/06/2025 09:10

Allergycream · 18/06/2025 23:00

The minimalist look im a minimalist.
Windows open.
No pets.
White plain walls.
No clutter.
No pitchers every where.

Sounds like a doctors waiting room!

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viques · 19/06/2025 09:11

Thinlyveiled · 18/06/2025 22:51

Where can i get radiator duster?

Lakeland ( online) or find one of their shops and walk around thinking “I can’t keep up with the cleaning tasks I know about, let alone the new ones that Lakeland have invented a gadget for.”

When I moved to this house many years ago it took a while before the washing machine was sorted so I used the local launderette. While I was there one day I overheard two women, one of them said “ I’m all behind, it’s Wednesday and I haven’t washed my skirting boards this week.” I realised there was no way I was going to be able to maintain keeping my house up to local standards of cleanliness so I gave up.

My ex sister in laws house was immaculate, but she had no books, no pets, no real flowers, no personal belongings on show and her house gave out the emotional warmth of an unopened box of tissues.

EdithBond · 19/06/2025 09:12

pinkstinks · 19/06/2025 09:07

Can you link the Amazon mousse? I’m intrigued! Thanks!

Vinegar, lemon juice and water solution in a spray bottle with a squeegee.

Buff with screwed up newspaper.

Dominoeffecter · 19/06/2025 09:13

Anotherscrubber · 18/06/2025 23:55

Don't be sarcastic. A lot of people in the UK use jugs.

I’m pretty sure she meant pictures

AngelicKaty · 19/06/2025 09:13

@Custardapples "We have small children who are 80% crumbs held together by something sticky so there’s that." 😂 LOVE this - can't get the image out of my head now! 💜

EdithBond · 19/06/2025 09:17

viques · 19/06/2025 09:11

Lakeland ( online) or find one of their shops and walk around thinking “I can’t keep up with the cleaning tasks I know about, let alone the new ones that Lakeland have invented a gadget for.”

When I moved to this house many years ago it took a while before the washing machine was sorted so I used the local launderette. While I was there one day I overheard two women, one of them said “ I’m all behind, it’s Wednesday and I haven’t washed my skirting boards this week.” I realised there was no way I was going to be able to maintain keeping my house up to local standards of cleanliness so I gave up.

My ex sister in laws house was immaculate, but she had no books, no pets, no real flowers, no personal belongings on show and her house gave out the emotional warmth of an unopened box of tissues.

I can’t relax in homes like that. So soulless.

As my mum says: empty house, empty mind.

A home without books, pictures, plants and items you’ve picked up as you go through life is a red flag for me.

Clutter, no. Interest, yes.

Anotherscrubber · 19/06/2025 09:20

Dominoeffecter · 19/06/2025 09:13

I’m pretty sure she meant pictures

Yes, us too.

gavisconismyfriend · 19/06/2025 09:21

Grey grout rather than white - never gets that old grotty look
clean light switches - often have dirty finger marks on, look so much better having had a quick wipe
likewise areas around door handles if your doors are painted, where the door gets pushed open rather than using the handle
magic erasers are a dream for getting marks of paintwork, scuffs off the bath etc

Arraminta · 19/06/2025 09:22

Was all your towels and bedding at 60 degrees. And wash very regularly.

researchers3 · 19/06/2025 09:23

Anotherscrubber · 18/06/2025 23:54

Lifestyle - that's my belief. Some people are naturally very clean.

I have been cleaning houses for a very long time, and some feel incredibly clean when I arrive...it's only when you get down to it that you can find the dirt. Other houses look and feel no better even after a good clean.

The houses which look and feel clean are the ones where the owners have a rational handle on cleanliness, and make sure kitchen & bathroom surfaces are attended to after use, things are put away, clothes are washed properly & laundry is up to date, beds are changed, and they use lots of coasters & things under things, as well as door matting, to reduce the dirt and associate smells to begin with.

Bad smells are also a sure-fire way for even the cleanest home to feel utterly rank...bathrooms can smell really damp in a special sort of damp-mixed-with-dust-mixed-with-pee-with-no-fresh-air, especially if they have carpets. But simply having scents around the house rather than having fresh air and laundering furniture covers, bed linen, coats etc. will only put a layer on it...smells need to be found and irradicated, not covered up.

Regarding the floor grout looking off, it could be that as long as the tiles are clean, along with the other parts of the room, it may not look that bad...sometimes seeing that one thing isn't clean in a room that clearly is clean can lessen the impact significantly. This said, it never ceases to amaze me how people frequently choose floor and wall coverings which look dirty to begin with...and far from the pattern hiding the dirt being an advantage, it has the disadvantage of never knowing if or even when the floor is actually clean.

I know I'm biased about grey carpets as I don't like the trend for grey at all, but grey carpets to my eyes never look clean, simply because grey is the colour many a carpet goes when it's grubby.

Perception plays a huge part in the psychology of "clean", but without looking around your home, I couldn't say what (if anything) you could do differently.

Edited

Ooh you sound good. Please come and tackle my house!

PiggyPigalle · 19/06/2025 09:23

Cleaning with fabric conditioner to make it smell nice?
Reminds me of a television programme where they took swabs of how much bacteria was in homes.
One kitchen was a walking mass of bacterial growth, including all around the cooking area. The woman stated she only used baby wipes to clean down!
Why are some so averse to hot water and soap?

fiorentina · 19/06/2025 09:29

Any white paint on skirting boards and windows etc being clean. Wiping down walls to remove hand and finger prints around light switches and door handles.

