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Am I being petty to not pay flatmates TV licence?

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ldnflatshareNC · 13/06/2025 14:50

I was subletting a room in 2b flat with flatmate ‘A’. I left sublet end of March, but because the bills were in another old flatmates name (so not ‘A’), only just sorting out now.

For starters I have had to chase flatmate ‘A’ 3 times about getting my deposit (2.5 months late in returning whilst he received full amount from landlord), but kept saying he’d prefer to sort out bills first before returning my half of deposit). Fair enough to sort out bills first but he has delayed things, and could’ve chased old flatmate earlier. Still don’t have my deposit

He’s now sent breakdown of bills and noticed he’s included TV licence. I didn’t have a TV! I never watched the flatmates TV alone, but sometimes we’d have dinner together with TV on in background (but because he chose to watch it not me!). TV licence is also paid as a household not per person, and it’s £14.54 for one licence a month, so surely should be halved. Also it was never even mentioned as a bill before agreeing to sublet, and I’ve never paid it for in other sublets.

Also does wifi share seem bit high? 2 bed share and the wifi plan is £68 a month or £34 each? (I never paid that much in other places).
I know they were with Virgin but funnily enough I’m currently with Virgin on a £29.99 plan so £15 halved. I even looked up Virgin wifi prices using the sublet postcode and the more expensive deals are including TV/ sky sports which I never watched or requested.

Or am I being super rude and petty to mention it, I worry I’m being biased after the delays in my deposit

Am I being petty to not pay flatmates TV licence?
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MNOP · 13/06/2025 19:56

Did they pay council tax in feb / march? Normally you don’t pay for those months.

ldnflatshareNC · 13/06/2025 20:59

even if they paid in 10 instalments instead of 12, I’d feel bit unfair to not contribute anything towards council tax (sublet was Feb and March funnily enough)

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ldnflatshareNC · 13/06/2025 21:00

SleepingisanArt · 13/06/2025 16:14

Internet depends on the package with virgin. We have the fastest mist expensive broadband but the smallest number of TV channels because the broadband is important to us - and yes it's the price you've been given.

Thanks helpful to know as sublet used Virgin too so may be genuine internet cost

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ldnflatshareNC · 13/06/2025 15:44

I’m a londoner who has lived in many flatshares it’s not too strange for the bills to be in an older flatmates name who recently left before, and then you all sort it after etc. The older flatmate/billpayer is also a friend of flatmate ‘A’ I was sharing with, hence they trust each other and it’s understandable older flatmate hadn’t rushed to change billpayer name etc.

Also, before agreeing to any flatshare or sublet I usually ask for rough average of bills but to be fair they can vary slightly depending on time of year. Tv licence was never mentioned on Spareroom ad or when discussing bills informally at viewing

I guess then this is part of the problem- rough averages. 🤷‍♀️

caringcarer · 13/06/2025 23:08

Politely go back and pint out it's only one TV licence required per property so say you will pay half.

mondaytosunday · 13/06/2025 23:18

Ask to see the bills in respect to the WiFi etc

FalseSpring · 14/06/2025 08:19

I would just tell him you will pay half of that total and say that you assume that was the total to be split as clearly the TV licence is the whole so can assume the rest is too.

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