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How can I find people to witness my deed poll signature? Friends all said no šŸ˜ž

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NattyFawn · 18/06/2025 11:53

Hi all,
I’m in a bit of a bind and hoping someone here might have ideas. I’m legally changing my name via deed poll and need two adult witnesses to sign the document. Unfortunately, it can’t be family, and all the friends I asked said no (mostly because they’re unsure what it means or don’t want to share ID).
It literally takes under 5 minutes:
āœ… You just watch me sign
āœ… Then write your name, address, and signature
āœ… Show a quick form of ID (passport or driving license)
You’re not legally responsible for anything – just confirming you saw me sign.
I’m in Wembley but can travel a bit, and I’m happy to meet at a coffee shop or restaurant and cover your food as a thank you.
Has anyone had to do this before or have tips on how to find people who’d be open to helping? I’ve tried asking online, but people are understandably cautious.
Thanks so much šŸ™

OP posts:
jay55 · 18/06/2025 14:27

Local library. If the librarians don’t want to someone nosy will likely volunteer

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 14:29

I guess they don't understand the implications of witnessing a signature. (Or, more accurately, the fact that there are no implications. They just need to sign to say they watched you sign.)

You can ask anyone, including a complete stranger. Work colleague? Neighbour? Librarian?

I once witnessed the will of a complete stranger I only met for about two minutes. I was working in the office upstairs and she asked me if I would do it. If anyone contacted me now (assuming they could trace me despite several address changes) I would be able to say, "Yes, that was me, and yes, I saw her sign."

SamDeanCas · 18/06/2025 14:30

That’s really strange if your friends, it’s no different to witnessing a passport or any other document.

my neighbours did mine

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 14:32

SamDeanCas · 18/06/2025 14:30

That’s really strange if your friends, it’s no different to witnessing a passport or any other document.

my neighbours did mine

It is actually very different to countersigning a passport.

To countersign a passport you have to have a suitable occupation and have known the person for more than two years.

Neither of those things are required for witnessing a signature. You could get someone you accosted in Sainsbury's to do it.

purpleygrey · 18/06/2025 14:35

You have weird friends.

Stoufer · 18/06/2025 14:36

Sorry Op, if this is genuine, but there is absolutely no way I would give a complete stranger my name, address, signature, and sight of my passport / driving license. That is a recipe for all sorts of financial fraud…

gamerchick · 18/06/2025 14:41

Stoufer · 18/06/2025 14:36

Sorry Op, if this is genuine, but there is absolutely no way I would give a complete stranger my name, address, signature, and sight of my passport / driving license. That is a recipe for all sorts of financial fraud…

Right. When someone gullible rocks up, it'll turn into 'i just need to take a quick photo of your ID'

Bonkers.

3678194b · 18/06/2025 15:14

There must be some work colleagues who would do this? Or even neighbours.

When I needed a Will witnessing I took it into work and the first 2 people I asked had no problem with this. What's so difficult to understand, it's just witnessing a signature! If I couldn't find anyone I'd call the local solicitors who are used this this, but will probably charge a fee. Sorry I'm nowhere near you but I hope you get sorted.

MischiefandMayhemManaged · 18/06/2025 16:21

Post office?

I changed my name when i was 18 but still at collage so i got my collage nurse - who i had known since i was 3! to do one signature, and i think the farmer down the road who was also a JOP to do the other.

But i'm fairly sure that the post office can/do offer a service or something like that - at least in the bigger ones?

TheodoraCrumpet · 18/06/2025 16:35

I got my neighbours to witness a name change form for me. We aren't close at all; it was simply that they were literally the nearest adults who weren't related to me on that day. I already knew their names and where they lived. I didn't need their ID, and the form I printed off was accepted by the passport office. I don't know why your friends wouldn't do it. It's very straightforward and has no implications for the signatories at all.

Stoufer · 19/06/2025 06:48

For those saying ā€˜why wouldn’t anyone do it’, it is the fact that the OP has asked that the person bring along ID, like passport etc, which is not actually required for witnessing a signature. So name, address, signature, plus ID would be the absolute jackpot for someone involved in financial fraud…

Myblueclematis · 19/06/2025 07:00

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 18/06/2025 11:55

DH and I paid a solicitor to do this. It was a long time ago but as far as I can remember he and one of his colleagues were the witnesses

Same for me, many years ago but the two secretaries to the solicitor witnessed my signature. No friends had to be asked.

RawBloomers · 19/06/2025 07:08

No one ever checks with the witnesses, OP.

Just saying.

dimples76 · 19/06/2025 07:10

You don't need ID from the witnesses to a deed poll.

Cassieskinsismad · 19/06/2025 07:14

Stoufer · 19/06/2025 06:48

For those saying ā€˜why wouldn’t anyone do it’, it is the fact that the OP has asked that the person bring along ID, like passport etc, which is not actually required for witnessing a signature. So name, address, signature, plus ID would be the absolute jackpot for someone involved in financial fraud…

Yeh, "where can I find..." rather rapidly turned into "will one of you...". A quick Google search would have answered the first question. And what's with the ID request šŸ¤” who does OP think the witness needs to show ID to?

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 19/06/2025 07:14

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 18/06/2025 11:55

DH and I paid a solicitor to do this. It was a long time ago but as far as I can remember he and one of his colleagues were the witnesses

Back in the early 2000s, my name appears as a witness in a dozens of patent applications.
I worked for a solicitor and i used to pop downstairs (with the senior partner) to their office as a witness.

It never occurred to me to say no. It sounds like the OP’s friends are maybe misunderstanding what’s required of them.

Frequency · 19/06/2025 07:17

I did this for my daughters ex. I didn't need to provide id. Are you sure you've read the form right @NattyFawn?

Tooteefrootee · 19/06/2025 07:17

Surprised noone has suggested a notary public yet.

RareGoalsVerge · 19/06/2025 07:19

How strange that your friends refused.
DH changed his name when we married so we had it ok the table in church when we signed the marriage register and it was witnessed by the MoH and Best Man. We had various other things to witness later on when we were in a new area with no friends nearby and we just put a message on a local facebook group and a couple of random neighbours, a retired teacher and someone who works in the Fire Brigade, kindly volunteered. It's such a non-big-deal. Do your friends actually disapprove of your name change and are refusing to witness as a way of registering their objection?

SarfLondonLad · 19/06/2025 07:19

My will was witnessed by my next door neighbours. Just ask any two people you know. All that's needed is a name and address after their signature.

SarfLondonLad · 19/06/2025 07:20

Tooteefrootee · 19/06/2025 07:17

Surprised noone has suggested a notary public yet.

Most (virtually all) of them are solicitors.

Gettingbysomehow · 19/06/2025 07:22

How bizarre they won't witness this. It's only a deed poll not guarantor for a flat!!! I get my work managers to witness things like this for me. I changed my name by deed poll some years back.

PeckyGoose · 19/06/2025 07:25

Do you work?

I usually ask my colleagues to do stuff like this if needed, we all return the favour for each other!

WhatDidIComeInThisRoomFor · 19/06/2025 07:28

Many solicitors won’t now witness or certify things unless you’re already a client/ known to them. Banks won’t do it either.

However as PP say you don’t need ID and you don’t need to be a trusted person. Try asking a friend again without the need for ID.

Agree counter signing for official stuff like passports needs overhauling. Many people don’t have personal connections with the trusted occupation lists or necessarily live near them if they do. People you know only professionally won’t do it.

saraclara · 19/06/2025 07:29

Why is their ID needed?