Definitely airing the house every day.
Washing all soft furnishings regularly helps - cushions, bedding - actual duvets and cushions etc, pet bedding very regularly.

Healthy green house plants also help.

cupfinalchaos · 19/06/2025 09:29

When I come home and floors are clean!

Starlight1984 · 19/06/2025 10:03

SocksOnTheWrongFeet · 18/06/2025 22:29

No clutter
Open windows freshens

This. And this Method cleaning spray

https://shop.methodproducts.co.uk/products/bathroom-cleaner-eucalyptus-mint/mtubandtile.aspx?productid=mtubandtile

Anxioustealady · 19/06/2025 10:16

Sasha07 · 19/06/2025 08:53

@Anxioustealady
Not a steam mop, no. It's Bissell Spinwave Electric Mop
Ahhh, it was on sale a few days ago but the price has gone back up. Fwiw, I paid £124 on Amazon. Just seen it's Prime Day 8-11 July so maybe see if it's reduced again then.

That's great, thank you :) I'll keep an eye on the price

Anotherscrubber · 19/06/2025 10:20

PiggyPigalle · 19/06/2025 09:23

Cleaning with fabric conditioner to make it smell nice?
Reminds me of a television programme where they took swabs of how much bacteria was in homes.
One kitchen was a walking mass of bacterial growth, including all around the cooking area. The woman stated she only used baby wipes to clean down!
Why are some so averse to hot water and soap?

Why are some so averse to hot water and soap?

Because just like tiled splash-backs in kitchens and baths which sit neatly & tightly to the wall, people often ditch the basic ways of keeping a home clean, in favour of something much more quirky. You can't "clean" with fabric softener.

Anxioustealady · 19/06/2025 10:21

PiggyPigalle · 19/06/2025 09:23

Cleaning with fabric conditioner to make it smell nice?
Reminds me of a television programme where they took swabs of how much bacteria was in homes.
One kitchen was a walking mass of bacterial growth, including all around the cooking area. The woman stated she only used baby wipes to clean down!
Why are some so averse to hot water and soap?

If you rubbed radiators and skirting boards with fabric conditioner, would dust cling to it more or less?

I hoover my skirting once a month and hope for the best.

Anotherscrubber · 19/06/2025 10:22

Anxioustealady · 19/06/2025 10:21

If you rubbed radiators and skirting boards with fabric conditioner, would dust cling to it more or less?

I hoover my skirting once a month and hope for the best.

I would very likely stick, yes, if left wet. You'd really have to buff all that crap off when cleaning...I can't see the point.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 19/06/2025 10:27

Custardapples · 19/06/2025 08:39

I do feel this. We both work full time - DH often doing evenings and weekends on top. We have a toddler and an older child with additional needs. Plus we are supporting an unwell older relative who lives a couple of houses down.

I really, really struggle to find time for all of this. If cleaning everything every single day is the answer then I just can’t do it.

Same, we work, have a 3 year old, a dog, family and a small house. I physically cannot clean everything every day.

I've already said it but storage is key, I wipe down the kitchen surfaces after washing up on an evening, I have baskets for this like toys (dog and small kid ones) and they get chucked in there at the end of a day.

I like the "tray" idea from a PP for things like tables and windowsills for stuff that needs to be out but looks like clutter.

And I am in the process of throwing away stuff, because we've started "doing" rooms. Moved in 3 years ago but immediately had a baby so renovation went out the window and we moved from a bigger house to a small bungalow.

A "big vac" weekly too, including getting the tools out and getting into corners. Run it round quickly other days.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 19/06/2025 10:40

EggMonster · 18/06/2025 23:25

No life, and a compulsive cleaner?

Just what I was thinking!

OutandAboutMum1821 · 19/06/2025 10:45

Ooh also, glassware. I’ve got lots of tea light holders, decorative bits, fruit bowls which really benefit from a good rinse every week or 2. Glassy photo frames I wipe with my mirror/window spray too.

Wiping down internal doors/wiping light switches. Wiping all electronics (screens and controllers) with a special spray. Hoovering the sofa and mattresses when you change the beds.

Also know your own hot spots- my TV and unit are the biggest dust magnet in the house. On a bad week/a last min guest is about to arrive, I would always dust my TV and unit over anything else, and the window sills. Tops of bookcases/wardrobes/skirting boards can be pushed to fortnightly (eg if we were all ill/busier week, etc).

Also, there are many ways to make the whole process more efficient. Eg I sprayed my whole bathroom with cleaning product and applied bleach first thing before doing the school run, so it’s busy working hard for longer whilst I do the food shop, then all ready just to wipe off once the shopping in unpacked. Or I’d apply that before dusting and hoovering the other rooms. Or before Saturday swimming lessons. Set your washing machine timer so you can hang things up when suits you. Do bits at times that work for you.

Cannaa89 · 19/06/2025 10:47

Robot mop/hoover. Life changing for me, the house has never been cleaner.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 19/06/2025 10:47

For your grout issue/black mould in bathrooms, saturate either cotton wool pads or kitchen roll in near bleach last thing at night. If you roll bits, it will stick to the required spots without slipping. Leave overnight, remove, and it will be pure white again, or at least better.

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