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Breathtaking incompetence or just a passive-aggressive middle finger?

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FeeLipa · 12/06/2025 22:51

When my son was in Year 4, I was forced to remove him from his primary school after they reassigned his 1:1 support assistant to other duties during lunchtime—leaving him, a 7-year-old with Type 1 diabetes, to administer his own insulin unsupervised. Unsurprisingly, this led to several serious dosing errors.

I submitted a formal complaint to the governors, which predictably went nowhere. The panel concluded—shockingly—that a child with Type 1 diabetes doesn’t necessarily need insulin for a meal. At the disability discrimination hearing, the school argued that it wasn’t their responsibility to supervise him. The outcome? Because the school had unilaterally edited his medical care plan, it was deemed not their duty to monitor how much insulin a child was giving himself. A follow-up complaint to the Department for Education hit the same wall, as the school claimed they were meeting statutory guidance by supervising him. Completely contradicting the discrimination hearing.

Fast forward to Year 6: this week, my son's current school received a bundle of handover documents from the previous one. Apparently, they weren’t sure where to send it. Tucked inside were documents the original school conveniently left out of the court bundle—like paperwork showing how much 1:1 funding was allocated specifically for lunchtime support, and emails from the hospital clearly stating an adult should be supervising every insulin dose.

OP posts:
chipsticksmammy · 13/06/2025 18:13

@FeeLipa That is shocking.

I’m really sorry that’s the level of care the school think is ok. BG can change so quickly, diabetes is such a complicated disease and needs to be monitored so carefully.

If you do decide to continue, I know how tough it is to keep fighting, I wish you all the best. The school here are very much at fault and in the wrong 💐

FeeLipa · 13/06/2025 18:43

@chipsticksmammy Thank you. I'm incredibly frustrated, and I don’t think I can let this go. I’ve submitted a Subject Access Request to the Department for Education, and with our new MP being active and eager to make a good impression, I’m preparing to write to him as well.

The mental gymnastics are astonishing. I don’t see how they can claim it’s not their role to provide support in a discrimination hearing, while simultaneously presenting 'compelling evidence' to the Department for Education that such support was always given.

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ExperiencedTeacher · 18/06/2025 23:09

HollyBerryz · 13/06/2025 14:16

The SEND Tribunal doesn't give compensation.

I know- I’m a SENDCo. That’s why I was saying what the OP hopes to be the outcome will tell her the route she needs to take. If she were looking for compensation that wouldn’t be the right route.

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