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Staycation ideas needed

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WordleAway · 13/06/2025 15:41

I’m a woman in my early 70’s with caring responsibilities for my older DH who has mid-stage dementia but who can be left alone for a few hours. Usually my diary is pretty full with things I need to do as well as small social things like dog walks with friends, which I love.

But, next week I have 4 free days with nothing booked so have decided to give myself permission to have a bit of free time and do “me” things. I can’t leave DH overnight, but would love some original ideas for things I can do to give myself a physical and mental break during my mini staycation. My main hobby is photography, so have a photo day at a local NT location as an option but would welcome other ideas. Thank you for your help.

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Katykaty11 · 13/06/2025 15:48

Do you mind saying where you live?

MoistVonL · 13/06/2025 15:50

I think it's hard to give suggestions without an area - going on the Settle to Carlisle train journey isn't going to be a useful suggestion if you live in Dorset, for example.

MadamCholetsbonnet · 13/06/2025 15:52

Go to a theatre matinee? Cinema? Art gallery? Museum?

MauraLabingi · 13/06/2025 15:55

If it's a physical and mental break I'd focus on those.
What kind of physical? Do you need to really stretch and use your muscles (suggestion = hiking) or do you need to ease muscles sore from bending (suggestion = swimming/spa)?
And what relaxes you mentally? Nature? Lazy charity shop shopping? Learning something new?

Meadowfinch · 13/06/2025 15:56

Do you have a bike? Quiet lanes or woodland nearby.

When I want some piece I take my bike out early and cycle the local farm tracks. I see all manner of wildlife, get some exercise and fresh air. It's like being 12 again. 🙂

Country pub lunch with a friend, or visit the V&A - my favourite museum. I don't know how close you are to London.

A pamper session - manicure, pedicure, head massage. Or go for a swim..

Could you get up at dawn and go to the coast, have breakfast overlooking a harbour?

Sparkletastic · 13/06/2025 15:57

Facial.
Delicious leisurely lunch with wine.
Gallery / museum.
Photography or other one day class - I did a fabulous perfume workshop in London.

MsPengiuns · 13/06/2025 15:59

It's puffin season if you are anywhere near puffins.

Canoeing if up to that.

Steam train if you have any around.

There might be some gardens open.

Dominicus · 13/06/2025 15:59

The best “me time” is stuff you like doing. Try to include some nature as that’s really beneficial.

Beach
Forests
Physical activity
boat rides
lecture/talk
visiting a city for the day

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 16:01

Let us know what area and we can give you some ideas.

JingsMahBucket · 13/06/2025 16:04

MsPengiuns · 13/06/2025 15:59

It's puffin season if you are anywhere near puffins.

Canoeing if up to that.

Steam train if you have any around.

There might be some gardens open.

I love how your post is related to your username @MsPengiuns. It’s really cute that they’re always on your mind. 🙂🐧

coxesorangepippin · 13/06/2025 16:10

Vague location would be handy

WordleAway · 13/06/2025 17:00

Katykaty11 · 13/06/2025 15:48

Do you mind saying where you live?

@Katykaty11 I’m in the East Midlands, just south of Derby, so pretty central.

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ClaudiaAndHerFringe · 13/06/2025 17:04

At last! Someone who knows what a staycation actually is!

Kedleston Hall?

Katykaty11 · 13/06/2025 17:12

How about matinee theatre show? Derby Theatre has Kiss me Quickstep.

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 17:15

Peak District-y things? Chatsowrth, obviously, also Haddon Hall (?).

If you put your location into the NT website it’ll tell you what’s nearby.

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 17:15

Day trip to Birmingham? Lovely art galleries, could hop in a cab to the Botanic Gardens.

WordleAway · 13/06/2025 18:56

Some lovely ideas here. Thank you all. Sadly the coast is a bit of a stretch for a day trip (about 2.5 hours away) but not been to Birmingham for years so that’s an option, and NT properties are a good call. Actually looking forward to it now … 😁

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bruffin · 13/06/2025 19:06

Ddakji · 13/06/2025 17:15

Peak District-y things? Chatsowrth, obviously, also Haddon Hall (?).

If you put your location into the NT website it’ll tell you what’s nearby.

We are on holiday in Peak District this week. Had a really lovely day at Chatsworth today
Also had great day at Gladstone pottery

MsPengiuns · 14/06/2025 20:54

Thank you @JingsMahBucket Love anything black, white and orange or tabby.

Hope you find something nice to do @WordleAway

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